My son is right.... you can't cry to get what you want...
#209856 - 08/30/05 04:41 PM
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I dearly miss my dearest friend that died of cancer this May. As the school year looms before us, I remember all the great ti mes she and I had teaching together. I can't imagine going back to the classroom without her (I'm not - I'm staying home to raise my babies). But my son was so right. I was crying - thinking about how much I miss her and he retorted "Mommy - you can't cry to get what you want" ( we always say this to him when he throws a tantrum). Take it for a 4 year old to give me a life lesson. I know I have to go on but it's so hard with a huge gap left in my life. I miss her so much!!!!!!!! I guess I just need a hug. Never take anyone for granted in your life. Life is too precious. God bless you all. (crying). You all mean so much to me. Thank you for being a part of my life.
XOXO,
Alicia.
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Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.
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but it's good to cry when you feel like it! I used to never cry and it wasn't good for me at all. Crying is better! But I'm so sorry it hurts. You're right - appreciate those we love, that's the lesson, and I'm sure she knew that you did. Hugs!!
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Take care,
Michelle
...the greatest of these is LOVE. (I Cor 13)
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Just sending hugs your way, Alicia. I can't imagine losing a friend.
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Christine
Those who can do; those who want it done better teach.
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More hugs
#209975 - 08/30/05 08:47 PM
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Nelly
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Let it out, sweetie. It's hard. You lean on us as hard as you need to.
{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}
~nelly~
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Re: More hugs
#210074 - 08/31/05 09:50 AM
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michele
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You son is right, crying won't bring her back but it does help to let it out! Big hugs!!
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Taking it one day at a time.....
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Sending you more hugs Alicia. The others are right...it won't bring her back but crying is very therapeutic. I have a hard time letting it out, just going numb and holding it all in. But when I can cry, I feel sort of "cleansed" afterwards.
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~ Beth
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Awww Alicia!
Thanks for being part of hte boards and part of MY life.
That son of yours sounds like a cutie, I am sure that he will appreciate the story when he is older.
I am gonna echo everyone else and say that it is ok to cry and let it out sometimes, and DOES help, as much as we hate to admit it.
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-Sheri
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