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      #97813 - 08/12/04 12:50 PM
Vicam

Reged: 02/24/04
Posts: 1955
Loc: Ontario, Canada

Hey Guys!

Just wanted to let everyone know that I'm finally home from the hospital. Feeling a little worse for wear from lack of sleep (the hospital schedule was no exactly nice to a night-hawk like me), but other than that, I'm ok.

All the tests they did were negative which is good, and they finally managed to get my potassium back up to a reasonable level, however my iron and B12 are still very low.

Didn't really get an explanation for my problems per se, but I am feeling much better. Basically, they weaned me off half the pills I'd been taking because they felt they were unnecessary (my old doc just threw pills at me all the time) and that made a differnece right away. They also got me eating better (3 squares day plus snacks) which helped.

Basically they determined that there's nothing terribly wrong with me (i.e. crohn's or celiac). There's still one more test they want to do (a 48 hour fecal fat test) to ensure I'm absorbing fat properly (as I continued to lose weight in the hospital despite eating more than double what I was at home). Other than that, it's kinda terrible what they came up with.

They think that I did have a gallstone attack back at the end of January, and because I didn't seek any medical treatment the residual pain from that is what initially caused me to start limiting foods and eating less. Then I found this diet, but basically never got past the "what to eat when you can't eat anything" except occasionally and was still in pain, so I wasn't getting anywhere near a balanced diet. They're not even convinced I have IBS, they think it's more likely my endometriosis because it has been left untreated for so long.

So essentially, I starved myself sick. I barely realized it, but by the time I went in there I was barely consuing 400 calories a day and it was all pretty much bread. So I started to malabsorb even what I was putting in because my gut got so sick. Sadly, they're sort of treating me like an eating disorder case, which makes me really mad because I asked for help so many times from the other doctors, and was upfront about what I was and wasn't eating, and none of them helped me, and eating disorder people generally hide it. I just don't like the stigma that goes along with that (for example, I could hear the nurses questioning whether I was hiding food, complaining if I didn't finish everything on my plate etc).

So, I have to see a dietician once a week and have an appointment with a psychiatrist in two weeks...they have admitted they don't think I have anorexia or buliemia, but rather something they call "disordered eating" which means that for whatever reason (response to pain etc) you start eating badly and restricting vital food to the point where your body turns out itself.

On the upside, I am feeling better after being properly nourished at the hospital. I seem to be tolerating dairy fine and they are essentially forcing me to eat it, so I've had Lactaid milk (just in case), cheese and yogurts. I'm also having to increase my fat content but just temporarily because the weight is falling off so quickly.

So, that's my update, a little weird, but hopefully they're right. Due to Heather's information and research, I do wonder if I even have IBS since the dairy is giving me no problems at all...

I'm sad to think in a way I did this to myself, but then I think back to my GI appointment in March, where I actually told the doc I was basically living off bread and water and needed help, and he said "you're young and chubby, take a multivitamin, you'll be fine" So, if you can't even get help from a GI doctor...what can you do?

Anyways, it's good to be home and I'm sorry this was so long I look forward to going through the posts and seeing what everyone has been up to!

Kelly

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      #97817 - 08/12/04 12:59 PM
LauraSue

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Hallelujah!! Kelly's back!! Nice to see you. Wow, what a weird thing. It does kinda make sense when you look back at it. That idiot GI you saw kinda set you up for this, didn't he? Well, I'm glad they figured it out and I'm SO GLAD you're feeling better. Now you can get back to living your life and enjoying yourself. And boy do you deserve it after all you've been through!

Thanks so much for letting us know! And again, welcome back!

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Welcome back, Kelly! new
      #97820 - 08/12/04 01:05 PM
barbie

Reged: 04/22/04
Posts: 2435
Loc: Texas

Hey Kelly,

Glad your back and feeling a little better. I guess the hospital stay helped after all.

I can eat small amounts of dairy as long as I take a lactaid pill or use lactaid milk. That was how I finally gained some weight was to eat a shake made of Lactaid milk & frozen yogurt ice cream.

