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Gee, someone is not wanting a very smooth divorce does he? What an immature idiot!
Sorry you and your daughter are dealing with this CRAP!! A MATURE MAN would know better!
I'd say, "Don't let the door hit your @ss on the way out!!"
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I agree with everything that has been suggested to you ... when I was divorced I recordered every conversation, every phone conversation, and every message that my ex left on my phone. Although most of it was not good in court it sure made interesting listening when the attorneys got to together.
Now you really need to be careful what you say, and to whom. I was surprised by the number of friends that my ex and I had that tried to get me to say things about her.
Mum's the word ...
Chinese proverb: Speak slow, think fast.
He's going to want at least partial custody, and the minimum amount of support that he has to pay. And he is going to be paying for years. Don't give him anything that he can use against you.
It's time to get tough sister ... he is treating you as if you were nothing ... it's time to give him nothing in return.
My heart and prayers go out to you and your daughter. I am so very sorry that you have to go through this.
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Grill him. That is unacceptable. My parents had the most twisted relationship and when stuff like this starts I know where it will lead. Your poor baby is going to be so confused and you already know how it will affect her, I don't have to tell you. What a dillhole. I'm going back to flaming bag of pooh. Yes it childish, but it's dang funny and theraputic to watch someone who's hurt you stomp out that bag.
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What a total jerk. Is there any way to refuse visitation, or have his visits supervised by a court liason to make sure the bimbo is not there?
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I said "please, just go. Go." and he said "you go!" Very grown up for 29.
I'm not giving up my residence for this [censored]. No way.
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yep, pretty ballsy. Pretty stupid. Leads me to believe he's on drugs, for the first time in his life.
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That's going through my mind. I'd also like to key his brand new car.
And put neet in the shampoo. 
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he said "whatever you want" when we discussed custody the other day. I think I'll go for full or majority anyhow. I don't want her exempt from his life or vice versa...but what a rude, low blow. And trying to get me to keep his secret? filthy.
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Good for you Shannon. I think you will feel much stronger when you know what your rights are legally.
Good Luck tomorrow!
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And I think at this next get together, you need to invite this 17 year old's father and your mother-in-law.  Let's lay it allll out on the line, baybee. You're not keeping crap from no one! It's not up to you to hide these degenerates' problems!
~nelly~ 
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