Bad news - my Uncle Dick died
#158228 - 03/08/05 09:38 AM
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LauraSue
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I got a call this morning from my Uncle Dick's partner Ron. Dick killed himself three weeks ago. He was my favorite uncle. He was actually my dad's first cousin. They grew up together. Dick was such a handsome man, I always had a crush on him growing up. He and Ron had been together almost 40 years. I met Ron in the mid-60's when Dick brought his "roommate" home to Michigan for a family Christmas. I had gotten back in touch with them after my dad's death 7 years ago. I was their link to the rest of the family. Dick was such a gentle, wonderful, intelligent man. But he'd apparently gotten into financial difficulties and couldn't bear to tell Ron. He bought a shotgun from Walmart in December, Ron said, so he had been planning this for some time. He went way back in the woods near their house so that Ron wouldn't be the one to find him. Ron is absolutely devastated. What an awful thing. I wish there was a way to heal the world.
Thanks for listening. Hope I didn't upset anyone too much.
Love,
Laura
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Laura, I'm very sorry for your loss. 
What a tradegy for you all. Poor Ron. I can't even imagine how devastated he must be.
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Oh LauraSue I'm so sorry for your loss and I wish there was more I could say. It's always so hard to lose someone you love so much and have known so long like that.
I'll be thinking of you and your family. Lots of love and hugs!!
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This makes me want to cry. I am sooo sorry LS....
I have no words. Only tears.
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Suicides are devastating for those left behind. And sad that your uncle must have been in so much pain to have come to such a decision.
May you find some peace soon.
Love, Beth
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Oh LS I'm so sorry .... That is so sad...and poor Ron and the rest of your left behind.... if only someone had known so they could try to help him...he must have been hurting so much dealing with this alone. My heart goes out to all of you...{{hugs}}
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Oh Sweetie, I'm so sorry. My condolances to you and the family.
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So sorry for your loss *HUGS* Keep your chin up
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Bless You, LS
#158360 - 03/08/05 12:42 PM
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Bevvy
Reged: 11/04/03
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Loc: Northwest Washington State
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LS, this is horrible news. I know how you feel, yes I do. My Uncle Nicholas shot himself about 20 years ago. Well, truth be told, if I had been married to his wife (my mother's sister), I'd have shot myself too!
It came as a complete surprise to me. Uncle Nick was my favorite uncle, he certainly deserved better than the B**** he was married to. She told us the reason he killed himself was financial, but I know better.
LS, please accept my deepest sympathy. Dick and Ron were together an amazingly long time; this has to be devastating on Ron. I can't imagine what he's going through right now. At least he has you, and I have a feeling that's a lot of comfort to him.
Bless you, LS.
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How very sad.....Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Take care
Barbie
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Your Uncle Dick sounds like the type of person we all should be blessed to have known in our lives.
I know you are so sad, and you will miss him so much!
God Bless You! gayla
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{{{HUGS}}}
#158571 - 03/09/05 02:17 AM
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Linz
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LauraSUe, I'm so sorry. Suicide is a horrible, horrible thing - I'm not judgemental about it, but it's just AWFUL for everyone left behind. Jeez, why do people have to feel like that.
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