What will they do about the gallstones and endometrosis? Will those things just get better on their own?

Just continue eating properly and often so you can gain some weight and be on your way to feeling better.

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      #97821 - 08/12/04 01:07 PM
ChristineM

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Kelly,

I'm glad you're home and that there is nothing super-serious wrong with you. What a relief to have had so many tests done!

Here's hoping you don't even have IBS, though I know endo is no picnic!

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      #97850 - 08/12/04 02:04 PM
Sara-Sage

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That's so awesome that they figured it all out. Good for you! Good luck getting back on track.

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Yay! You're back! new
      #97871 - 08/12/04 03:25 PM
atomic rose

Reged: 06/01/04
Posts: 7013
Loc: Maine (IBS-A stable since July '05!)

Well, I know it's good and bad, and still kind of frustrating, but I'm glad they didn't find anything terribly wrong. I'm also glad to hear you're feeling better after having to eat more!

Don't feel like "you did this to yourself". I'm in a very, very similar situation as you are/were, but instead of pain, I'm wrestling with nausea that won't go away, and one of the things that my therapist is trying to pound into my head is that not eating, when food is causing you discomfort, is a completely normal reaction. Thankfully for the sake of my ego, I haven't been labelled with an eating disorder, but I know the treatment I'm getting so far is kind of focused in that direction.

Anyway. Glad you're back. Missed ya.

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Welcome back, Kelly! -nt- new
      #97917 - 08/12/04 06:52 PM
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Hey Casey new
      #97923 - 08/12/04 07:46 PM
Vicam

Reged: 02/24/04
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Loc: Ontario, Canada

Yeah, they haven't technically labeled me with an eating disorder because if you look at the clinical definitions of both anorexia and buliemia I don't fit the criteria, but it doesn't exactly take a rocket scientist to figure things out when they keep you in the hospital for a week, only do 2 official tests, and other than that simply monitor your exact calorie intake and daily weight I just wish there wasn't such a stigma attached to it, because I didn't do it to try and lose weight...hopefully the psychiatrist they're sending me too will be reasonably understanding.

Are you having any luck eating more? I know our situations may be totally different, but I literally felt world's better once I started eating more food. I'm only up to about 1000 calories a day, but I feel a lot better.

Good luck to you
Kelly

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      #97927 - 08/12/04 07:52 PM
LauraSue

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Good point, Kelly. So what's the answer, Casey? I keep meaning to ask you how much you're eating. How's it going?

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Well... new
      #97935 - 08/12/04 08:36 PM
atomic rose

Reged: 06/01/04
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I *was* doing really well for a couple weeks there. I was eating 950-1000 calories a day, and even on "bad days" I was still getting 700-800, which is a LOT more than the 200 I estimate I used to eat on a bad day. I also managed to work up to 8g/day of my SFS, which has made a HUGE difference in how I feel IBS-wise.

Unfortunately, the good eating came to a halt about 5 days ago, when I suddenly got SO nauseous that I could hardly even function. I thought I was coming down with something, but it turned out to be period-related ICK, and I'm still struggling with it. I know I'll be back on track with the eating in a few days, but it frustrates me when I have setbacks like this. And it really is all about the nausea - IBS-wise *knocks on wood* I've been pretty much a-ok.

I called my doctor's today, and I have an appointment on the 23rd to see if there's any medications they can give me, for the nausea, the anxiety, or preferably both. I wanted to think I could manage all of this without pills, but I don't think I can anymore.

Eeek, sorry to go rambling on like that. Thanks for asking, Laura and Kelly.

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      #97936 - 08/12/04 08:38 PM
jrs

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Hey Kelly -- welcome back! I'm glad to see that you've figured some things out in the time you spent in the hospital. Don't worry about the eating disorder thing, as long as you find a way to move back to a normal diet that's the most important thing -- let them call it what they want.

Take it easy, and lets hope that it's all uphill from here on in!

