FYI - very bad news... *DELETED*
#157133 - 03/04/05 06:46 PM
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You do what you need to do, and count the days.
Many people are sending you spiritual support.
Edited by ptillen (03/04/05 08:09 PM)
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HONEY!!!
#157143 - 03/04/05 09:18 PM
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heather7476
Reged: 08/09/04
Posts: 2996
Loc: South East Michigan
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Well the fact that he did that is just more proof that you did the right thing! Can you go stay at a friends house or something till your can move into your new place? Jeeze I don't even know what to say! I can't belive he did that!
( if your reading this YOU HAVE NO RIGHT)
BIG HUGS!!! Honey things WILL get better!! Hang in there!!!
E mail me anytime!!!!!!
HUGS AND LOVE
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I'm ok guys. Just a very bad situation turned even worse. 
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Agreed, he has no right. Although I've said I don't like posting stuff that's too personal cause I'm always worried it'll come back and bite me in the bum. Surely he knows deep down that a lot of what was said was just venting frustration. That being said, I think Heather's right, do you have somewhere you can stay till you flat's available?
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wow.. that is a total violation of privacy. If he loved you so much then he wouldn't go behind your back and do this to you.
don't listen to him telling you you are awful.. and don't let him ruin all the goodtimes you've had here on the boards. I feel really sorry for you and your situation.
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{{{HUGS}}}
#157163 - 03/05/05 01:43 AM
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Linz
Reged: 09/01/03
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Loc: England
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Email me if you need to vent privately!
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*HUG*
#157180 - 03/05/05 02:45 AM
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khyricat
Reged: 08/05/04
Posts: 3612
Loc: Michigan
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feel free to email if you need to vent.. and I second you may want to find a friend to stay with and move out sooner then planned... that is just wrong. a friends husband found her password to a private board and used things she said there (not negative about him at all) against her. it was not a good thing. invading someone's privacy never is. please be careful, if he is willing to do that.. what else might he be willing to do?
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It is SUCH an invasion of privacy. I still can't believe he did that.
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Thanks Ashley. You guys are all my friends. It makes me so mad that he puts this board and all of you down. He's just jealous.
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I might be able to saty with a friend of mine this week. Her finacee is out of town all week. I will ask her.
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Grrrr
#157204 - 03/05/05 05:14 AM
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atomic rose
Reged: 06/01/04
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Loc: Maine (IBS-A stable since July '05!)
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What a d*ck. I hope you ARE reading this, dude, because I've dated/married your kind before and you are a world class a**hole. Invading someone's privacy like that is NEVER "ok".
Tina, I second/third/whatever the vote for trying to find somewhere else to stay. And you could also try contacting your landlord and finding out if there's ANY chance that the apartment will be available a little sooner, explaining the situation to her a little. And you know, my inbox is always open if you need to talk/vent.
What a jerk.
*hugs*
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Thanks Casey.
I am still shocked that he even did that. I deleted al my favorites for the web and asked him if he was going to hack into my email next! 
I will ask the landlord and try to stay with a friend or friends to kill the time. Oh boy, huh! Unbelievable...
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Just in case you had a very remote doubt if your were doing the right thing, he just did you a favor. It is time to leave. Invasion of privacy is a huge NO.
You are going to be fine .
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Oh I know. This is not something I will ever forget. He still can't admit that it was wrong. He keeps saying that it is public domain and I was just so stupid for posting this and of course he'd see it.
I never in my wildest dreams thought he'd go spying on me. To me, it is the same as looking through a diary. I don't keep one, thanks goodness!
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Scuse me for butting in (hope you don't mind) - just wanted to say WHAT AN IDIOT! Get outta there girl....x
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Can you change your login so you have to put it your password every time?
~nelly~
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Delete your cookies and internet history, it'll get rid of all your login details and what pages you've visited....might be good in the short term.....OR if you can, set up another user on your machine (if you can) and password protect it - he will be kept out for good!!
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On my email? There is a password. Thanks Nelly.
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This is all so stupid. I cannot wait to leave. I will never talk to him again. No way.
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He is. And I will leave as soon as I can.
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That is absolutely ridiculous! He seems very jealous and insecure!
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Hey Tina,
Try and hang in there, sorry to hear that you're having troubles again...I really hope everything calms down soon for you 
Kelly
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Tina.....
I am infuriated on your behalf.
I hope you're able to move out early.
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A guy like that is insecure, totaly uncool, and an all around drag! I fel bad for him....he sounds very messed up!
I'm sorry you have to live with this Tina...I hope it's not for too much longer....
You know you can e-mail me anytime.
Yo're strong...I know you'll be ok.
*big hugs*
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Formerly known as Ruchie
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Thanks Ruchie. I will send you an email when I'm back at work.
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