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Awwwwww! She's going to yank us all outta heeeere....!
~nelly~ 
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Ok Ok I won't post anymore of these kind of problems!! Hopefull I won't EVER have these kind of problems again!!!
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Rolling on the floor laughing!!
ROTFLMBO = Rolloing on the floor laughing my butt off
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Oohhhhhhhhhhh! Ok. Thanks. 
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Hmmm... interesting offer that he gave you, but I know that even though guys like watching two girls "go at it", I am not sure if any girls think the same way, I know I saw gay porn before (quite accidentally, and picture, not live person or on video), and it didn't really do anything for me.
I guess in our guy situation, it has to do with taking risks, and just making do with what you got or moving on and looking for that little more that you may never find.
I would like to hear from some married women on this if they read this, ever go through a phase where you feel more like buddies with your hubby? Do you just stay together cause you do love each other (although it is as friends) and for stability, children, etc?
I feel selfish for just staying together, but actually I am knida happy this way for now, but I know it won't last forever. My BF told me once that he has realized that relatinships of his were over when he saw that they wouldn't be together forver for some reason or another. He says that at that point, you lose interest, because there is no point. I just like living in the moment with him, I know it is a slim chance we will marry one day, but I still enjoy being with him now, even though it is not what it used to be.
I recently talked to a girl that is about 6 - 8 years older than me, and she told me that she broke things off with her ex fiancee when she was about my age, cause she didn't feel that kind of love anymore. She said she was able to find that with her current fiancee. It kinda made me think.
I guess it is like the situation when you stay in a job you dislike, just cause you are comfortable with it, instead of taking a chnace and finding your passion or talent. (also me)
I wonder how many people are like this? I bet alot more than we think are.
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Ya, the offer he gave me was just to watch the kiss and no more than that. At least that's how I took his offer. I wouldn't get turned on by watching them do anything sexual. Trust me, it would just make me kinda mad like he's playing with me. Which I already think he's doing.
As well as that kiss comment, he also suggested that we go to an adult store together so he can help me find a sassy angel costume for a Halloween party I'm going to (not with him). Ok, what is up with that? If he's into guys, helping me pick out a sexy but cute costume shouldn't do a thing for him at all. Very strange.
I thought about this all night and I might just ask him why he is teasing me like this and what exactly he is getting from it? 
About your BF. If you still feel happy with him there's no harm in staying with him a bit longer. But what would you do/say if he were to propose to you tonight? Would you panic and say yes or end it right there and then? I just looked up your info and see you're only 20. That's WAY too young to be with someone you're no longer in love with. I'm 30 and trust me time can go by super fast. I've had doubts about my guy for a while now and staying together longer just makes it that more difficult. We're at a stage where I know he will propose soon. And to be honest, I don't think I would say yes. So why am I with him? he's hands down my best friend and if he were gone I'd have nodody to turn to when things go wrong or when I want to celebrate things going well. Plus, I have so much respect for him as a person and enjoy our time together. But as I said, it's more of a strong friendship than a true romance. That said, it would KILL me to see him with someone else and vice-versa, I'm sure.
I would also love to hear from some married ladies about whether this sort of thing just happens.
I think a lot of couples, married or not, have this frindship thing kind of take over and it might just be the relationship's natural progression? Hard call.
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For those of you that have been following my little "drama" with my gay new friend I have some new info.
He has a new guy in his life. A former co-worker at the bar that he worked at that he flirted with for years. He saw him again last night. Lucky me, I got a detailed email from him first thing this morning about their "fooling around" and how good of a kisser this guy is. This is a bit too much for me, especially since he knows that I have a bit of a crush on him.  
So I am super confused as to what he even wants from me now??? To tell the girl that has a crush on him all about his sexual exploits? No thanks. I am SO mad and don't even feel like being friends with him anymore.
What would you guys do? Nelly? Sheri? Heather? Help. I feel like I have fallen and can't get up! 
I guess you guys all saw this coming.
This guy is soooo playing with me and I hate it.
He even took back the comment about going to the adult store for the Halloween costume. He said that since it looks like he'll have a partner again that he'll want to look for something "made for two". Jerk... &%#@!!!!
**ok, he later took that back to saying that he's shy too buy stuff from an dult store and that I'd need to "force" him to buy something**
Aaaggggghhhhhhhhhh!!!! How can I not have a crush on him is the real questions.
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It sound to like to me and this is just my thoughts. He is getting off on you having a crush on him. It is like he wants you to like him and want him but doesn't want to return the favor. Did you tell him you don't want to know the details!! Does he think it turns you on to hear about this stuff. I hope you don't get a offer like me!!!!! Or maybe your the only one he feels he tell this stuff to. I mean I tell my best friend everything!! We have been freinds for 14 years though. Ask him what he wants out of this friendship!!! Maybe he goes both ways!! I am confused and I am not even the one in the relationship. I feel for ya Sara!! Keep us posted!!!
HEATHER PLEASE DON"T KICK US OUT!!!!! YIKES
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