Stressed!
#184412 - 06/07/05 03:28 PM
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SCgirl
Reged: 05/24/05
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Loc: Charleston SC
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I finally was able to go to the bathroom after a week of being bloated. I think that only reason I had any sucess is because my bf has been stressing me out. I really need some advice...I was on his laptop a little while ago and I discovered some "adult" websites that he has been looking at. I was literally sick to my stomach. What should I do?? 
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Guys are pigs. If you feel comfortable, talk to him about it and tell him how uncomfortable you are with it. The thing that bothers me about it is that that's someone's daughter and they're being horribly exploited. But that's just my opinion.
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Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.
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Amen to that! I just dont know what he is thinking. He has said before he doesnt think that it is that big of a deal.I dont know why guys think that it is just a "guy thing to do." UGH! 
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Re: Stressed!
#184424 - 06/07/05 04:10 PM
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emma-lee
Reged: 05/20/04
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Loc: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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I wouldn't worry girl. It's a guy's nature. My man does it too, and I just get into it. It can be fun!
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Re: Stressed!
#184425 - 06/07/05 04:13 PM
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emma-lee
Reged: 05/20/04
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Loc: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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I just read HanSolo's post and I would worry if it's child porn. But really, it's nothing to worry about. All guys are curious, and he doesn't mean harm. I think it'd be mores serious if it was young girls and he was paying money. That's a bit more serious.
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Hey.. What kind of adult sites are you talking about.
Naked chicks in pictures.. or actual websites where it is interactive.
I had two friends who found out their boyfriends were on adult friend finder and actually emailing girls from the website about sex and sending naked pics etc.
if that is the case I'd dump him. One of my friends did, and the other stayed with him after he promised he'd stop. Three times being caught later he's still doing it.
if its just plain old picture porn I wouldn't worry about it too much. I think most guys look.
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I realize some guys look and it can be harmless, but for some reason I've just never been ok with it. Strip clubs too. Can see the draw and just DON'T like them. Luckily my husband's not into that stuff. Have you told him you don't like it?? Maybe he'll give it up if he knows it bothers you.
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I dunno...I personally wouldn't want to stay with a man would looked at that stuff behind my back. I think it's immoral. Luckily my husband thinks it's worse than even I do. I just think there's better men out there, who'd rather only see YOU naked. Not ALL men are pigs.
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Thanks guys. I know I got mixed replies. It has never really bothered me before but for some reason now it does. It was not a paid site or child porn at all! If it were he would be gone in 2 seconds. It was just those cheesy free sites with those pictures. I talked to him last night about it and told him I didnt really like it and if he was going to do it then he needed to be open to me about it instead of looking at it behind my back. Thanks again for the replies! 
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Very mature!  Guys are different to us, they really are.
Maybe some nude photos of YOU would help? 
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