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#304155 - 04/06/07 03:33 AM
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Mary_V
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Ok. Here's the new thread. I named it a little more aptly. And it probably won't be a really long one like last time...at least not for a while.
So, here's the scoop on where we're at. AF did start yesterday. I'm excited that it started on it's own this time...which means the drugs worked. But it turns out that I'm really not our main problem now. I am annovulatory. But with drugs and with age that will get better. There is a lot that doctors can do for women. And my RE said it usually corrects itself as you get older. The real issue now is DH. I wish we would have found this out sooner. His count and motility are low, but not super horrible. But morphology is really bad...pretty much 0% normal. And there isn't much you can do about that...it's genetic. It may never improve. So, given our situation, we are moving on to injectables and IVF (with ICSI - inject one sperm directly into the egg)...as I expected. And there is a good chance we will always have to do IVF to get pg  The tough part for me is the waiting now. For IVF doctors like you to be on bc 1 month before the stimulating cycle. But we are going to Spain at the end of May. So we have to wait another month yet. I am kind of glad that I get to take it easy this month...NO DRUGS! Then in May I'll take bc, and DH will do another s/a. And we'll start the IVF process around June 20 (we also have to work around my doctor's vacation...he's going out of state for his daughter's wedding at the end of June...that's why we have to wait until then...just before he leaves we'll start injections, then continue the process when he gets back). It's kind of tough to accept that the absolute soonest I'll be pg now is July. That seems so far away. But at least I know what's going on now. And I can focus on other things for a while. It will be a nice mental break. And we are planning on telling our families now. Since we're doing inejctions and IVF we can't really hide stuff anymore, and we need the support. That will be a big burden off my shoulders too...to not have to keep such a big secret from everyone. We do have some big decisions to make yet...mostly about the unused embryos...do we freeze them and make sure that we use them all up at some point? Or put them up for adoption for couples that can't do it on their own for physical or financial reasons? I don't think we could opt to destroy them...just not what we believe.
Now I need to figure out what to do with the other aspects of my life in the meantime...mostly my job. I really hate my job right now. I was sticking with it for a bit in case I got pg. Then I knew I would just work until I had the baby and then be a stay-at-home mom. Now that I know I have at least a few months b/f getting pg I think it's time to move on to something else. Even if it's just temporary. I would love something I could do from home that is really flexible for when I do start treatments and need to go to the RE regularly to be monitored and when I do the IVF. I have a lot of thinking and researching to do. Anyone have any ideas of work from home jobs? Something that is not home sales...I would be horrible at trying to sell things.
Well, that's the scoop. Just wanted to give you the details and ask for your prayers. DH is having a hard time with this since he is the main reason we need to go this route. I told him I still love him the same, I don't blame him, and it's not his fault. But it's still tough. Since I'm on hold for a while I probably won't have much to post on this topic. I'll pick it back up when things start again. For now, good luck to everyone else ttc.
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
 
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I hope I didn't offend you when I mentioned starting a new thread?? It just makes it harder when any one thread gets too long.  I used to start a new one with each new cycle!
I am sure you are very confused about many things at the moment. Try to keep thinking positive. You are on the right road, you know what the problems are and they can be worked around. I know July seems like forever but a little break is good both mentally and physically. I agree, it will also be easier once you can tell your family and friends as well.
My opinion on the left over embryos is to give up them for adoption if you end up not needing them all. That would be a extraordinary gift to someone, especially someone who might not otherwise be able to have a child.
Your poor hubby! It is in no way his fault but I know how mine would react! 
I have no advice on your job as I am struggling with similar issues for health reasons though. In my area the economy is so bad, I would have a tough time finding another job in the future that pays anything resembling decent!
My hugs and love sweetie, I know it seems just like FOREVER but you are getting answers AND solutions. Focus on something else! Learn to scrapbook if you don't already, your going to want to take lots of pictures of your little one!
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And I can focus on other things for a while. It will be a nice mental break.
