It just gets worse and worse
#159318 - 03/10/05 03:02 PM
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atomic rose
Reged: 06/01/04
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Loc: Maine (IBS-A stable since July '05!)
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Adam lost his job today. He was officially "downsized"; he wasn't the only one, 5 people in total were let go, and they will probably eventually get rid of more. See, I should NEVER say "Things could be worse," because every time I say that, SOMETHING ELSE happens.
On the bright side, I guess, he picked up a job at a local call center. But he'll be making $4/hr LESS than he was making, and we were already struggling on what he was making before. 
I'm strong and all, but I really don't know how much more crap I can take. Ever just feel like the universe is aligned against you?
Forgive me, again, if I don't reply right away - I really dont feel like talking to anyone right now, I just wanted to let anyone who cares know what's going on.
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After all you guys have been through lately. You two are definitely in my thoughts and if you feel like talking, you know we'll be here for you.
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- Jennifer
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I don't know of anything to say to make you feel better.
Just want you to know that I'm thinking about you.
Hugs
Barbie
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Oh Casey....{{BIG HUGS}} You've got my email if you need anything.....
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HUGS Casey
#159343 - 03/10/05 03:41 PM
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Vicam
Reged: 02/24/04
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Hey Casey,
So sorry to hear about Adam's job Glad to hear he found something else though. I can sympathize with you about struggling financially since my bf was out of work for 5 months, and then when he finally found work he's making like $6 less per hour than his old job...it sucks. But I'm sure you'll be ok, like you said, you ARE strong and you will get through this!!!
Hang in there,
Kelly
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I am sorry that Adam lost his job Casey. That is bad news. I can't deny that. Things will get better though Casey. You have to believe that. I know it is easier said than done. I am sending good thoughts your way. I know things will get better soon enough.
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I'm one of those people who's always thinking it just can't get any worse and then it does, again and again and again. And yes I feel like I must have done something REALLY awful in a past life or something cause NOTHING EVER goes right for our family.
Big hugs, I hope things start to get better soon. And if you need to have a cry let it out (sometimes I lie in bed, cover myself with the doona and scream as loud as I can, or go for a drive and do it  You look crazy but it sure helps).
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Amy
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Oh Casey, that just plain sucks! 
You do whatever it is you want to do Casey. This is some pretty difficult news.
I will be thinking of you and sending you some good thoughts.
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Casey
#159390 - 03/10/05 05:57 PM
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heather7476
Reged: 08/09/04
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HUGS AND KISSES!!! I know just what you mean! Soemtimes it just seems that it will never end! I also am in a mood where I just don't fel like talking. So don't worry everyone understnads!!!!
I hope things get better soon!! HUGS
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I've been there, done that. My husband has lost his job twice, so I can relate. It is a very stressful time for you both, but I'm sure you will get through it.
It does seem like when it rains, it pours, doesn't it?
((((Big hugs to you and to Adam.)))) I will pray that he finds an even better job soon. I'm sure God has something terrific planned for you two.
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oh no casey.. that really sucks and I'm very sorry.
things have got to start looking up sometime!
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That's awful Casey. I guess the bright side is that he was able to find a job so quickly rather than being out of work for awhile.
I will keep you both in my thoughts that something good will open up for you. When a door closes, there's always a window opened.
Good luck and take care,
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Lana_Marie
Proud Mommy to Bentley Taylor
Born May 12, 2004 9lbs, 3oz
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I saw this after I emailed you. Guess I know why he was let go now. I hope my email brings you some hope/support/love...
Keep in touch, if you need to, please.
Take a breath and try to calm down before trying to figure everything out. Otherwise, it will be too overwhelming and seem too daunting.
Love to you, Casey
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~ Beth
Constipation, pain prodominent,cramps, spasms and bloat!
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Aww Casey that's awful! I'm really hoping that things start going better for you all very very soon. I hate when bad stuff happens to good people - you just don't deserve it!
Well take care and big big big hugs hugs coming your way.
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Sorry you two are having such a hard time of it right now. Sometimes it seems that when it rains it pours.
Hope it gets better soon!!!!
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*big hug* Know that you're both in our thoughts and prayers!
