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#111569 - 10/08/04 05:56 PM
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RachelT
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Keep us posted on how things go! And try to enjoy your weekend!
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~ Rachel (IBS-C)
If life hands you lemons, make lemonade!!
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Ok I just cought up on the gossiup! UMM yeah that sounds like flirting to me!! I would be very confused to!! Talk about mixed signals!! I don't know many gay guys are very lovely dovey with female friends because they think there souldn't be any attaction!!! I don't know sweets Keep us posted!!
Have a great Thanks Giving!!!
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Oh ya, and when I visit him in his office he sends me an email that I get when I return to my desk saying that my visit "made his day". I find that one a bit much. I would never say to my friend Liz that she made my day by coming to see me?! Huh?!
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SS, do you like this guy? Is he your friend? Or is it just the hots you have for him? If he's your friend, then talk it out with him, tell him how he made you feel. I can guarantee you he'll understand. You want him as a friend, then be a friend to him.
Now, if it's just the hots you have for him, get over it and move on. Put him SOOOO out of your mind. He came along in your life when you needed to think things through about your relationship with your BF, and that's great. But he's not interested in a hot and heavy relationship with you. Forget him. Hot Gay Guy is history.
Bevvy
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Hi there! Yes, I do like this guy. It's more than a strong attraction too. He's a really sweet guy. I don't want to lose him as a friend. I would like a relationship with him but don't think that would ever happen. And if anything, like a simple kiss, ever happened it would end there.
I would just write him off and forget about him but he sucked me in by having me get to know him so well in the last month. I only realized last week that I had a crush on him. If he was a jerk or uninteresting then it would be super easy.
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.....You want a relationship with a man that has a relationship with other men???
I'm sorry, but just that picture in my mind is enough to turn me off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You want him to suddenly have this desire for you----and then leave you for a man? You want to get AIDS or something?
I don't care how "hot" this guy was, I'd be running in the other direction.
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No, no no! I want a FRIENDSHIP with him. That's all! Well that's all BECAUSE he is gay.
If he were STRAIGHT (which he 'CLEARLY' is not) I would want to kiss him.
Hey, maybe I needed you to write to me and be so bold because it is knocking some sense into me!!! I'm trying to forget about him and this is helping. I'm confused about my feelings, obviously.
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being gay doesn't mean he has AIDS or some other kind of disease. There's a lot of straight people in this world with sexually transmitted diseases. Probably more so than gays or lesbians!!!
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~ Rachel (IBS-C)
If life hands you lemons, make lemonade!!
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I'm sure that gay people have to be extra safe! I would hope that he'd have enough sense to always use protection. In fact, he tells me he still gets embarassed every time he buys condoms at a pharmacy so he defintely uses them. But that's beside the point. I'm not sleeping with him, nor will I.
Plus, I've known tons of hetero women who have had their fair shair of one night stands (who did not use any protection!).
It wasn't that comment about AIDS that got me to wake up. It was more that if ever he decided to try dating a woman again (because he has had 2 serious long-term relationships with women) he'd ALWAYS end up going back to men. Why would I ever put myself in that situation?
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