That's what I'm trying to do, focus on other things. We're not having much luck over here. I'm one day late at this point but I don't think I ever ovulated this last cycle unless the tests were wrong so I don't have high hopes. I haven't been posting on the topic much to try and keep my mind on other things. And I'm still super hormonal.
That aside, I'm both sorry and a little relieved for you. Sad that you have to move on to the next step of the process because of how things have turned out. But relieved that at least you know what the next step is and you have a plan. Sometimes it helps when the decision is out of our hands even if it isn't the answer we wanted.
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No worries, no offense taken. I agree, the thread was getting pretty long. And it has taken a different turn from its original purpose.
Yes, I know we are on the right track. It just sucks to have to wait so long now. Hopefully I can get focused on other stuff so the time flies by. The hardest part is my job. I really struggle with it every day, so each day feels like an eternity. I'm trying to force myself to do something I don't want to do, and there is so much other stuff going on in my head. If I had a job that I enjoyed things would be a lot easier. I know I won't find another job that pays what I make right now (I'm an electrical engineer), but I don't really care. DH is also an EE and makes good money and has good benefits. We have plenty in the bank right now to cover several rounds of IVF if need be. So, the money isn't much of an issue. I just need to find something I enjoy, something I feel confident doing, and something that gives me a purpose...like helping others. But I also need flexibility. And my health does affect it too. Even though I had surgery and am doing a LOT better than I was, I still am not as good as a normal person. I still have limitations. And, one of the biggest things, I need to have a job where I have the freedom to use the bathroom any time I need to...I go a LOT during the day since I have to drink so much to keep my system working and keep the miralax working. Also, b/c of the surgery I have bms throughout the day. So it can hit any time. I can't have a job that you need to "go on break" to use the bathroom. I literally go every 1/2 hour most days while I'm at work. Another reason that working from home would be ideal. I have a lot of thinking and searching to do.
I see my whole family tomorrow. I might tell some of them. We'll see how the day goes. I don't want to put a damper on my nephew's 3rd birthday party :P
DH and I need to do some serious thinking, talking, and praying about what to do with the embryos. Part of me would like to do adoption...knowing how badly a woman can want a child and have trouble getting one. But at the same time it seems weird to have someone else giving birth to "my" children. I don't know. Then again we may not even need to make that decision. Maybe we will use them all. Who knows. Like I said, we will give it a LOT of thought and consider every aspect of it.
Thanks again for your words of wisdom, Michele. I appreciate them so much.
I was just curious what kind of injections you've used? I will be using Repronex and Follistim. Do you know anything about them? You did not do IVF, right? We have our consult on May 10 to go over all the details. I'm nervous about the procedure itself. I hope it's not too painful.
Thanks again for your advice and encouragement. I hope you're feeling ok. Hopefully the PT and acupuncture will help.
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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Good luck to you! Hopefully it will happen soon. Is your IBS settling at all? Hormones can really suck. I think I've cried more in the last few months than I have in the last few years.
I hope you can continue to stay focused on other things. It really helps. Never feel obligated to post or reply to me. I completely understand about not getting obsessed. I think I'm going to stop looking at ttc boards for a while. No reason to since I'm not ttc :P
Yes, it is nice to have a set plan and know that we've done everything in our control. The rest is in God's hands. Hopefully He has something good planned for us. I know there is a reason we haven't been able to start a family yet...just don't know what it is. Only God knows. Hopefully we'll find out some day.
Good luck on your next round (if you need one:).
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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Mary,
Hang in there! I know the waiting can be frustrating, but at least you know there's nothing you have to/should be doing right now. Try to enjoy the break, and good luck using that time to figure something out on the job front!
You might do some searches into vitamins and such for improving DH's motility. I'm sure you'll still need IVF, but maybe there's something he can do diet or supplement wise to at least improve matters.
(((Hugs.))) Good luck!
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I really recommend Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Wechsler. I was really frustrated when I first went off the pill by spotting, erratic cycles, major anxiety, etc. When I learned how to monitor my body, it helped me to know how things were working and whether I was ovulating and all that. It's definitely not a "laid back" way to go, but if you hate not knowing/understanding, I give it a thumbs up!
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Thanks.
