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Wow, we are in the same situation, kind of, you know (minus the gay guy thing).  I feel the same way. I love him but there's no passion. I do also feel like I could probably "make due" but that wouldn't be fair to him -- or to me. Dammit, I want passion and a strong attraction. When you don't have that, it's just a strong friendship.
I do worry that another guy will get grossed out with my IBS problems. It would be tricky for sure. 
My BF and I know we have issues to work out but he doesn't know how I honestly feel about him. I would never tell him as it would hurt him too much.
It's such a tough call. The grass always looks greener on the other side, doesn't it?
** A small update ** about my new friend. We were talking about kissing and I asked him if gay guys kiss as often and in the same way as straight people.
We started getting pretty detailed on how we both like to be kissed. He told me that I could watch him kiss his next BF if I want and that he's totally into voyeurism. OMG!!! I am still kinda speechless. WOW!
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Thanks for your long reply Nelly.
I know he's on another team. Dammit! 
And yes, I am starting to get the idea about how they operate. He says he has had a guy "on the side" for 6 years and they sleep together in between other guys. Yikes.
What do you make of this? I copied it from a reply to someone else's post.  
** A small update ** about my new friend. We were talking about kissing and I asked him if gay guys kiss as often and in the same way as straight people.
We started getting pretty detailed on how we both like to be kissed. He told me that I could watch him kiss his next BF if I want and that he's totally into voyeurism. OMG!!! I am still kinda speechless. WOW!
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** A small update ** about my new friend. We were talking about kissing and I asked him if gay guys kiss as often and in the same way as straight people.
We started getting pretty detailed on how we both like to be kissed. He told me that I could watch him kiss his next BF if I want and that he's totally into voyeurism. OMG!!! I am still kinda speechless. WOW! OMG I think I need a cold shower now  !!! You will HAVE to keep us updated on that one!!!!!
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Ya, that's how I felt! Geez,what do you say after that? It was through an email not face to face. Thank god~!
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Between this and the offer Heather just got....this is turning into a WHOLE different board than when I joined, I think it needs an R rating!
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YA, SORRY!
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Don't apologise, my life is really boring and these threads are enjoyable, I am no prude!
I thought one of the guys at work was gay because he was playing the "pronoun game" ie referring to "the person I am seeing" and "they" instead of she or he but I was wrong. He is so effeminate and always complimenting everyone on nails, makeup etc. So that little bit of excitement disappeared!
I love these girlie chat threads!
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I know after reading sara's it gave me the courage to post my problem!!! I hope noone is offended!!
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Ya, me too. I hope Heather doesn't mind that we're chatting up this kind of stuff.
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LOL! Yep, totally common. My friend sounds like he would have liked your friend!
~nelly~
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