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Hi rebecca I know what you mean expect my husband belives me he has seen the pain to many times. We fight about what to eat cause I get so tired of chicken fish and turkey and rice noodles and poatoes! You know you can only fix them so many ways. This gets old very quick when some times I just want pizza or bugers and bean salad you know something easy and differant. He thinks well this what you have to eat eat it but I am really tired of it some days you know! Take care and feel better soon.
emmasmom (Sheila)
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I am so sorry! I understand completely! Like everyone else said, you are not alone. My fiance understands, he just gets on to me for eating what I'm not supposed to  . But he does it so I'm not in pain.
My Momma, on the other hand, tells me to shut up about it, and I'm annoying talking about my illnesses.
You need to let him come see this website, maybe he will understand better. Are you seeing a GI doctor? Maybe he/she could help him understand better.
I'm so sorry you don't feel well and are having all these problems!
And don't worry, venting is good, everyone needs to every once in a while or else you would blow up on some un-expecting person.
Also, don't try to walk away from a marriage just because there are a few bumps in the road (non of my business but here're my thoughts) Remember, Love is worth it! It is a job, and you have to work through differences. Just my two cents. I know you've probably heard it before, but just a reminder!
{{{HUGS & KISSES & BELLY RUBS}}} 
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IBS-C, Gas, Bloating, HURTING!
I'm married and it's so wonderful!
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ooooo how i love your belly rubs!!  lol and thank you, i'm feeling much better, it's just so hard getting accustomed to this new way of eating, and then when you ahve ppl inferring that you are purposely doing this for any reason other than it's for real and super painful is a tad aggrevating....i just want to eat a fruit salad and a bag of brussel sprouts like i used to  its not the stuff you would think you'd miss the most like cake and donuts!
I think it is just tough for him to understand because i didn't have these symptoms before...well i did but about ten years ago, and we weren't together then. It went away for so long...
today i cut out the berries .....i had no cramps at all....i stuck to bananas for my fruit i am going to try mangoes and papaya since that is a "go food".
Im still bloated though, but no pain and my bm are good.....
as for leaving my husband....lol even when he is an a*s he is still my best friend lol we both have big mouths (think of My Cousin Vinny with Joe Pesci and Marissa Tomei...that's us lol) we can have huge blowouts and 5 min later laugh about it...only thing is this is tough cause it is a total life change...but it'll get easier with time, I know that
btw....getting close to your big day!!
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Hahahaha! I love that movie, My Cousin Vinny! It is one of my favorites. I am glad that he is your best friend and you can work things out. Eventually, all of this will work out. Todd is the same way, we can disagree (we never really argue, yet   ) but a few minutes later, we are laughing with each other.
Only 18 days from today!!! Woo Hoo Woo Hoo!!! I can't wait!!!!!! Everything is DONE! I got my dress today in the mail!!! It's gorgeous. It was my grandmother's graduation dress which is 65 years old!!!  I had it tailored to fit me, and its just beautiful! She is going to have a fit when she sees it! My mom cried at the last fitting!!!
The cakes have been paid for, the caterer is set, the photographer is going to film and take a few pictures, he is set, and the wedding party is set!!!! OMG!!! You don't know how excited I am!!!
If you want to see our honeymoon spot, check out this website: www.bigcedar.com It's fabulous!!!!!!
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IBS-C, Gas, Bloating, HURTING!
I'm married and it's so wonderful!
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That place looks awesome!!!! You go girl. I wish you the best.
Lynn
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That place is absolutely breathtaking!!!! You are going to have a marvelous time....do me a favor and meditate for me on the bridge with the water running under it! That is such a perfect spot ....I am so excited for you I remeber how i was when we got married...(we are going to be getting married again in PA so his family can see it too lol DOUBLE WEDDINGS ).....
Please take pictures of you in that wonderful gown, it sounds so original and interesting! I would love to see how beautiful you look!! 
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Re: For Kappy
#345192 - 04/28/09 11:03 AM
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Kappy
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Thank you so much! I will take pictures of everything and post it! I can't wait for the honeymoon. Not only will I meditate on the bridge for you, I am going to do a whole yoga sequence there! It looks so peaceful and calming! Maybe that is just what I need to get the gut back on track.
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IBS-C, Gas, Bloating, HURTING!
I'm married and it's so wonderful!
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Good one! :)
#345382 - 05/02/09 09:34 AM
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Nelly
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13000! I can't believe this site has taken off like that!  Hopefully people are finding comfort here... I know I feel like a weight has shifted when I log on. Everyone here should be proud of themselves for being proactive about their health and finding this group! 
~nelly~ Member #3757
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That's very true!! To be honest since I stopped trying to eat the high fat foods when I get my sweets cravings (lil baby snickers and that sort of thing! )I've been managing to keep my symptoms at bay....luckily (i am so knocking on wood right now ) the longest i go without a bm is 1 day and a half and my cramps only come when i eat too much....it is amazing the luscious desserts you can make vegan low fat ...i am so happy my whole route to work doesn't entail me scoring the sides of the road for my emergency bathroom route....i am so excited i have some sort of normalcy again! Thanks everyone for your posts! I really appreciated the emotional lift up
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