As far as DH. I don't think there is much we can do for him. He has been taking a men's multivitamin for about 2 1/2 months now. But other than that, not much to do. We even asked the Dr. Most things that people do for men is to help quantity and motility. But those are really not important for us. The problem for us is morphology (shape, enzyme structure), and that is genetic. You can't really change it. We will be doing IVF with ICSI. The Dr. picks out the best sperm he can find and injects it directly into an egg...so he only needs one, and it doesn't have to do any 'swimming'. That part is done by the Dr. We just need it to be able to tell the egg it's there and to create an embryo. Things are pretty much completely out of our hands at this point.
DH will do another s/a in early May. We'll see if there has been any improvement.
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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I started on repronex and had an allergic reaction it to, got hives, swelling, itchy, fever, it wasn't fun. We switched to gonal-f and that went fine. Pretty much all the injectables are about the same.
No, I never did ivf, getting pregnant was only a minor problem for use, it was actually carrying the baby and since there were no genetic defects, ivf would not help us any.
Your ovaries will be much more stimulated with the injections and you are likely to feel way full and bloated. I produced something crazy like 23 eggs one month and I was in pain. I think the actual procedure isn't too awful, I am sure its not a picnic but I haven't heard any major complaints about it.
It definitely sounds like it is time to look for a new job. It sucks to hate you job. I don't mind my job as much as I do my boss and the sicker I get the harder it gets. Sorry, maybe someone else can help you with that aspect! 
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Well, I haven't posted on the topic in a while. Thought I'd ramble a bit. Nothing new really. I've been enjoying my break from meds and ttc. But now I'm getting antsy to get going again. But I have to wait almost 2 months I will be starting bc in a couple weeks. I guess that's one step towards the goal, although it seems backwards :P DH has his 2nd s/a next week. I'm hoping for at least a little improvement. On May 10 we have our full consult to find out all the details about the drugs, the procedures, and the dates. I'm anxious to at least know that.
So far we have told my sister and DH's parents. We are gradually telling our family. But there isn't a rush since nothing is happening right now. No sense making them worry so soon. But it sure felt good to finally tell my sister. It felt like a weight was lifted off my shoulders.
I'm in the process of applying for jobs. I've realized that I want to do some type of administrative work. I did that in college and loved my job. I am VERY organized and love to plan things. I've sent 6 or 7 resumes/applications so far. We'll see what happens. It's exciting to think I could be done with my current job in a month or two!
In one month DH and I leave for Spain!! It will be a much needed vacation. We can get away from everything going on here and just relax. I'm super excited. But also super nervous about travelling. My bowels are still very unpredictable since surgery. Hopefully I can manage and not let my anxiety take over.
For right now I'm trying to figure out what my body is doing. I think my hormones are out of whack after being controlled by drugs and now being left on their own :P Hopefully once I start bc everything will settle down.
Anyway, just wanted to give an update. Things are going well, but I'm starting to get antsy. Hopefully work and vacation will keep me distracted.
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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Hi Mary! I know the waiting is hard and bc pills must definitely feel like a backwards move but just think about it that you are priming your body to carry the most precious thing in the world!
I am glad you decided to tell your family, it will help to be able to get it out in the open and not have to bottle up all the emotions!
You have some things to keep you busy at least. Good luck on the job hunting. Do you have any specific plans for Spain? Be sure to take lots of pictures!! Maybe ask your doctor for a small dose of a sedative if you think it might help you enjoy your trip a little more.
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We are flying into Madrid. We'll stay there for 3 days. Then fly to Sevilla. We'll spend the rest of our time there. We'll be gone May 26 - June 5. We'll be taking some small day trips outside of Madrid and Sevilla. We'll probably see a bull fight. And maybe some flamenco. We have some things planned, but we also have plenty of flexibility. DH knows I need that  My body doesn't always do what my brain wants it to. I'm trying to brush up on my Spanish. I minored in it in college, but haven't used it in a while.
