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I have a question...why is it that you think this is beautiful? I'm not sure I see the beauty in it 
I'm sooo thankful for these boards! That I can share this here...and not lose you guys as my friends *big hugs* Where I'm living right now...I told one person. And it seems things are not the same *tears* I'm trying to tell myself it's her loss....but I'm still just getting used to the fact that it wasn't my fault. I still FEEL that if she leaves it's because I'm garbage *sigh*
Thanks for supporting me...I love you guys! *big huge hugs*
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Formerly known as Ruchie
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Honey you are in no way shape or form garbage. And I can not allow you to see yourself that way. So let me tell you how others view you. Not only are you beautiful on the outside (I know from the gorgeous new pic you posted), but you are also beautiful on the inside!! 
You are the single most caring, loving, generous, uplifting, inspirational, motivating person I know. I love to read your posts or get e-mails from you b/c it is always a sunny spot in my day. And I know if you can go through all that you have and still be a caring and gentle person, then there is hope for me.
And if you lose your "friend" over this, then they were not your friend to begin with. Now wipe away those tears and let me that gorgeous smile! 
Your Friend,
Christie
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Christie
~Hoping and Praying for Sleep!~
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Christie,
You're making me cry!
I want to believe what you're saying and G-d willing one day I will! I've been told so many negat five things...it's tough to allow new ideas in. But I'm working on it!
Thank you for remaining my friend even though yo know what I've been through. A lot of people leave. They think it's my fault. Or whatever the reasons are....(maybe, G-d forbid, it brings up something negative in them as 1 in 3 women are abused).
I am finding my voice. I havent' had one since I was 2 or 3 years old...possibly never. I am soo thankful for these boards. When Heather asked me to be a moderator for the boards I put my pic up. I was scared to as I had been stalked not too long before.
Ever since I found the boards I have been open and sharing. And it the best thing...well, except for hubby and G-d of course, that's ever happened to me!
Thanks for being my friend Christie...it's an honor!!! *big hugs*
With love, Ruch
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Formerly known as Ruchie
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Christie
~Hoping and Praying for Sleep!~
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Wish we lived closer so I could come visit.
You are a wonderful, wonderful person and I am honored to know you. You're caring, thoughtful, loving and you have a beautiful soul. When you're feeling down, hang on to how much we all care about you!
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HUGS--HUGS---HUGS-----HUGS------HUGS an a lot more,
you are alive an you are a survivor an that is all that counts.
God Bless you my sweet child.an I will say a pray for you.
HUGS--HUGS---HUGS-----HUGS-------HUGS .
 GERRY.
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Neta G.Yale
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If you would like to just talk please e-mail I'm here for you.we are all here for you.I have never been abuse in my 70 years.so I'm a very lucky person.but I have had sisters who have been so I know what it is like.
Gerry.
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Neta G.Yale
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Have you read "The Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood"? It's one of my fave all time books and I lent it to everyone! My Mom calls it Valium in paperback!
Anyway, the reason I thought of it for you is that it deals with some abuse issues (as well as being a great book). My best friend (who's had major ED and depression issues partly due to her relationship with her parents) loved it.
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I have a question...why is it that you think this is beautiful? I'm not sure I see the beauty in it
Because surviving is strength and strength is beauty. You are a survivor, you are strong AND you are beautiful.
And your song is good work too. 
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*Emma*
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OOO, that is a good book, I have it, so if you want to read it, Rache, I could send it to you. Let me know!
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Melissa
Friendship is thicker than blood. ~Rent
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