Ruchie needs our love and hugs
#180132 - 05/19/05 02:05 PM
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ecmmbm
Reged: 02/23/03
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If you can post all your love and hugs to Ruchie she needs it right now guys. Maybe our positive thoughts and prayers and love can pull her from the gravity of this black hole that is trying to swallow her in....
Hope you're not bothered by this Ruch but I love ya, you need some LOVIN ON BABE!!!
Thanks everybody!!!
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Take care,
Michelle
...the greatest of these is LOVE. (I Cor 13)
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{{BIG BIG BIG HUGS!!}}
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Sorry things are so rough right now- hang in there. We're thinking of you!!!
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~~I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell-I know right now you can't tell~~Matchbox 20
IBS-D,pain.
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Hang in there, Ruchie, and know we're all thinking about you and pullin' for ya! *big hugs* and lots of love!
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Melissa
Friendship is thicker than blood. ~Rent
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Love you Ruchie. (((((hugs)))))
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Hope you feel better soon Ruchie! We're here to support you and love you every step of the way!! {{{Big hugs}}}
-Heather
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Heather
"Quod me Nutrit me Destruit"
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Ruchie come back!!! We need ya! Besides, we can all cheer you up!
BIG GIANT hugs coming your way! Feel them???? Take care sweetie! 
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~~~Lisa~~~
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Hope you're doing ok sweetie, we miss you!!!!!!
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Michelle....
I don't know what to say. I read this and began crying...
To those of you that are concerned....
I am not well.  I am dealing with a LOT. I have become anorexic again after not having that ED really severe since high school.
I am not having an easy time of it at all. I am NOT okay right now.
i haven't posted because I haven't had the energy AND I have felt like I won;t contribute positively right now. I am just having such a hard time of it...I don't feel I can be there for any of you proper;y right now. So I went away.....
I am watching movies, writing poetry, and sleeping a lot. I am doing my best to take care of myself. This often takes all day. Just to shower, eat, exercise, sleep, and cook. it is a lot for me right now.
I feel like I am in mourning. That is the best way I can desribe it.
I don't want to depress anyone. I hope I'm not 
You can e-mail me any time... Ruchily@yahoo.com. It is in my profile.
Right now it is difficult to see any light. There is much darkness. It is like I have lost someone very close to me. And I can't get over it just yet.
One day, G-d willing, I will be healthy. I don't think I've ever been healthy. But I am determined to be okay. I am asking G-d for help. I am fighting.
I've been fighting all my life. And I want to stop fighting.
But I won't. Even though I feel like it...I won't.
Please pray for me. Send hugs. And love. And e-mails. I need you guys...
Michele...I read about your baby situation. I just want to say how much I care about you....and that you are in my thoughts and prayers *hugs*
I hope everyone is well......I love you guys *big huge hugs*
Ruch
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Formerly known as Ruchie
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I don't care how negative you think you are, I still think you're amazing just for being you. Take the time you need to nurture yourself and build yourself up, but always come back ok?
You are kind, and strong, and beautiful. Yes you are.
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*Emma*
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Oh Ruchie!
You were there for me when I was so down...I want you to know that I'm here for you too sweetie. If you just need to talk, we are all here to support you. You have given us all so much...please take care of yourself.
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*Karyn* IBS D
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What if the Hokey Pokey is what it's all about???
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Oh Ruchie!
#180262 - 05/20/05 06:29 AM
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Sheri01
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Please feel better soon! I am here for you too. You are a strong, loving person and are definately a survivor, and you will get through this! EDs can be tough, alot of us on here know that. I feel like EDs and obsessing about food and weight will be a part of my life forever, but we can, and WILL overcome it!
Please hang in there sweetie, you have helped so many people through these boards, hopefully we will all be able to help you now
(((HUGS)))
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-Sheri
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Hang in there sweetheart! We all love you here! ***Hugs*****
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hadn't seen posts from yu in a bit, *HUG* I hope whatever is going on works out... DH scared me this past week by not telling me or renewing his AD's when they ran out and getting to be very depressed in the interim.... and not realizing it himself until after he had me thinking he was going off the deep end!
