whining (sorry- I can';t do it at home)
#111101 - 10/07/04 11:06 AM
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Lil' Bell
Reged: 09/14/04
Posts: 32
Loc: South Dakota, USA
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Okay- so I finally have a job doing something that i love...and then I find I am allergic to the soap. Then someone quits, and I have been working 50+ hours a week. Then I get diagnosed with IBS. Now my dang hands are reacting to something, and are all dry and itchy and splitting. My doctor is going to think that i have a crush on him I have been there so much! So I am getting angry with work, and got so upset over nothing yesterday that all I wanted to do is just walk out...but I couldn't because I was at the location where you are the only cook for a 12 hour shift. I am just so unhappy, I never feel like I slept very well, I feel as though I am being treated differently than the guys at work (only female in my area). My DH just doesn't get how upset and stressed and exhausted I am. His answer is to "call in sick" (which I never do- I go to work no matter what, including when I am having an attack). Then he has the gall to tell me the house looks like ***. (like I am the only one who lives here) I just want to pull my hair out, lay on the floor screaming and kicking. AAGGHHH!
Thanks for letting me rant. I wish I could just take off for a week and disappear.
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#111104 - 10/07/04 11:25 AM
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Nelly
Reged: 08/06/04
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Loc: Within stray mortar fire of DC
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If you want to disappear, I can pack in like 10 minutes. I hear everything you're saying, and I can relate. Wouldn't it be nice to press pause and get some sleep? Like in a cave? Away? From everybody?
I get hand breakouts too. But it's all stress related for me. I can be using one soap and be fine, but one day it feels like I'm washing my hands in caustic acid. And they get all dry and HOT. And the skin gets flakey and sometimes I'll get a mild, itchy rash on them.
I even when to the hospital for this once. I'd tried putting hydrocortizone cream on them and it didn't do anything. My hands just laaaaughed at the cream. But the doc told me he didn't know what it was, and to stop messing with putting creams on my hands for a while.
It wasn't until I got a big panic attack and broke out in spots all over that I looked at my hands and realized, hey, I've seen this before. Guess my skin is just overly sensitive to stress. But there's a difference with being sensative and allergic, so you're going to start having to bring in your own soap with you to work, I think. Bummer.
Snarl at your bf. He's just forgotten that he's afraid of you. Silly man. You should remind him. Then he'll back off. 
Seriously, if you want to go leave, I'm there. Like right now for instance! Let's go.
~nelly~
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DH puts up with my bitchign but he still expects me to do stuff around here more then him, and he still doesn't understnad why I odn't just call in when I am having issues- yeah.. I get 5! sick days a year and I can't afford ot use them all up already (they are scheduled Oct to Oct, so I just got them)...
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Dietetics Student (anticipating RD exam in Aug 2010)
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Dairy Allergic
Fructose and MSG intollerant
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Ok here is what you do. You tell Dh if he doesn't start helping you around the house you WILL start dating your Doctor!!! Please rember murder will get you 25 to life and no man is worth that!!! 
I have very sensitive hands, I wear gloves when ever i have to clean with cleaners. I just buy the rubber gloves like the dotor wears!! Could you try that!!! Or you could try to find another job!!! Life is to short to spend it in a job you hate!!!
Good Luck
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Heather7476
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Thanks for all the replies...I do wear gloves at work (maybe part of the prob?). I have cream to try from my doc, and will go from there....
As far as going, let's just all pile in a car (or camper) and drive to the bahamas! It would be nice to just go...*sigh*
I have been looking off and on for a different position, just no luck yet. I could have a great job, but I refused to commute everyday when I have no idea what the weather will be like. I swear, Alaska is often warmer in the winter than we are!
Who all wants to go....?
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Thanks for all the replies...I do wear gloves at work (maybe part of the prob?).
It could definitely be part of the problem. I used to do defence litigation for a major household detergent manufacturer, mainly about skin conditions being caused etc and we asked them why the didn't put warnings on the bottles to say that people should wear gloves and their reason was that it could make it worse!
The expensive cotton lined gloves are the best, lots of people are allergic to latex and it would flare up allergies.
Take care,
Sinead
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Hey I'm IN!!!! My sil and i have the dream where we buy our own private island and nobody can get there without our premisson!!! And if you can't wipe you own backside (kids) and get yourself your own beer (men) you are not welcome!!!!
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Heather7476
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OK now I'm def in!! I'm packing:
Heather's pep choc cake
bathing suit
towels
Imodium x 100000000000000
Fresh drinking water
Bail money
Phone card
Rope
Camera
A beer
Toothbrush
OK I'm set. Who's driving??
~nelly~ one thousand bottles of beeeeer on the waaall
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OK now I'm def in!! I'm packing:
Heather's pep choc cake
bathing suit
towels
Imodium x 100000000000000
Fresh drinking water
Bail money
Phone card
Rope HUH why rope??
Camera
A beer
Toothbrush
Trashy novel!!
Music
Brad Pitt
Now were ready to go!!!!
OK I'm set. Who's driving??
~nelly~ one thousand bottles of beeeeer on the waaall
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Heather7476
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To tie up the bad guys we find. I dunno. Because you always need rope?
~nelly~
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