Just relax!
#112242 - 10/12/04 06:02 AM
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Sheri01
Reged: 04/19/04
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You'll be fine... and laughing later when you realize everything is fine.
At least I hope so 
Good luck to you!
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-Sheri
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Here's a little story to make you feel better (it could be worse)...
My SIL was telling me about a co-worker that went to the Caribbean with her husband. While there they ventured out on the "clothing optional" beach and her husband had convinced her to go naked. As her and her husband were walking down the beach in the buff, she happened upon one of her CO-WORKERS!!! Can you imagine? I would have ran for the sea (and tried to drown myself)! And it's not like she was a secretary, she was a manager type in her 40's  .
Just tell him you're having some problems in your relationship with your boyfriend and right now you would have had a crush on ANYONE that was nice to you. Or just pretend like you never said anything and act as normal. Or tell him the truth, that you really do need a friend right now but that he IS really cute and you would have to be BLIND to not notice. Ask him if he's ever found a heterosexual guy attractive.
Good luck...
Rena
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HA! HA! HA! That's too funny. Thanks.  
I did tell him that stuff about being confused with my BF and wrote him a nice letter explaining all my reasons. If he doesn't understand, then too bad for him.
He honestly has no idea how good looking he is. When we went through his portfolio he kept picking all all the flaws in each pic of him.
He still hasn't written to me so I'm getting worried. He should be at work by now...
Thanks again.
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Ok thanks. Nothing yet...
I'll post if anything new happens. 
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Could be that you freaked him out!!!? So how long did your whirlwind friendship last? I would just be cool and chalk it up to lesson learned if you don't hear from him. I definitely wouldn't keep sending him email, because then he's gonna think you're stalking him!
I've always heard, the good ones are taken and the cute ones are gay!
Rena
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Damn...
#112291 - 10/12/04 08:41 AM
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Ya, I sent him 2 emails today. One about yoga (since he teaches it here) and the other asking him if he is writing me off, or what?! No response to either email. I know he's here because his co-worker saw him. 
Our frienship is only about 1 month old.
At this point, I am getting angry. He CAN'T just ignore me and avoid me forever. What a %*#@ jerk!
I hate people that are wimps. Deal with it like a man!
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Ok guys, advice needed... It's 12:30 and he still hasn't written to me. I'm thinking that he won't...ever.
Do I just forget about him (friendshop-wise) and leave it at that? If he's just going to pretend that this didn't happen -- that is SO LAME!
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if he is going to be that juvenile, then forget him. he sounds like he was a wacko anyways, and especially when you are having this difficult time figuring things out with your bf, the last thing that you need is someone playing games with you.
If your friendship is meant to be, maybe he will come around.
But, on the other hand, he may be avoiding you at first cause he wants a serious face to face conversation first, and doesn't want to pretend nothing has happened.
give him a couple of days ( i know I know, it's tough) before you write him off for good.
hoping everything blows over soon,
-sheri
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-Sheri
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Ya, he's not scoring any points with me by avoiding me.....
I'm pretty angry and have nowhere to direct that!
I'll give it some time. The last thing I'm going to do is hound him. He'll think I'm a stalker!
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