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EX-actly. What a wannabe straight loser. Can't get a girl so he plays with one's emotions? LOSE-er!!!
Tell ya what. Why don't you go into work for halloween as a kick-ass angel. I'll even go as a little devil and you can tell your *other* coworkers that you have a friend on the outside who's doing a joint costume with you! That you're going into town with a kick-ass chica who really gets you and you're going to paint the town RED! You can't talk about it, but you Might take pictures and you'll show them later!
Hrmph! Men, schmen.
~^nelly^~
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You're too funny! Thanks for the laugh! I needed it. 
Ya, I almost think he wishes somehow that he was straight so he needs to flirt with staright girls to boost his ego or something. Whatever! It be be interesting if he still doens't email me tomorrow. What a guy! Who needs him? 
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Maybe he has "gay guilt." Who knows? Point is, he shouldn't be your problem. You deserve a lot more than his psuedo friendship. And he shouldn't be acting all passive-aggressive at work!! Listen, you have so much more to offer a "real" friend. Organize a work outing. Or make public plans for happy hour this week!!
~nelly~
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Ya, I don't care if we're not friends really. (Now that I know he gets wigged out so easily). I have a group of 3-4 FEMALE friends at work that I hang out with who are nice, fun, sincere people. He came across so sweet and nice but that's obviously not his true self.
I told my boyfriend that he said "god, relax" to me. (nothing about the crush but that my new gay friend said this to me). My boyfriend said that that tone was pretty hostile and not one that a new friend would use carelessly. And that I shouldn't waste my time trying to be his friend. I agree!
Anyhow, this makes life easier. He is out of the picture. I think since his little old mind is all messed up that's he's afraid of me and I won't hear from him again.
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GG v. BF
#112436 - 10/12/04 02:47 PM
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Bevvy
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Loc: Northwest Washington State
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Hi, SS,
I've been following this thread and made a few comments, but my underlying thoughts are with the BF. The gay guy gave you a chance to realize your feelings towards the BF -- that's what you mentioned in one of your posts at least -- so now that the gay guy is out of the picture, what ARE your feelings towards the BF? Have you developed a new outlook towards your future with him? OR --
Still got the hots for GG?
Bev
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Tina,
This should be a soap. Can't believe the way he came back to you, sorry I didn't reply to your last post to me, I thought the idea was great but would never have had the neck to pull it off! (does this make sense in Canadian, sometimes I wonder if my speech is too littered with Irish-isms!)
I agree with all the conflicting views above!!! I guess he is playing the shocked one which may not be his genuine colours at all. I think sometimes gay guys like to flirt with women and talk sexually with them as a tease, they can always use the "but you knew I was gay" line but they forget what messages they are giving out to us..
Think Bev is right bringing up the whole BF thing...this whole episode will make you realise how much (/little) he means to you. Good luck with all the analysis!
Sinead
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Hi Sinead,
Ya, I was floored when I read his respone! But his co-worker (and my friend) says that he can be very 'up and down' personality-wise. Sh warned me about starting a friendship with him but I thought I saw a "sweet" and the true side of him...
I am still surprised that he didn't send me an apology email back yesterday. Up until then he has been nothing but sweet. We'll see if I get that apology today but I'm not holding my breath. I think I've freaked him out and he's written me off. I'm inclined to think it's for the best if he's going to act this way towards me. Plus, all my friends that know about this say he's overreacting and shouldn't care AT ALL. Does he think I'm trying to get him to not be gay and have kids with him? I mean come on...
I will have a great day regardless of this silly boy!
Men....
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Hi Bev,
Good questions. Now that the gay guy is out of the picture, I have realized a few things about my BF. The main thing is that my BF loves me so much and I love him too. How could I be so dumb as to get a crush on this other guy when I have this wonderful one at home?
We do have our issues but I would be nuts to give up on him just yet and think that he could be so easily replaced.
Maybe this little crush will end up helping us out in the long run. Who knows!
As for your question as to whether or not I still have the hots for GG. I haven't seen him since Thursday so I don't have any feeling right now. But I'm sure all it will take is catching a glimpse of him in the hallway to remember that he is cute. ** But personality affects how good looking someone is and the fact that he was so mean to me has definitely lowered his attractivenes BIG TIME! He went from a 9 to a 7. Ha! 
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SS,
THat is the final straw, he is not worth your time. And think about it, he didn't have 'time' to send you a quick email to let you know that he was busy, but still wanted to talk, etc, but he DID obviously have the time to read them, or else how would he know to tell you 'to relax'?
It is just tacky for anyone to 'email yell' at someone, friends or not, he lacks basic social skills, if you ask me.
Everyone is right about the advice they have given you, and that it is his problem and his loss, not yours.
I do not like to stereotype, but I find it kinda funny how alot of others have posted that gay guys will mess with girls minds alot, like they need to feel wanted and flatter themselves. just like my two gay guy friends that still pretended to be straight guy buddies and would have sex with unknowing girls on like a weekly basis. maybe this guy wants to keep girls around incase he 'switches teams'?
i am sure that he has a history of this sorta thing, good riddance to him!
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...nice to hear things are working ok with BF, you msut love him lots to be together for ten years!
maybe you can plan a romantic surprise for him this weekend, but then he may get suspicious...
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