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Pages: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | (show all) Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t       #150715 - 02/16/05 08:48 AM Edit Reply Quote Snow for Sarala Reged: 03/12/03 Posts: 5430 Loc: West Coast, USA -------------------- Formerly known as Ruchie Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...       #150716 - 02/16/05 08:49 AM Edit Reply Quote TommyNY Reged: 04/29/04 Posts: 1530 Tina, I am sorry I have not posted yet to this thread. My cold has been pretty bad lately but that is no excuse! I am sorry you have been going through such a rough time. All I can say is to do what your heart tells you is right. All the advice everyone here has been great. I have nothing else to add to it. But, if anyone knows if you are happy or not that person is you. I trust and know you will make the right decision because you are such a strong and amazing person. Good luck with everything! -------------------- Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     Tommy, you give the best advice!       #150719 - 02/16/05 08:51 AM Edit Reply Quote Snow for Sarala Reged: 03/12/03 Posts: 5430 Loc: West Coast, USA Believing in Tina to make the right decision on her own is unconditional support....right on! -------------------- Formerly known as Ruchie Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     Tina, hope everything works out for the best. Thinking of you. --nt--       #150720 - 02/16/05 08:51 AM Edit Reply Quote BL Reged: 06/01/03 Posts: 3522 Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     Re: Tommy, you give the best advice!       #150725 - 02/16/05 08:59 AM Edit Reply Quote TommyNY Reged: 04/29/04 Posts: 1530 Thanks Ruchie, you give very good advice as well you know -------------------- Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     Awww, thanks! n-t       #150728 - 02/16/05 09:02 AM Edit Reply Quote Snow for Sarala Reged: 03/12/03 Posts: 5430 Loc: West Coast, USA -------------------- Formerly known as Ruchie Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     Re: Here's the story...any advice would be amazing...       #150733 - 02/16/05 09:24 AM Edit Reply Quote Sara-Sage Reged: 02/04/04 Posts: 5508 Oh thanks so much Tommy! You're so sweet. Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     Re: Tommy, you give the best advice!       #150734 - 02/16/05 09:24 AM Edit Reply Quote Sara-Sage Reged: 02/04/04 Posts: 5508 Tommy is quite the guy! Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     HI Sara       #150735 - 02/16/05 09:26 AM Edit Reply Quote Harmony Reged: 01/08/05 Posts: 125 Not knowing you well at all, but seeing your list of issues with your SO, I would venture to say he had a borderline Personality disorder, and is not one easy to live with. Not easy at all when one is affected by stress that can be so harmful to your managing IBS. That's the reasons I left my husband of 14 years, of course now he would change all those things into a posititve to convince me to come home. But at this time, if I would return, it would undo months of therapy and healing for me. You might do some research on that disorder and realize that you have some options. And that you shouldn't rush into a relationship with anyone right yet. There is a book out called Walking on eggshells...it's excellant. But it also let's you understand that you can't change that type of behavior. You can work with it only to a degree, but you have to be a strong, healthy person to do it. You have only one responsiblity right now, and that is to get well, love yourself, and nuture the wonderful person inside. They call these type of partners "hoovers"..they suck the very joy and happiness out of you. And then blame you for not being up to more. I wish you the best....it's really up to you. It's your life and choices. Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     Re: Tina, you've got mail! :-) n-t       #150736 - 02/16/05 09:27 AM Edit Reply Quote Sara-Sage Reged: 02/04/04 Posts: 5508 Ruchie, that's my home email so I will check it tonight. Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator     Pages: 1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5 | 6 | 7 | 8 | 9 | 10 | 11 | 12 | 13 | (show all)

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