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I have to say that all of these posts have been very interesting to read over the past few days. Everyone has given some really good advice. In the end, it comes down to you. People can give you all the advice in the world, some of it maybe good, some maybe bad. The onnly person who truly knows the situation the best is you. Have confidence in yourslef and your ability to assess the relationship. I know its easier said than done. I received tons of advice in my last relationship, some solicited others weren't. It still ended even with following some of the advice. Actually, your situation was quite similar to mine. I wanted a committment, I wanted marriage in a few years yet she wasn't ready for that. I had to let her go. Was it hard? Yes it was. I hate the cliche "If it was meant to be then it wil be" but I honestly think that is the truth. It takes two people to make a relationship work. One person trying will not make a relationship successful. You both have to want it. There has to be concessions made on both ends. Love is a tricky thing and makes people do things they wouldn't normally do with a clear mind. But never sacrifice who you are as an individual for someone else.

I hope it all works out for you. I really do. If it doesn't you will survive. Yes, being single can be tough. I know, I have been single for 2 years now. But its not all bad and it gives you time to know what you want and what don't want. You can listen to us all but in the end you have to go with your heart and what it tells you.

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