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I have never had to worry about my husband looking at that mess and I don't think I will ever have to worry about it.
He's happy with me and doesn't want to get kicked out like my Ex-fiance did. He respects how I feel about it. One thing he does know for sure ~ If he ever wanted out of our marriage~ That would do it! He would be out that day. No questions, no explanations, nothing. Just get out!
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Does looking at porn if you're a guy in a serious relationship mean you're cheating or think less or love less of your wife/gf? If that is the case, I know plenty of guys who are in trouble!!!   
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maybe you could tell him what you saw if he dosen't admit it show him where you found it?? Porn is very bad i can't beleive there are even sites to do with it 
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Porn of any kind only serves to degrade...I have seen the effects of addictions to porn ruin so many marriages. I would take off in the opposite direction and not look back.
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It is that it makes most wives/girlfriends feel degraded. I think that is where most men "miss the point"...I still love my wife. It isn't whether you think you are cheating or not...it is how it makes HER feel.
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Does looking at porn if you're a guy in a serious relationship mean you're cheating or think less or love less of your wife/gf? If that is the case, I know plenty of guys who are in trouble!!!
ABSOLUTELY NOT!! It is more the norm then I think a lot of people think.... both male & females look... and not all porn is "hard-core"...... some if it is kinda classy...I think how you receive it all depends on how confident you are about yourself and your relationship.... I'm not threatened AT ALL by Shane looking at it (vis versa)...... I think I would be more concerned if he did NOT look at it.
So, Tommy... hopefully Tina is cool about you lookin!! LOL 
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Hmm interesting topic and viewpoints from different people. How do you know it makes most wives/gf's feel degraded? I guess I do miss the point. Men are different than women. Now there are soe men who do have addictions to porn and that is a problem. But, I know men who have been married for 20 years who watch porn and their wives know about it.
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Well Shell, I am not going to get into my personal habits on this website or the more private aspects of our relationship. What I will say is that I agree with your viewpoint.
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Hmm interesting topic and viewpoints from different people. How do you know it makes most wives/gf's feel degraded? I guess I do miss the point. Men are different than women. Now there are soe men who do have addictions to porn and that is a problem. But, I know men who have been married for 20 years who watch porn and their wives know about it.
Yes, very interesting... and Tommy, you hit the nail on the head... Men ARE different from Women...and don't understand why it would be degrading... (I personally don't think it is) cuz..hum... most porn that I've seen has both male & females in it!! LOL Shane & I BOTH try to see who can find the bunny first on the cover of Playboy every month when it comes in the mail!! LOL
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Well Shell, I am not going to get into my personal habits on this website or the more private aspects of our relationship. What I will say is that I agree with your viewpoint.
LOL Tommy!!
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