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      #97938 - 08/12/04 08:43 PM
atomic rose

Reged: 06/01/04
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I just wanted to add that by my second visit, I had set my therapist straight and left no question in her mind that this had NOTHING to do with body image and losing weight. I hope you have just as good luck with yours, but I tend to think that if you explain the health issues that led up to it and are insistent that it's not an image issue, the psychiatrist should be understanding. Good luck with that!

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      #97971 - 08/13/04 05:43 AM
Yoda (formerly Hans)

Reged: 01/22/03
Posts: 3682
Loc: Canada

Don't think that it's all your fault and that you did this to yourself. Were you not doing what you thought best at the time? It's not like the DRS were very helpful - you were only doing what you thought you could at the time being. Forgive yourself. The blame lies with the stupid DRs you were dealing with.
I am SO glad you're feeling better, sweet.


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Welcome Home, Kelly! new
      #97985 - 08/13/04 06:49 AM
Bevvy

Reged: 11/04/03
Posts: 5918
Loc: Northwest Washington State

Hey Girlfriend,

I'm so glad you finally got some help. It sounds like you're much better now. And, yes, it sounds like you don't have IBS after all. Yaay! You can eat dairy and fat? Oh, Girlfriend, go out and have a chocolate malt and think of me.

So you like hospital food, eh? I told ya, it's surprisingly good.

So what does your father say about it all? Is he angry? I can't say that I blame him now; after all, those docs should have helped you months ago but they didn't -- had they, you would have gotten better and wouldn't have had to go through all this.

Don't get me started on GIs.....

Good to have you back, Kelly. Great news indeed. Now lets decorate that new condo!

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      #97993 - 08/13/04 07:17 AM
jeenerz

Reged: 07/10/04
Posts: 212
Loc: Northwest Montana

Hi Kelly,
I was so glad to see your post yesterday; I've been thinking about you every day and prayed that the docs would be able to help you and find out what's going on. It sounds like you're finally going in the right direction and as far as this all being your fault--don't even go there! Seems to me you issued a cry for help many times and the docs didn't hear it...Here's hoping and praying you'll be getting stronger every day. And the great news to me is that there is no IBS!!! (I'm envious!
God Bless and just keep taking one day at a time
Janene

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Re: Well... new
      #98040 - 08/13/04 10:13 AM
LauraSue

Reged: 01/14/04
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Loc: New York City

Quote:

I *was* doing really well for a couple weeks there. I was eating 950-1000 calories a day, and even on "bad days" I was still getting 700-800, which is a LOT more than the 200 I estimate I used to eat on a bad day. I also managed to work up to 8g/day of my SFS, which has made a HUGE difference in how I feel IBS-wise.

Unfortunately, the good eating came to a halt about 5 days ago, when I suddenly got SO nauseous that I could hardly even function. I thought I was coming down with something, but it turned out to be period-related ICK, and I'm still struggling with it. I know I'll be back on track with the eating in a few days, but it frustrates me when I have setbacks like this. And it really is all about the nausea - IBS-wise *knocks on wood* I've been pretty much a-ok.

I called my doctor's today, and I have an appointment on the 23rd to see if there's any medications they can give me, for the nausea, the anxiety, or preferably both. I wanted to think I could manage all of this without pills, but I don't think I can anymore.

Eeek, sorry to go rambling on like that. Thanks for asking, Laura and Kelly.




Aw, Casey, sweetie, that's too bad. I'm glad you were doing so well for a while. That means you can do it again!! And yes, there's definitely meds they can give you that will make a huge difference. And don't feel bad about taking them, would you think you could manage pneumonia without pills?? Or diabetes?? No difference here. None. Take them as long as you need them. Perhaps some day you won't, but right now you're in the "acute" phase of this illness and it would be self-defeating to not make use of any form of help you can get!

Okay, I'll get down off my soapbox now!!

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{BIG HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

And BIG HUG to you too Kelly for letting me highjack your thread!

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Welcome home! new
      #98067 - 08/13/04 12:31 PM
Sheri01

Reged: 04/19/04
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I just wanted to say that you DID not do this to yourself, whatever happened with your body you asked for help and did not receive it from the incompetent health care "proffessionals" in your area.
At least they have you on the right track to getting better.
Good luck

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