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I'm all for giving people the benefit of the doubt as well. I'm sure they DO get tons of questions. And they probably are tired and what not. But it DID hurt...and there's no need to go hurting sensative people in pain (which is most of us with IC!!)
Obviosuly....people who say hurtful things to others are hurting themselves. This is why I'm So reluctant to mention it to the doc....I have a hard time standing up for myself as well (don't think I'm worth it or something...)
A lot to think about for sure!
How;s the knitting going? I LOVE your pic...you're simply beautiful Rachel
With love, Ruchie
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I too would love it if we lived closer!! Our dogs could play in addition to us being friends...ahhh...that'd rock!
I'm glad you're in my life Michele...and that we're friends I feel like I have a LOT to learn from you and I DO learn a lot from you! Your def someone I look up to and you help me get through my tough times...thanks!
Love ya!
Ruch
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Thank you Tommy! I am SO glad you and Tina found each other as you are twon of THE kindest people in the world!
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Thank you Shell! You're right! I spent tons of time cooking and reading and I got Finding Nemo from the library (hubby drove so I was safe!) and I am so grateful to be looking after myself
How are you doing? How's the gym coming along? Haven't been on the fitness boards for a say or two..and I missed your grand post. Will have to check it soon...
With love! Ruch
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Right now.
Yes!
All there is is RIGHT NOW.
You're brilliant Bevvy...and don't say you aren't please...because to ME you ARE. *hugs*
If I just take it one day at a time...I will not only help myself...but I will help the surgeon do a btter jon if I'm relaxed.
Take care of me. That's my job. Some people work and some people have kids...my job is to take care of me and hubby and to be loved and to give love on these boards.
I'm one of the most fortunate people in the world if I really stay in the RIGHT NOW of things....
Who knows? Tom. there could be a med for bipolar/anxiety that won't cause any memory probs for me and I'll even be able to have kids. For now...I'm just gonna watch Dory in Finding Nemo and be thankful my memory isn't that bad (though I do feel I can relate to her on some level or there wouldn't be as much appeal there)...ok I'm rambling!
Thanks Bev...everyone needs a Number One Fan. I'm glad you're mine!
I love you!!!
P.S. How's WW coming? From the recips and pics....it looks like it's going GRRRRREAT!
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You're so sweet Kiwii! *hugs* Thanks for the prayers and thoughts...I need em'! There are mild (but painful) possibilities of a complication with this surgery and I'm hoping I'll be obsolved of the pain AND complications. But of course it is up to G-d (in my belief) and whatever is best will be.
Thanks again...hope you are well and happy *hugs*
Love, Ruch
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Thanks Dan
How is being back at work? Keep posting here as much as you like...it's great by us!
Yes, this place is my IBS Family. What a Bracha!
Feel good...and keep us posted.
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Hugs are free!
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Don't feel alone! We're on the same diet, and for the most part in the same boat... If you want to coast for a while, I can paddle!!
~nelly~
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YES! Exactly! I couldn't articulate it yesterday but I just wanted someone to cook for me...to PADDLE while I coast!
What do you eat Nel? What does your weekly menu look like?
Thanks for being my friend Nel. I think we should take turns paddling and coasting. Whaddya say?
I love you! *mwah*
Ruch
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Ruchie, you are perfect, i.e. perfectly imperfect or human.
Yup, I'm still not smoking. I might get an Anti-depressant as I am so depressed without that "hit" or "buzz." Yes, some Prozac is in order. Actually, I did a little research and they highly recommend an anti-depressant for new non-smokers to aid in the brain chemical part of the quitting process.
Everyday is more high octane. I feel increasingly outstanding. My veins are pumped. Seriously, I don't get those blue hands anymore.
Is there no one you can associate with, spend time with near you? You are so alone!
What's stopping you from getting a couch? Kate.
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