The Spoon Theory
#169393 - 04/12/05 08:06 PM
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atomic rose
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This has probably been posted here before, but I'm going to share it anyway. The writer of the article has Lupus, but the things she says could really apply to the way we live with any chronic illness or disability. Just wanted to share.
The Spoon Theory
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That's so great - I wish I had read that before my friend and I had our big falling out and maybe she would have been able to understand, instead of calling me self-absorbed and crazy... Or maybe it's better off this way, actually.
Either way, what a great story. --Steph
-------------------- ~~I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell-I know right now you can't tell~~Matchbox 20
IBS-D,pain.
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Thank you Casey...that nearly made me cry. That's me. I think I'm printing that out!
I used up extra spoons yesterday.
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That looks like it could be really helpful.
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I like that Casey! I had never seen that before so thanks for sharing it!
How are things with you? I feel so out of the loop!
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Re: Wow
#169525 - 04/13/05 09:17 AM
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michele
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Thats an incredable way to explain a chronic illness! My mom is very ill and I'm going to print it out and send it to her! Thanks for sharing!
-------------------- Taking it one day at a time.....
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It's good to see you again! I know how it goes... I stay away for a day or two and I feel totally out of the loop, so I can just imagine how you feel!
I'm doing pretty good, except for being exhausted all the time - some days, like today, I have to fight to NOT sleep all day! I don't know if it's just stress or what. Other than that, things are good... now I have to go read your "I'm back" post to see what's been going on with you! Thanks for asking!
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Linz
#169534 - 04/13/05 09:36 AM
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atomic rose
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I did cry the first time I read it - back then, I was REALLY sick with IBS, and a friend who has CFS sent it to me. That was me every day, then. It's STILL me on a lot of days, but it doesn't crush me like it used to.
I think I started today with only half my spoons. I walked to the post office and back, and then slept for 2 1/2 hours!
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OK, I'm a big cry baby.... my Mom has Lupus....I can totally SEE my Mom telling this story.... WOW!! And it tells our IBS story too.... Thanks Casey!
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Well Crap
#169539 - 04/13/05 09:52 AM
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heather7476
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Loc: South East Michigan
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That made me cry! I have been fighting it all day and now here I am bawling. I gusse I needed it! It realy does explain my life right now. Hugs
-------------------- Heather7476
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Casey, Thank you so much for posting this - the story was wonderful and the site itself was great too! I defenately have some people who would benefit from this explaination! What a great analogy!!
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and so true, isn't it? Even with my C, I find my energy gets just zapped....and I have to choose my spoons.
-------------------- Keep on keepin' on...
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Good job, Casey! That's one of my favorite explanations. I've used it often and given it to friends and family to help them understand. And that is EXACTLY how it feels!
-------------------- Laura
Keep it simple!
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Your subject line made me smile. Sorry you cried, but I hope it made you feel better.
That's a great story, atomic rose, thank you. Made me a little teary eyed myself.
--Myra
-------------------- IBS-D
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