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Dietetics Student (anticipating RD exam in Aug 2010)
IBS - A
Dairy Allergic
Fructose and MSG intollerant
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Ruchie, I'm so sorry you are having such a difficult time. It touched me so much to know you are suffering so and still had heart to wish me well. You truely are a super person. I don't fully understand what you are going through but you are most definitely in my thouhgts and prayers. Lots of love and big hugs. You're such a wonderful person and deserve to be happy.
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Taking it one day at a time.....
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Big Hugs
#180302 - 05/20/05 08:30 AM
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Kristine
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Ruchie, please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Please hang in there and feel better soon. We miss you and want you back.
Thinking of you and sending love,
Kristine
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Christie
~Hoping and Praying for Sleep!~
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I know that some of you really truly wish you could help me. i am in shock that anyone cares this much. My therpaist didn't even care that much Telling me what happened wasn't that bad...that I overdramatizse it...that my problem is NOT the abuse but my perfectionism (a SYMPTOM of the abuse....he-LLO!)
Anyway...if you want more info. on what I'm going through...here are some links. Thanks for all the love and support...you guys are helping me get through this. *huge hugs* Love, Ruch
http://troubledwith.com/stellent/groups/public//@fotf_troubledwith/documents/articles/twi_024728.cfm?channel=Abuse%20and%20Addiction&topic=Sex%20Abuse&sssct=Background%20Info
http://www.geocities.com/anneofgreenegables/annespage.html
http://www.survivingtothriving.org/link#survivorsites
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Janey
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Ruchie, there is no way your posts could depress anyone, you are going through such a bad time, but you have still found time and energy to help other people, like answering my questions about gluten and loads of other people, too, I know. Your ability to go on fighting is an inspiration, your determination to be healthy is something everyone here shares, even if we all have different problems to struggle with ... Take care of yourself however you think best, but don't ever feel you can't post here, sometimes you don't have to be there for other people, you can just be there for yourself and let us share that too ... Not sure if that is clear, but I am sending you love, and I really hope and believe you will one day be well and happy, as you deserve.
Josephine
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With God's help, you WILL overcome! He is our healer!! Lean on HIM!!
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God is Faithful!
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Ruchie
#180406 - 05/20/05 02:29 PM
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BL
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Ruchie,
I love you! You are a beautiful person and a great addition to this board. Please remember that a lot of people are praying for you, including me.
((((((Big hugs))))))
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Ruchie!
#180543 - 05/21/05 08:54 PM
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Computr821
Reged: 12/02/04
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We're thinking of you! Hang in there!
Oh, and remember that paper I interviewed you for? I got a B+ in the class, so thank you SO much! 
Hope you had a good Shabbos, and a gut voch.
Avidan
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Why'd you have to go and make me so constipated?
--'Weird' Al Yankovic, "A Complicated Song"
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Ruchie!
#180547 - 05/21/05 09:57 PM
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Snorkie
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Ruchie, you are in my thoughts. I'm pulling for you! You're a wonderful person and a great help to many on the board. Hang in there! **HUGS**
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Ruchie-
It's terrible to me that a therapist would suggest that you are overdramatizing what you feel and your experiences. That's just ridiculous and insensitive of him/her!
I hope you're finding your way through this dark time. Look how many people care about you! You're amazing! It's been quiet on the boards lately, and your presence is missed. Thank you for posting the links, which were very informative and important. I wish there was a way I could be of better help.
Please take care.
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Avidan,
That's super about your paper!!!
Your father is a Rav right? Would you mind asking your dad for me if he knows of Frum support or someone Frum that has been sexually abused that wouldn't mind speaking to me? E-mail me back if you have any info. (or your dad can if that's best), at:
Ruchily@yahoo.com
Thanks for the encouragement...Shabbos was a growing experience! Hubby and I read Derech HaShem...the part about suffering. It was VERY helpful to me! How was your Shabbos? Take care...Gut Voch!
Ruchie
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