Good for you!
#275672 - 07/25/06 08:32 PM
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Double J
Reged: 03/09/06
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Loc: High Rocky Mountains ibs-d
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It's great to feel that you have that nice  smile back. And it sounds like Jason is a good person. It's just a whole different world when we feel good about ourselves, is it not? All I can say is "good for you".
My better half says to tell you hi, and she's grining ear to ear!
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 Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow”. Mary Anne Radmacher
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I say there's not a DARN thing wrong with healing when someone else is there to help. Why do you have to do it alone? Plus, you know where each other stand, and you have all the time in the world.
Be happy, sweetheart!!!!!! 
XOXO
A.
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Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.
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Thanki you both so much. I hope I've broken all my negative relationship patterns, but we will ahve to see. i'm doing better in many ways so that's a great sign. Even the EX is happy for me.
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THAT my love, is NEVER going to happen. We're just too different, and I wish him well, but we're just SO not menat to be together, and is ee that clear as day now.
jason, however, hey...who knows! I will certainly keep you all posted.
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There's nothing that says that you should be alone right now! I'm so glad you're happy. 
I know I feel like others on these boards whan I say I feel so protective of you after all this *crap* has happened to you! No need to ever not be open with all of us!! We all love you and are here for support and advice whenever you want. Only you can live your life, and you have to live it forward! Good for you, putting yourself out there. You need to have fun. Happiness suits you! 
~nelly~
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I'm happy that you're feeling some genuine happiness in your life. I found a great guy just before my divorce was final. In the year I spent with him, I learned that there really are some great guys out there that want nothing from me other than my happiness. I hoped at the time he'd be the "one" but he wasn't. BUT, he renewed my faith in men. And so I hope it goes well for you.
Just remember to keep your head about you as far as your daughter is concerned and you will be fine. I know that I never would have found my DH the first time around because I was only thinking of what I needed then...not what I would need in the future or what my kids would need. You end up with a different quality of partner when you keep in mind that THIS time around, you have to find someone who can be a great husband AND father!
Good luck to you. Enjoy.
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Flipada - IBS-C "It's a gas, gas, gas"
**Lauren**
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he loves his daughter so much and tlaks about her all the time, and does fun hings with her, and is looking forward to meeting kayleigh some day, but ONLY WHEN I AM READY for it...and like, for him, it all centers aorund whether or not we'd be family compatible. i think the thing is, with so many complications this time around, i won't even waste my time with someone that doesn't satsfy all those requirements. I have had so many flings, met so many guys who were abusive, negligent, unfaithful etc. to me that I can smell them from a mile away. AAnd trevor really did break it off with me before he got physical with that girl, so I can say that I'm confident he wasn't a cheater.
Jason is just soooo different. I totally like him and want to get to know more about him. We've been on like, five or six dates, and he's just taking things slow, and is so open and trusting. it's fantastic. I't s ABOUT TIME.
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Well hon, you do deserve it. I don't want to be the heavy...just lookin' out for ya. But yeah, it really is so nice to have someone that enjoys to be around kids. My ex lives 7 blocks away and hasn't seen the kids in 3 weeks. He doesn't call either. It's sad. He's living with his gf and her two kids and their little one. Apparently, he's too busy.
BUT, my DH has done so much with the boys. He's been a great influence on them and I'm glad. I'm very lucky. And I have a feeling that you will be just as lucky. Maybe with this guy...maybe with another. But it'll happen.
Here's to happy hearts!!
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Flipada - IBS-C "It's a gas, gas, gas"
**Lauren**
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#276003 - 07/28/06 04:28 AM
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pinkprincess
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so happy for you! you sounds so happy and I can just imagine your face is glowing as you type! yay for you xxxxx
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I so know where you're coming from. I think part of me is afraid to be like my mother, always pessimistic about anyone being good for me at any time. Jason sems soooo legitimate. We've logged about 50 hours on the phone and about 30 e-mails so far... so he's not like a stranger, but certainly I'm not plannin a wedding.
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