Thanks Michele
#272705 - 07/05/06 07:15 PM
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That's ok about not knowing about Cushing's...it's very rare and a lot of people don't know about it (even doctors scarily enough).
Anyways, regarding the endometriosis treatment...I've already been down that avenue with the doctors sadly and if it IS pseudo-cushing's with birth control as the cause...I can't have any other forms of hormonal birth control (or any synthetic hormones at all really which is what the other treatments for endo are).
So yeah, I've been considering a hysterectomy for awhile (since I've suspected Cushing's for awhile). I know it's a major surgery and recovery time but both my aunt and mom had them (because of endo) and they managed. Plus, I've known for a long time I don't want kids and have been told I likely couldn't conceive even if I did. Scott is fine with that...and we decided that if we changed our minds down the road we would be happy to adopt. So I think that's the best way for me to go. The bloody surgery isn't even a cure, but it would definately go a long way towards making a difference.
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Thanks for the suggestion  I don't know enough about the Nuvaring to say for sure but I'm pretty sure it excretes synthetic hormones, so it would be a no-no for me, as would any other pill of any kind 
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Thanks Shannon
#272707 - 07/05/06 07:17 PM
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Thanks Shannon,
It's always nice to hear encouraging stories about successful endo surgeries...sadly they don't work for everyone. And I know there are treatments to consider but a hysterectomy has been on my mind for a long time - it's not a cure but can go a long way towards making a person feel better which is what I want (obviously).
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Hi, Kelly:
I'm sorry that this diagnosis isn't great news, but at least it's a starting point! It's so fantastic to be taken seriously and to be working toward a cure, eh?
It's not a bad idea to ask your docs to postpone taking you off the pill. They probably will if you ask, and that way you don't risk your new job.
Good luck!
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OK, I probably shouldn't even say this because I hate it when people say the same thing to me, and I think we're about the same age -- but you're pretty young to decide for absolute certain you're not going to have kids. And it is not easy or cheap to adopt. Domestic adoption is tough and expensive, international adoption is easier but even more expensive. (Or at least that's how it is in the US -- but I'm guessing Canada is similar.)
I also can't imagine that any doctor would do a hyst on someone so young without at least trying the lap. I don't know if you've discussed it with your gynecologist or not. I've tentatively discussed it with a couple gynecologists but they won't do it until I'm older or until I've had kids.
I know there are lots of women out there who have surgery and aren't helped much by it (and let me raise my hand for that one) -- but those are the women that post on Internet endo boards or go to support groups. The ones who have surgery and feel great have no need for those kind of resources. There are definitely success stories out there, you just don't hear them much.
Anyway, it sounds like your mind is pretty much made up, but a hysterectomy is pretty drastic surgery and you can never go back. Believe me, I've thought about it a lot, but I'm just not ready to do it even if I didn't want to have kids. Next month I am having excision surgery done, at the Center for Endometriosis Care in Atlanta GA -- they have a really good reputation and I'm really hoping that this will end the majority of my misery. Heck, if I could even get the misery to be limited to my periods I'd be totally happy.
When will you know for sure if Cushing's is what's wrong? When will you get the bloodwork results back?
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Hey Jen
#272823 - 07/06/06 04:16 PM
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I won't know everything for sure until my follow-up August 22nd...I can likely get the blood results over the phone before that (in about a week) and interpret them myself, but I won't be seeing the specialist until August unless things look REALLY bad.
Don't worry about saying what you said about the hysterectomy. I totally understand where you're coming from and it's not like it isn't something I haven't heard before. Obviously I would give it more thought and I believe at my age you have to go through some psychiatric counselling before they will even do the surgery on you - but I still think it might be something I would want. It seems to always happen eventually to the women in my family...and the kids thing has been the way I've always felt. Plus, I don't think I would be capable of raising a child with the terrible endo pain (assuming the lap didn't work and I know it could) AND Cushing's (which could take a long time to get under control).
Plus, my fiance REALLY doesn't want children. I know he could also change his mind but I find it highly unlikely and with him being so against the idea of having kids I don't see it in our future. And we've been together 8 years so I've known that's where he stood (and he's known where I stand) for a long time. We both would love to get a big house where we could adopt a lot of animals (and maybe foster some) because we definately do better with animals than children.
That being said, I promise, I'm not just going to jump on an operating table in the next few months and let them rip it out or anything. IF the BC pills are the culprit (and they may not be) I will just take it under serious consideration.
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I've never heard of this, but big hugs! I'm sorry it's taken so much time for doctors to understand what you've been going through. Why are they so slow?!
It sounds like you've gotten some pretty good advice from the other board members. I agree that you should ask if you can continue taking the BC pill until you get through your probationary period at work.
After all the medical tests are done, what sort of treatment will you have?
Take care.
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Kelly,
I am sorry you are going through all of this. I am like the others and don't know anything about Cushings. At least with a dx they can start treating you instead of blowing you off.
I also had endometriosis. I had a complete hysterectomy at age 36. I had already had 3 children and wasn't dx with endo until I was 35. Even with all the pain I was going through I still had to convince the doc to do the hysterectomy. He actually suggested that I have another baby because he said pregnancy relieves some of the symptoms. I really had to insist.
I can honestly say that it was the best thing for me. I felt so horrible before and so much better afterwards. I know a lot of women have problems afterwards but I really didn't experience any of them. I still felt like a woman, have never had any problems sexually and on a whole felt so much better physically that it was worth it for me.
Everyone is different though and you should be aware of the pros and cons before you make your decision. The pain of endo is very difficult to live with so I do understand your thinking about a hysterectomy.
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