I have an appt. with my regular Dr. next week. Maybe I'll ask him about suggestions/meds for the trip. Something to help with anxiety would be great...as long as it doesn't cause C. That's what causes most of my anxiety in the first place. And I don't want anything long term since I'm trying to get pg. Do you know of any good drugs?
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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I prefer xanax. It comes in a .25 mg which is a pretty small amount and it can be taken only as needed. I don't notice any C from it but its a chance. Its out of your system really quickly so no worries about using before you get pg. Once you start trying I wouldn't use it but its would be just fine for the occasional use between now and than.
I used to take the .5mg 4 or 5 times a day right after losing the twins but now, I just take it at bedtime and once in a while during the day if I am having a particulary bad day. It just has a calming affect and helps you relax. It can make some people tired the first few times you take it. Its also really cheap!
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Another update. I had a progesterone blood test this morning...I didn't ovulate this month What a bummer. And now I really don't understand what's going on inside me. I had little bit of spotting a week ago. And I've had headaches, nausea, fatigue, acne...all kinds of yucky stuff. Things must really be screwed up.
We have our IVF consult on Thursday. The Dr. will give me my plan for this month...probably provera then bc. We'll get the results from DHs s/a from last week. And we'll get all the details about IVF...the drugs, the schedule, etc. I'm anxious to talk to the Dr. and get all the info. I hate not knowing. I'm a planner...and I like details!
Still no job interviews yet. I might start calling this week. I've applied for 10 jobs so far. I already know I didn't get 3 of them.
Only 2 1/2 weeks until Spain!!! I bought a bunch of cute new clothes for the trip. And I get my hair cut tomorrow. I'll be looking good Hopefully I'll be feeling good too.
I think that's all for now. Thursday is the day of details.
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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Well, at least you met with the specialist in a couple of days and hopefully he will have some answers for you. I know its frustrating.
But, new clothes and a new do, VERY fun!!
Good luck with the job hunting and be sure to keep us updated after you talk tot he doctor!
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RE consult
#307296 - 05/15/07 04:44 AM
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Mary_V
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So we had our consult last Thurs. It's nice to have more details now. But at the same time it sounds pretty scary. So many different drugs. I really don't know if I can give myself injections. We'll see. Otherwise DH will have to do them all for me.
I started Provera on Friday to induce AF. I'll take it for 10 days. Then on cd1 I call the RE to get my bc schedule. I will start with one bcp a day. Then they will bump it up to 2 a day. At some point they will have me stop the bc. AF should show a few days later...and then I start stimulation. It will probably be around June 20, but it's all dependant on my body's schedule...when AF shows. I won't go into details about all of the drugs. I don't even totally understand what all I have to do. But I'll get more directions as I go. I do know there are 6 drugs total (menopur, ganirelex acetate, follistim, novarel, progesterone in oil, doxycycline), one of them being an antibiotic, one being the hCG trigger, and the rest some other form of hormones. I need to figure out where I can get them the cheapest. Michele, any advice? Any good online place you know of? It will be out of pocket regardless, so we need to look around. I'll get u/s and b/w during stimulation to monitor things so the Dr. can adjust my medication dose if need be. Stim should be 8-12 days, depending on how I respond. The day before retrieval I start progesterone in oil shots. I have to continue those for at least 2 weeks (until pg test). If I do get pg I could have to continue those as long as 9 weeks. Again, it depends how I'm doing. If I'm not pg then obviously I stop them. The day of retrieval they attempt to fertilize the eggs. A few days later they transfer 2 embryos back in to me and freeze the rest. I have to lay there for an hour and a half after transfer. Then I don't have any major restrictions...just don't overdo. I'm sure I'll take it easy. I wouldn't want to risk it. 10 days after transfer they do a blood test to check how much hCG is still in my system from the trigger shot. 2 days after that they do a pg test! If I'm pg I stay under supervision of the RE for the first trimester. Then I go to a regular OB for the rest of the pg. If I'm not pg, then I do the transfer again in a month or two with some thawed embryos. But I won't have to do the stimulation...just some estrogen and progesterone to make sure I produce a good lining, etc.