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..as you say you ARE strong, and with life its the peeks and troughs, without the troughs there would be no peeks! Hmm, sounds a bit lame at the mo, but you keep positive and EVERYTHING will be great, mark my words  x
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Aw sweetie!
#159485 - 03/11/05 01:37 AM
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Linz
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I totally get you...Si and I have that "world is against us" thing coming up quite often!
{{{HUGS}}}
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Really, really sorry - life really does suck sometimes.
Just trust that it will get better, and remeber things are better than they were when you were at your sickest. You are obviously a really strong person and you WILL get through this.
Take care of yourself and Adam.
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Casey Im so sorry, just wanted to add my support and let you know that we're all thinking about you. I really hope things get better soon....take care of yourself....stress is all you need to agravate your ibs....keep us all posted ad vent as much as you need to.
(((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
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Natalie
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I hope you can tell just by the amount of responses you got that a lot of people really care about you - myself included. We've all been through times like these. You'll get through it one way or the other... it might be tough for a while but things will definitely get better!
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Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.
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oh no, casey, that does just plain suck I hope things work out, and soon. sending lots of thoughts your way.
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-Sheri
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Oh Casey, thats just awful.  I'm so sorry. I don't have too much time right now and haven't read the other replies yet but just wanted to give you my support. I totally understand about not wanting to talk right now, take as much time as you need. But, also remember, we are ALL here for you. If you just need to vent, need some advice, or just need a hug!! Lots of love and BIG, BIG hugs!!
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Taking it one day at a time.....
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*HUG*
#159602 - 03/11/05 08:18 AM
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khyricat
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at least he found something right away and you're not living on unemployement, but aren't you glad you have started to bring in some income on your own? is there a way to increase that income to offset some of his lost income?
We survived my being out of work for almost a year.. but we did learn to live without a lot.. and now I make (even after several raises and promotions) less then half what I was before I was laid off. its not easy.. but it is doable.. and I'm sure you will figure out some way to make $, you are a strong smart woman.
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Christie
~Hoping and Praying for Sleep!~
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oh casey...I am soooo sorry...:-( big big hugs. I haven't been around the boards that much lately. I hope everything works out ok :-(
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*HUGS*
#159643 - 03/11/05 11:25 AM
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melitami
Reged: 02/23/04
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I'm so sorry , Casey. Let us know if there's anything we can do to help....or email me if you need someone to talk to....
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Melissa
Friendship is thicker than blood. ~Rent
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Hi Casey,
Just a quick note to join others in encouraging you. You are so important to us on these boards - you have so much great advice for people and always help everyone to feel like thier concerns are afforded attention - I'm sure you know that's important with all of us feeling like there are so many people who DON'T understand! I hope things get better soon for you and Adam and I'm glad you have eachother for support. We'll be thinking about you and sending hugs - let us know what's going on and if there's anything we can do.
Min
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS!!!}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} You mean so much to everyone here, it's so not fair that the sky can come crashing down on you. Keep strong and good luck-- No more bad stuff for you, Nelly orders it!!!
~nelly~
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I really appreciate all the words of support and whatnot... you guys are the greatest, you truly are! Thank you!
We're hanging in there... I guess that's about all we can do right now.
We did have a little bit of good news, totally unrelated to this job mess - Adam's MRI came back normal. No brain tumors or growths or anything. Thank goodness!!
Anyway, I just wanted to pop in and say thanks to everyone!
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casey
this is my THIRD attempt to reply to this post as my PC keeps falling off the internet and its driving me crazy
I am so sorry that this has happened to you guys, and I know the reduction in income will be a struggle, but try to focus on the positive- how well you are now, how great it is that Adam got a job so quickly and now the latest good news with his MRI- take care and you know where to come when things are getting you down...HUGS
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That's great! I'm glad his MRI was all clear. What a relief for you guys. Hang in there. It will get better.
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Amy
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That's great about Adam's MRI.
You take care my dear!
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C is for Caring
A is for Absolutely Wonderful in Every Way
S is for Sincere and Sweet
E is for Everything Great
Y...because You ROCK!
Casey...you're the BEST! Please know how much we all love you...
I can't say things will get better. i don't know. BUT i know you're very loved we...and that you have a special place in our hearts! *hugs*
With love,
Ruchie
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Formerly known as Ruchie
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