wow- I got a wonderful verbal gift last night..
#150664 - 02/16/05 06:46 AM
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khyricat
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DH and I have talked about adopting again (Cassi is 24, she was 13 when I adopted her).... an older child- probably 5-8, etc.. but first I was laid off, then we had the fire.. he had said we weren't even going to bring the topic back up for discussion until we had been in the new house a year. He told me yesterday that if I really want to do this sooner, as soon as we get moved (still have to sell this one and buy another house) we can start the process of home studies and interviews, etc.. and then start looking for a child in the system to bring home.
I brought the subject up because I thought one of the houses he really liked wouldn't work because there wasn't room in it for us and a child and he agreed with me!!! we need 4 bedrooms or 3 plus a study somewhere... my craft room/home office for my craft business, his home office and a room for us and one for a child! we are going to be more careful and picky about houses we look at in that regard as well as prior concerns, and he gave me permission to start looking in the available children DB officially.. even though we can't act on those without a finished up to date homestudy.
Amie
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Thats so exciting!!! Can you tell me a little about the process of adopting a child? And and estimate of the costs involeved and the time frain it takes? I'm still hopefully I can carry my own baby but if not, I would want to check into adoption.
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I'm sure an older child who is not the cutesy baby is really fearing that they may not have the privelege of having a real home because so many couples want babies.
That's awesome that you have already given a family to a 12 year old in the past. You and DH would be a gift to another older child. 
Do you have any other children besides Cassi?
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~ Beth
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Me too!
#150676 - 02/16/05 07:11 AM
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Augie
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Hi Michele. I miss you! My boss is off Friday through Mon so I'll be able to get on the boards more during the day. Cat's away, mouse will play! Heck they don't pay me enough anyhow. I know, still no justification for playing on work hours. But that's something my conscience is willing to live with! 
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That's great Amie! I know that you and your hubby will provide a good home for a child in need!
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#150690 - 02/16/05 07:40 AM
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khyricat
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if you adopt and older or special needs child FROM MI IN MI it can be completely subsidized by the state... check out MARE (mare.org).. infant waits can be years, and also note that adoption costs vary depending on what you do.. in state local adoptions are relatively inexpensive, but out of state or international adoptions can cos as much as 50-60K!
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we only have had Cassi.. but we've also spoiled lots of nieces, nephews and godchildren...
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Re: Me too!
#150770 - 02/16/05 10:47 AM
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michele
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I was wondering Beth, I hadn't seen you around in a while! I play at work too!! Once I get all my wokr done, I figure its fine!!
We may look into adoption in the future. I'm willing to give having my own baby another try depending on what all my tests show. I'm hoping its just a hormonal issue that can be treated! Amie, did they ever find out why you couldn't carry?
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Take care,
Michelle
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