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Hard to completely explain but it's somethign I pray about how to respond to properly, that's for sure!
hugs, "sis"
-------------------- Take care,
Michelle
...the greatest of these is LOVE. (I Cor 13)
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My mother is both negligent and overbearing at the same time. She cannot have a conversation without blatantly trying to argue with me, or "one up" me. It's stupid! It's the "me me me" stuff. I realize now that my mom never wanted a daugthter, she wanted a friend. I never wanted a friend, I wanted a mother. And since she raised us as a single mother, my internalized crap had to be hashed out in therapy. i have finally decided not to give a crap anymore. I will love her but I won't play her games, make her make me feel anything, or make me do or HEAR anything I don't want to. She can come around once every few months if she pleasesw, though she's 1/2 hour away, and if she doesn't, oh well. Why worry anymore!
-------------------- Keep on keepin' on...
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