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Re: Bev - your "card" is hilarious! -nt- new
      #54346 - 03/25/04 05:23 PM
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kelly, sorry things went bad for you... new
      #54369 - 03/25/04 06:58 PM
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I hope by now you have setteled down and have had some yummy cake! Have you done anything fun tonight? Watch a fun show??

I'm sorry your DR was such a JERK!!! I would call his office tomorrow and demand to talk to him....let him know your not coming back to him. Let him know you think he is a horrible DR. and that there is no way you would ever go back to him. He thinks he knows everything. He's a specialist in being an a--hole!!!

Call your regular DR explane what happened...let them know your worried about your body and see what they can do. Hard to believe but there is some really great DR out there who care. Not Cocky know-it-all jerks!!!

I hope you feel better soon! Keep your chin up and keep on looking for a good dr! I love my regular Dr and I think he is better than the GI he sent me to!

Good luck! And Happy B-day

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Re: Just got back from the doctor...I'm going to cry it went so badly! new
      #54376 - 03/25/04 07:11 PM
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Ditto on everything everyone else said. Forget that jerk and use your own doc till you can see another specialist. As you were describing him I had visions of the jerko GI doc I used to have. Yes it's "JUST" IBS. I pray all of those cra....y doctors get IBS themselves! He didn't come back because he is too imcompetent to offer any suggestions. I know lots of doctors now sometimes don't order tests because the HMO's will give them a big bonus at the end of the year if they save them $$$$. Our old family doctor who couldn't take the HMO's and the system anymore went into early retirement and told us about these bonuses so I know they are real. Money, that's all those types care about, not people.

I'm ranting arent I. Try your best to cheer up and celebrate your b-day and know aside from your family doc we are all here and Heather is here to help you with our suggestions and foods that might work. Get Heather's books if you haven't already.

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Thank you everyone for your kinds words! new
      #54384 - 03/25/04 07:20 PM
Vicam

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Thanks everyone for your kinds words...it really means alot.
I was able to calm down and have a fairly good night, and I quite enjoyed the Peppermint Fudge Cake so that was nice!
I'm definately going to try and find another specialist, but there's a bit of a problem and I would appreciate anyone's advice.
The problem is that I love my current doc, and this specialist and him are apparently friends which is why he referred me to him...so now I feel kinda uncomfortable going back to him and saying that I didn't like the other doctor...because I don't want to get his nose out of joint or I'll be without any doctor!
Anyways, thanks again everyone, it's so nice to have a place where people understand what you're talking about and are so supportive...
I'm going to settle in and have some nice tea and watch some Friends (got some of the DVD sets for my b-day).
Thanks again!
Kelly

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Acid Reflux new
      #54386 - 03/25/04 07:22 PM
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Hey Mags,
Thanks for your info...that's actually the worst part, I don't think I have acid reflux! I tried explaining that to him but he just gave me hand-outs of the Nexxium (i.e. free trials) and said well try it. I've never had anything that feels like reflux, I get chest pain yes, but it's been diagnosed as costochondritis and another doc said possibly my gall bladder, but acid reflux??? I think this doc had a prescribing bonus or something for giving it out.
Anyways, I think I may still try the cake sometime with almond and/or vanilla, yummy!
Kelly

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If it were me I'd say... new
      #54394 - 03/25/04 07:45 PM
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"I know .... is your friend but he just didn't meet my needs as a GI doc and I don't feel he helped me at all. Can you do.... tests or meds to try? If not, can you refer me to another specialist as I really need help. Although I may have IBS and not something more serious, IBS is serious to me and is seriously effecting my happiness and my life. I'm just not satisfied." I'd also tell him that the other doc said he'd come back and just what the nurse told you. Also tell him how much you like and respect him (the family doc) & hope this doesn't jeopardize your relationship with him. There's my 2 cents. Let's see what anyone else thinks.

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Aw Bev, that's the cutest card! -nt new
      #54396 - 03/25/04 07:47 PM
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Doctor "Friends" new
      #54401 - 03/25/04 08:00 PM
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Kelly, I'm answering your question with another story.

Before I had my right knee arthroscopy to remove all the broken cartiledge in my knee (I used to be a runner and broke it all), I was in a great deal of pain. My doctor didn't want me running anymore, but I insisted, so he sent me to a specialist for pain shots.

Anyway, that "specialist" was a first-class jerk. For one thing, he was running really late. My appointment was the last of the day, and he was annoyed because he was missing out on his basketball game with none other than one of my bosses -- an attorney in the firm where I was working -- a "friend" of his.

That jerk of a "specialist" hurt me, but worse than that, he treated me like I had inconvenienced him BIG TIME, and then left me all alone, leaving me behind in his office!

He sat on the stool and I was sitting on the examining table. He reached for the needle and growled at me, "now don't kick me!" I didn't know what he meant until he stuck that needle in me and gave me the most excruciatingly painful shot I've ever experienced in my life. It's a good thing he warned me not to kick him, because I WOULD HAVE! He tossed the needle aside as he stormed out of the office with not a word to me. I sat there in excruciating pain, waiting for the door to shut behind him, and then I broke down. I wasn't about to cry in front of him (even if I had the chance). I couldn't climb down from the table because I was in such pain. I heard the sound of his car leaving the parking lot, "peeling a wheel" in the gravel, just before my hubby came in to see how I was. Everyone in the office had left hubby and me behind, and the office was dark. I cried all the way home, in the worst pain I've ever had.

The next day in the office I told my boss what a jerk he had for a friend. I SOOOO did not care about anything but letting my boss know just how awful this so-called "specialist" was.

You know what my boss replied? He said, "yeah, and you should see him on the basketball court. He's a lot of fun, telling us how to play and how we should get off the court. He's a real jerk."

Your GI was no better than this idiot. And your doctor needs to know not to refer other patients to him.

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Your card.... new
      #54419 - 03/25/04 11:03 PM
Kandee

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has more meaning to we vintage chicks then I even want to think about.............

But it was adorable!!!!


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Re: Thank you everyone for your kinds words! new
      #54420 - 03/25/04 11:13 PM
Kandee

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Oh Kelly, this happens all the time. My primary sent me to a GI that he thought was the greatest thing since sliced bread. After a 2 1/2 hr. drive to get there, and being treated rudely, I told my primary doc I would NOT go back to this GI for anything..........BUT, I gave him an alternative (based on friend's recommendations) that I WOULD go to. He reluctantly sent me and based on my return report now sends new patients to my (wonderful) GI. You just have to be "heard". If you and your reg. doc have a good relationship, he'll listen. In the mean time, I think he can order all the tests you need except for the colonoscopy.

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