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Oh ya. No email "yelling" at me EVER! That was it and made me realize that he's a HUGE jerk! To take that tone with me when he's been nothing but nice was a big wake up call. And to not even apologize either. I haven't heard from him today and probably won't ever again.
About the BF. Yes, I do love him to death! I am hoping we can work out our problems. I will have to plan on some kind of "seduction" to rekindle the flame. We need that.
Bye!
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I'm kinda bored todat at work and want to know if he's ok. is there something non-threatening that I can say that won't be pushy or threatening to him? or should I keep my resolve to back off? 
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Hi,
I've been scanning this thread and it seems to me like you do love your BF. I agree with some of the others. The GG is not worth all of this time and trouble you are putting into it. I think you should concentrate some of those thoughts on your BF and ways that you can work it out and have a great relationship. Besides, you know that the relationship with GG would probably never go anywhere, right?
I know you are bored today, but try to find something to do other than dwelling on GG. It will get you nowhere! Maybe think of some ideas on how to make a special night with BF and what you have sexy that you can wear on that night. It could be lots of fun!!!
Hope it works out for you.
Barbie
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Oh Barbie. You're so right. I will use all this energy for my BF and not the other person.
Just slap me! 
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Follow Barbie's advice, try to get this guy out of your head and like you said yourself channel your energy to the guy you love who loves you too!
Sinead
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I know! I know!!!!! 
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#112813 - 10/13/04 04:34 PM
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sorry things didn't work out. i know you're upset, but it's all going to be ok. sadly, i think you misconstrued what was going on and now he's freakin' out. yes, he should step up and tell you that, but really he probably thinks he shouldn't have to (guy-think!) 'cause you knew he is gay.
i've had a really strong unrequited crush before and it sucks. BIGTIME. mine lasted for over 10 years, so i feel for ya. but listen, you're better than caring for a man who doesn't care for you the same exact way!
if you get to a point where you can be friends with him again, great. if not, you know you will be ok with that, too. my unrequited guy is one of my dearest friends and i hope he will be at my wedding one day!
unfortunately, there are certain types of guys (and girls), straight or not, who get really intense in friendships really quickly. if there's a one-sided sexual attraction involved then the quick-bonding can be misunderstood. it happens.
anyway, i'm sorry it didn't work out... hope you can either get passed it easily or patch things up in a way that satisfies you.
SMOOCHES.
*jen
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#112815 - 10/13/04 04:54 PM
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Hi Jen,
Ya, maybe I did create something out of nothing. All I know is that he's wiggin out...still. I did end up sending him a quick "still upset?" email today. (I couldn't help it!) He wrote back to me a few times but it's clear that I need to give him LOTS of space as he's not back to his usual self. No problem, he's making it easy being a jerk! But I do have to realize that this came from nowhere as far as he's concerned.
He is showing signs of warming up though. He told me he'd be away tomorrow and back Friday. For someone that doesn't like me much these days, that's information that he didn't need to tell me. Whatever... I don't want to analyze him as he's unpredicatable and only at my work for another 2 months and then probably moving to Toronto.
This guy that you've had a crush on, is he straight? Isn't that interesting. Are you not telling him because you'd much rather stay friends? I have learned that I will never do/say anything like this again. BIG mistake! 
Anyhow, thanks for your email and good to see you back on the boards. 
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#113043 - 10/14/04 03:19 PM
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glad to hear the freeze is thawing a bit! 
my friend is straight, yes. and he knows how i felt about him, too. we've talked about it. oddly, he felt the same about me at times, too. the timing was simply never right. it worked out for the best 'cause he's not the right guy for me even though it took me a decade and a half to figure it out! 
it's nice to be back! i try to get on when i have the time...
hope you have a great weekend!
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#113047 - 10/14/04 03:43 PM
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Ya, I wasn't at work today but either was he. I've got other things on my mind so I'm not going to chase him down. If he wants to talk, he can come to me. He knows where to find me. It's funny how some events can put other things in better perscpective.
I had this weird thing with a guy friend too. It was in my last year of high school and he hit on me while I was with two different boyfriends. After I broke up with the second, he finally told me 'he' wanted to date me. He was such a "player" that I told him no thanks. And I'm glad because we wouldn't have lasted too long.
I guess it's good to realize that some people just aren't right for you.
Have a great weekend too. 
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