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call it horemones, but i find myself crying for your pain...i'm so sorry you have to go through this...i don't know the story on your other pregnancies...but please dont blame yourself.
i can see how you would feel like it was YOU who couldn't keep them alive, as mothers, we tend to blame ourselves even if it's not our fault....
i honestly hurt for you...i'm so sorry...so sad...i really can't even imagine. then your best friend going through a loss...to top everything off...it's very caring of you to be concerned about your friend..and how she feels...but if you don't tell her...and she says something about the babies, that'll just cause even more devistation to the situation. you both have a loss, and are both allowed to grieve.
i can't imagine looking into the screen and hearing the dreaded words no mother wants to hear...and showing...etc...neither you nor will deserve it...don't just say he deserves better...its NOT YOUR FAULT. There is no one to blame, especially not you...you are far from needing the blame...focus on yourslef, remember your friend has family and friends who care about her. and probalby you too...people are usually open and warm to help family and loved ones.
again, i'm so sorry, and again my thoughts are with you completely...i really really feel for you. i don't even know you in person...but i know you are a beautiful person...when life sucks for me (i've been through alot my life....more than most 24 year olds) i say to myself "this too will pass" not so much for your loss...but the pain will dullen a little, and family and friends will be an amaazing support...and still we are here for you too
take care of yourself...we care about you
Love
Lyndsey
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You have every right to grieve...and be downright PO'ed about your loss. I am so sad and angry...Carol said it so well, it is as if the babies somehow belonged to all of us. I have been there as you know and feel your pain...you have my phone number, please call me if you need someone to cry with. I have already started....
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Have a blessed day!...Rachel
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I have IBS but it doesn't have me!
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I can't imagine.. if you need anything, let me know... you're not that far away.. but all I can offer for now is prayers and *HUG*s I know how hard losing each of my pregnancies was and none of them was twins, nor had I gone through as much to get there as you have!
Amie
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Both of you need each other right now. You need to comfort one another so you can get through this together, not alone. But, it's up to you. I think it will be much harder on you if you keep it bottled up inside of you.
Honey, I wish I knew why this happened. You are too sweet to have to endure so much pain. I don't think you deserve this at all.......But, please know that God is in control. He is in control at all times. Let Him help you get through this......
I'm serious, you need to take some time off. Have you told your boss, yet?? I cannot imagine you sitting in an office right now having to mourn for your loss. You should be with family right now so they can help you just get through the rest of the day. Let alone tomorrow..... 
Sending you my thoughts and prayers!!
Michelle 
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Michele, I am SOOOOO sorry. This is horrible news. I honestly don't have words to help you through this. Please know that we all on the Board are sending you all our thoughts and prayers.
Bless you.
Bev
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Michele, there are no words. I'm sending you an angel~
~nelly~ *tears*
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Michele,
I am so so so incredibly sorry. Like everyone else, I had to read the title several times and double check to make sure this is correct.
I can't imagine what you are going through, I agree that it is just cruel that this is happening to you.
I am sending all my thoughts and strength your way at this difficult time. I know that you will get through this, we will be here for you whatever we can do.
**hugs**
Love, Steph
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I don't even know how to express how sorry I am that this had to happen to you, Will, and your babies. My mouth dropped open at the subject line and my heart broke once I read your post. Just know that we are all here for you.
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Michele.. I know how hard it will be for you to tell your friend especially at this time. At first, I was going to say wait until after the funeral.. but its true that someone might mention something about you being pregant there as well to try to lighten the already sad sad mood at a funeral. That may make it much much worse for you. In that case, you should probably forewarn her. I'm so sorry you have to do this in the first place.
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