I know some here will pray if I ask you to
#210801 - 09/03/05 10:37 AM
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This may sound like a minor thing in the wake of what all is happening around the world and our country, and it is. But it's important to me. Homeschooling these kids is a true joy but I and others have been concerned that I don't get to be with other women much - okay, at all. We have family in Va that are wonderful to give us breaks from time to time but I have no regular outlet of any kind and that may contribute to the "blue times" and feeligns of being overwhelmed. I have decided to try a ladies Community Bible Study on Tuesday mornings, it is a multi-denominational, multi-church thing that I've heard WONDERFUL thigns about. Best of all I've herad the children's program is fantastic. So I'm going to give it a try, though I usually don't attempt things like this because Luke's autism/asperger's-related issues make it hard for volunter child workders to deal with him sometims. My other two arent' always a piece of cake either - just insatiably curiuos and independent, though very smart and sweet too - basically good kids but not for the faint of heart!!  Imagine 3 Dennis the Menaces in one family!!  That's how it feels 'round here sometimes - tons of energy, no fear, adventurous, curious, the whole deal. I know it will serve them well as they mature but right now it keeps ya on your toes, for sure. So anyway, I'm worried now as the class starts Tuesday mornign that it isn't going to work and part of me wants to just not even try. I hate the feeling I get when Luke doesn't do well for people, I've been through it so many times before but it does not get easier, and a part of me would rather just stay home than go through that again. But I think we ALL need this and it's a good thing we're trying to do here, so if you would pray that the "track is laid" ahead of my little diesel engine Mr. Luke and all 3 of the kids, actually, that they can enjoy the time with other kids and I can enjoy the time with other ladies!!! I've talked with the teacher and done all I know to do to make it successful, and even so don't "see" how it will work out, but I'm trying to walk by FAITH and NOT by sight, so I'll ask you to pray with me! Thanks so much.
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Michelle
...the greatest of these is LOVE. (I Cor 13)
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Hi Michelle,
Of course you have my prayers that this Bible Study will work out for you and the kids.
You are a great mom and deserve to spend some time visiting with other mom's. What better way than something like a Bible Study where the kids & mom's can be together. Great idea!
I know you have some concern that the kids will be a handful but you have already talked to the teacher and hopefully that will help.
My DIL has joined a "Mommy & Me" group and has really been enjoying it because my 9 month old, very active grandaughter can learn to play with other kids while she can visit with the moms. I know it has made a big difference for her.
Another suggestion. When my kids were little I used to put them in "Mother's Day Out" at the church. It was 2 days a week from 10AM-2PM. That way I got to do my errands and do things for myself without 2 little boys tugging at me all the time. It was good for them, too, because they got to learn how to relate to other kids and share toys.
Wishing you good luck that this turns out for you. Keep us posted.
Barbie
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Been there and done that with my daughter and her sensory integration disorder. She has outgrown it prais God but I remember feeling so helpless when she flipped out and was worried that people would judge her unfairly. The beauty of it all was that the children rallied around her and took good care of her. God always put a special child in her class to look after her and I will always be grateful for that.
For you I pray that you will have peace as you enter the Bible study. That you can focus without worrying what Luke, Aaron or Sarah might be getting into. My prayer for your kids is that God will bless them with caregivers who understand their every need and will love them to pieces and do we dare pray for the teachers to have patience  ?
I have long learned not to pray for patience for myself as I always seem to get something else to be patient about!
Many hugs,
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Have a blessed day!...Rachel
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Michelle,
I applaud you for home schooling your children!! I know the concerns you have as a parent/mother about public school in general and especially with a special needs child. I too had those concerns when raising my children....who are now 15 and 17.
I grew up with a special needs brother. He is developmentally disabled (now 40 years old). During our childhood, I remember my parents struggling to figure out what would be "right" for my brother. My mother (bless her soul) was a devout Catholic, and wanted to do what was "right" in the eyes of the church. My family struggled, and still struggles today because they won't reach out to others. Christianity is about reaching out-- like what you are doing with the bible study group (that is step one) Trust in it. There are people out there to help you, if you are willing to accept their help.
My whole life has been "special needs"....I grew up with a special needs brother, and I have worked with special needs children (in the public school system) for the past 12years. Please know GOD places his followers in strategic assignments. I believe that every child I have worked with has been a special assignment from GOD.
I pray
Heavenly Father, I lift Michelle and her children up to you now. From what Michelle has shared, she is needing more communication/relationships with other mothers. I pray that her needs get met. I know that Michelle wants to do what is right in your eyes for her children Lord. Please guide her Lord. Open doors for her that have not yet been opened, show her the possibilities that are available to her and her family to make life the best it can be.
In Jesus Name I pray
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You'll be in my prayers. As a full time Mom at home with full time kids at home, I understand your feelings completely. You NEED this class. You NEED an outlet and spend some time with ADULTS, and to have a break from the kids. That's probably why you're so afraid it isn't going to work. Trust God.
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Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.
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Well, we have different spiritual persuasions, but I send LOTS AND LOTS of goodwill and good wishes for you and your children! It sounds like a great opportunity for friendship and community spirit for you and yours, as well as strethening your faith and giving you comfort in your religion. 
Luke is such a cute kid (from the photos you share) that even if he is a bit of a terror people would still love him to bits. I so hope it goes great for all of you on Tuesday. 
Just remember if you feel like chickening out..... you won't know how good it can be until you try it!
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*Emma*
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I understand how you feel, Michelle. To this day I still feel awful with leaving little Kayleigh with anyone-more out of some sense of guilt than anything. She's easy, but still-it's hard when you have the blessing of a child, to take time away from them, for you, and enjoy something like this. You deserve it, and obviously God's calling you for it. It may not be the easy path but it is the righteous one, correct? Remember that. It's a lesson I'm just beginning to learn.
And your guys will love the interaction with other kids!Can't hurt them at all.
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That's what I've prayed for all stinking summer. talk about having a skewed approach! maybe we need to ask God what we're supposed to pray for!
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Take care,
Michelle
...the greatest of these is LOVE. (I Cor 13)
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