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Well we showed ours two weeks ago when we went away overnight. We stayed at the a Hilton, ate at a great restaurant. He also didn't bat an eye when I went shopping and spent about $200  . Later that night he surprised me with some fun stuff!  And let me tell you this it was fun!!!!!!
I did buy him 3 DVD because he is a movie junkie! We spent last night eating turkey burger homemade fries and playing with our son! 
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Re: Hans
#150232 - 02/15/05 07:38 AM
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michele
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I'm so glad he came around!! Enjoy the flowers! They can sure brighton your day this time of year! 
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Taking it one day at a time.....
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I know you didn't ask for my opinion...but I just felt the need to say (as I consider myself one of your friends) I agree! He is bad for you Tina!  You deserve an AMAZING guy...and this loser just ain't him!
But I'm happy he took you for dinner and flowers...you SO deserve it!
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Formerly known as Ruchie
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So today's my Valentine's Day as I'm a big believer in celebrating the day after (less crowds and everything is on sale! LOL). It's just less stressful.
I did have to give Mike his stuff yesterday since I wouldn't be able to do it today - dropped it off on his desk at work before he got there. Got him a $20 gift certificate to Starbucks, a picture frame with our picture from Christmas in it, and a few other little things.
We've been having scheduling issues lately with my school, my moving, his son's b-day and his sister ready to go into labor any day. Since I had an emotional day Sunday and spent the whole 3 hours that he was able to come over for crying, I told him it might not be a good idea to leave anything in my apartment if that's what he was planning. It may sound crazy, but I think I would start crying again because it would remind me of our lack of time together lately. I told him I'd rather have "Mike time" than anything else.
I now feel bad for ruining his would-be surprise. He was going to leave flowers in my apartment for when I got home from school last night. Definitely would have been sad, though, because he wouldn't be there to give them to me. Not sure if that makes sense.
Crazy woman hormones!! 
Now I'm not sure if I'm going to get anything now. I made him promise that I could have all day on the 26th (getting my cat!) so maybe we'll celebrate then. Not sure - hormones are still out of whack and I just don't really feel like celebrating V-Day.
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I know I deserve better. I do! I need to hear that and have it sink into my head!!!
But leaving a 10 year relationship is extremely difficult!!! 
Thanks Ruchie. 
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OMG 10 years! My DH and I dated for 9 years before we got married. He actually did break up with me at like the 7th year because I needed to be with him 24/7 and he was my best friend (and when you are 21 you should have best girlfriends not your boyfriend!)So I kinda drove him nuts cause I was that way. Him breaking up with me was the best thing for us. I grew into such a different person those 3months or so that we were apart. I found that I could get along without him. I dated a childhood boyfriend for a few weeks and as soon as he heard I was dating another person he came knocking back at my doorstep. Honestly though it broke his heart to break up with me too. We were planning on moving out and getting an apartment and then he tells me "I think we need our space"! I nearly almost died! It killed me and I cried for weeks. I was able to move on eventually but it all ended up working out for the best! We married 2 years later and have been married for 14 years in May. He is my soul mate(such a cliche)but he really is and if you feel like your BF is not then your heart must be saying so....however,
This might not be the end for you two. Maybe you do need to be apart too for him to sort things out. Controlling is such a not good thing to be. What is his sign????????? I've seen many friend controlled by their husbands/boyfriends and it's so horrible to watch. I am fortunate cause my DH is FAR from controlling. He lets me do whatever I want(to a degree) and you deserve to live like that to. Heck everyone deserves that.
Hmmmm I wonder if I were single again I'd be picky too. It's funny, the kind of guy that I'm attracted physically too is a dark haired, fit guy. (Tom Cruise or Nick Lachey type) I married a light haired balding guy who is fit but not like "model" fit. I still would never trade him though for my "fantasy guy". It's what counts inside that really matters. Being good looking wont' always get you places.
I feel so bad for what you must be going through. It is going to be tough for you to do it. Does he have any idea or will this shock him?
Please email me anytime you'd like to talk. Seriously, I have a really busy life working full time and raising two children but always have time for my "girlfriends"!!!
Take care and hang in there. Ughhhh, your situation makes me so sad cause I've been there. It will all work out for the best. You are a very strong girl and I know you will be doing the right thing.
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Edited by LittleLisa (02/16/05 06:26 PM)
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