Today I have to get some b/w done...HIV test and some other stuff...they are legally required to do this b/f trying to make a baby. I'm already getting sick of b/w and needles...and I know it will only get worse. But it's all worth it in the end.
Oh, one more thing...DH's results from his 2nd s/a came back a little improved!! 2% normal instead of 0%! So there will be some good ones to choose from when they do the ICSI to fertilize the eggs. That is very encouraging.
I'm glad that the process is started. Even though I'm just taking provera right now at least I'm doing something. I'll be on some type of med from now until I find out if I'm pg! Less than 2 weeks until we leave for Spain!!! Then we can relax and have fun there and not think about this stuff. When we get back it will only be about 2 weeks until I start stims. I'm sure the time will fly by.
I probably won't have any more updates until mid June. For now I just relax and get ready for Spain!
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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Re: RE consult
#307475 - 05/17/07 10:29 AM
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Well, sounds like you have the plan all set! The shots can be intimidating but honestly, they are not too bad. The needles are small. The hcg injection is IM so hubby gave me that one in my butt, however, I did the rest myself in my tummy-its not as bad as it sounds.
I never did the progesterone injections, just the suppositories, not to make you more nervous but I did hear those hurt bit because of the oil they are in.
Some of those drugs are going to be expensive and may need to be ordered so don't wait until the day you need to start them, to get them. The only place I could even find some of the stuff at was the hospital pharmacy. Check some on line, their was this garage sale site, sorry, don't remember the exact name, but a lot of woman sold their unused drugs there.
Thats encouraging news about hubby! Good luck with it all, I know it seems overwhelming but they will guide you through the whole process and it will be over before you know it!
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Yes, it is nice to have a plan. I'm not too concerned about the shots in my stomach...just the biggies. I have done the hCG before. DH did it for me. It wasn't fun, but nothing too bad...plus you only have to do it once! I am worried about the progesterone shots, though. I too have heard they aren't fun. DH will probably have to give me those too. And I think I have to do them twice a day. I'm sure after a while I'll get used to it. The first one will be the hardest. I am hoping to order my drugs soon...probably next week. I've called some places about prices. I think I'll go with Walgreen's. They have a specialty pharmacy for infertility drugs called Schraft's. Their prices are pretty good. I just have to be sure I can tell them when to deliver the meds since we'll be in Spain. I don't want them sitting on our porch for days. Some of them need to be refrigerated. I want them delivered after we get back.
Only about 1 week until Spain!!!! I can't wait!
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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So, I have my drugs ordered. I finished provera, and AF started on Tuesday. I started bc yesterday. Holy side effects. My tummy was a little uneasy before I went to bed last night. I thought I could sleep it off. I woke up at 4 this morning, "went" to the bathroom, puked, and then went again. When I finally got settled a bit I went back to bed. I got up a little after 5 and puked again! I went back to bed and gut up a little after 6 (late for me). I managed to get ready and keep down some breakfast. And after relaxing a bit I went in to work late. My stomach stayed unsettled most of the morning. And I've had horrendous cramps. Way worse than any cramps I've ever had. They come in waves. They seem to have subsided a little bit for now. I'm having saltines and Sprite for lunch today. I don't want to upset things anymore. I really hope this was a one time thing and now my body will adjust. I leave for Spain in 2 days!!! I can't be puking on the plane :P The bc I'm taking is Desogen. Anyone used it before? I'm so glad I only have to take it for a few weeks. I take one a day from May 23 to June 9. Then I take 2 day from June 10 to June 16. Then when AF shows it's time to start stims!!
Just had to vent a little. Nausea and vomitting on top of AF and cramps really is not fun. Hopefully I'm past the worst now. On to Spain!!
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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Have a wonderful trip, and good luck as you start the treatments!
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You sure you are not pregnant??
I hope you are feeling better and have a great trip to Spain.
If it keeps up, ask for a script of Zofran, its great for nausea-they gave it to me when I was pg with the twins and couldn't stop barfing.
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I can't believe I'm almost there!! I'm on my double dose of bc right now. My body does not like it one bit. I've had horrible cramps, fatigue, dizziness, c, bloating, hair loss. The list goes on. But I only have to take it until Sat. I see my RE for my baseline u/s on Tuesday! Less than a week away! I picked up all of my meds yesterday. Scary to see all that and so many needles. I need to read up on each drug so I understand what's going on. And I have a consult from the pharmacy tomorrow to explain things too. As long as my body cooperates and AF comes early next week I should be starting stims next week!!! Then ER and ET will be the first week of July. Not very far away! I'm praying that it works. And that I can handle the drugs. I'm very optimistic that I could find out I'm pg in about a month! I'll post more after my RE appt. next week.
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Had surgery for rectal prolapse in Sept. '06 and feeling good now! Loving life with our IVF miracle #1.
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Melissa, how are you doing? Did you ever talk to your Dr.? Has your cycle regulated at all? Are you adjusting to being off bc? I'm the opposite of you. I'm hating taking bc right now. I can't wait until I can stop. I hope your body is starting to cooperate. Good luck.
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Good Luck Mary! - I'll be thinking about you and keep us posted.
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Hey Melissa, I've been thinking about you a lot lately. Just wondering how you're doing!
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That's very sweet of you. I've been doing very well, actually. With my husband getting a new teaching job, the last couple days especially have been great! So much stress lifted now that we can actually make some future financial plans.
After 5 months of being off BC, IBS was just getting to be too much, though. I was missing work and not leaving the house for anything else because I was always in pain. And being a super b***h because I was so hormonal. So the hubby and I decided it was best for me to go back on the pill for the time being. All IBS symptoms ran for cover after a couple days of being back on it. So I'm totally stable again (and feeling much more sane,  ).
I thought I'd be more upset about going back on the pill. But I think it just wasn't meant to be yet, with a career change, and all the different plans that are open to us now. Children are definitely still in the near future, just not today.
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I'm glad that things are going so well for you! At the same time I can't believe how much of an impact going off BC had on you! I think I will be going off it myself in ~3 months, and after being on it continuously for over ten years, I'm wondering what will happen. I hope I can tolerate everything okay. But I did jump my first hurdle: it took about a year, but I think my IBS is finally stable! Such a great feeling to not think about it every day. And that's part of the reason I've only been dropping by the boards once a week or so rather than several times a day. And I can say you're one of the people I have to thank for my success, so THANK YOU!
Congrats to your DH, and I hope that your plan for having kids works out soon!
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Lisa, IBS-C (Vegan)
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Mommy to Rhiannon Marie (Dec. 13, 2008)
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it took about a year, but I think my IBS is finally stable!
Yea! That's fantastic news!! I'm always happy to hear when people are able to get their IBS under control.
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I can't believe how much better I feel!! Although next week I'm going to screw it all up (I'm sure) by starting pre-natal vitamins. I'm planning to go off the pill at the end of August, so I'm HOPING I don't have a huge relapse from that. I haven't had a period in about two years, so it will be weird. And I have to admit I'm worried about going through what YOU did when you went off the pill! I've been taking it for over ten years, so who knows what will happen..... are you back on the pill again? I can't remember...
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Lisa, IBS-C (Vegan)
Stable since July 2007!
Mommy to Rhiannon Marie (Dec. 13, 2008)
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And I'm completely stable again. It's like I never had any troubles at all. Insane, what a frustrating thing IBS is. But with recent developments and me starting a new program, the hubby and I have to wonder. I believe there's a reason for everything and a few things in the last month have made it abundantly clear that getting PG right now would be a huge financial mistake. There are a lot of new things we have to pay for, and my husband's new job will just cover it, with NO wiggle room. And I'm starting school in August. So I guess this is the way it's supposed to go.
I was worried about my symptoms when I went off the pill. The first month was fine, and then everything went haywire. It got worse each month for me. But that's just me. Things hopefully will go much smoother for you.
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BC pills had a complete opposite effect on me. I was very stable then I took them for about 6 or 7 months and they completely destablized me, causing me a lot of pain, D, and a ton of anxiety. It's been over a year since I last took them and I'm still not as stable as I was before I started taking the bc pills.
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