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      #150849 - 02/16/05 01:56 PM
BL

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Thank you so much for your words of comfort. You have no idea how much your support means to me, especially since I am not getting it from my friends and family right now. I consider this website a blessing, and I thank God I have you in my life right now. Otherwise, I think I would go crazy. You're right. Not many people understand what this is like.

My husband is coming around. Today, he called me and asked me to meet him for lunch. I thought I was going to die driving over to his office. I hugged the steering wheel because I could not sit back in the seat because of the pain in my back. When I told him this at lunch, he offered to trade cars with me, since his has the lumbar support in the seat and is much more comfortable than mine. He also said for me to make a list of chores that he needs to do and he will do them tonight.

That is another thing that is hard for me to accept---not being able to do housework. The physical therapist doesn't even want me doing laundry right now, because she doesn't want me bending over, like to get things out of the dryer. Last night, I tried to fix dinner, but I realized how many times I'd have to bend over (to get things out of the refrigerator and off the bottom cabinet shelf.) You just take these things for granted until you can't do them anymore.

But I am excited to say that today's physical therapy session was a lot less painful---and I made great progress. She is having me lie on my stomach and push up with my hands, arching my back and thus, strengthening the opposite muscles from the ones you use to bend over with. Monday, I was in tears and could barely do a few of them. Today, I started out at 30 percent mobility and by the end of the session, I could almost straighten my arms out when pushing up.

She swears this will take the pressure off that nerve and move the muscle that supports the discs. I hope she knows what she's doing. Only time will tell. I'm supposed to do these exercises every 2 hours, so I guess I will be on the floor tonight while watching American Idol!

Also, I called the doctor's office about the anti-inflammatory, Mobic, waking me up in the middle of the night with severe stomach pain. The nurse told me to stop it immediately, and after much discussion, we decided that I would start the Celebrex back. I took it for a little while this fall and it did help. I know it's gotten a lot of bad publicity lately because of the heart problems, but it doesn't cause stomach problems and that is what my mother and I have had problems with in the past. I hope that is the right decision!

Thank you again for listening. I appreciate you so much!







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Re:BL honey,,,(for Gayla) new
      #150853 - 02/16/05 02:11 PM
BL

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Gayla, Thank you so much for your kind words. I appreciate it so much. I am having a much better day today. My physical therapy session went well (see the post I just wrote to Terri on this). The therapist swears that if I continue these exercises that soon I should not have this pain at night. I pray she is right!

I am trying to give the therapy time to work. Patience is not one of my virtues, especially when I've been sleeping in a recliner since right after Christmas. If things don't improve soon, I will pursue a medicine for sleep. The thing that is so scary to me is that even with 2 very strong narcotic pain medications, I still woke up in pain. The doctor said it is because the pain is nerve-related and not a muscle. He said this is the hardest to alleviate.

The physical therapist tried to explain that at night your joints in your back fill with fluid and that is probably why after several hours of sleep, this disc is being pushed on to the nerve. I'm afraid that no sleep medicine will keep me from having this pain.

I'm scheduled for a nerve test on March 1st to see if I have any permanent nerve damage. That should be a lot of fun! Supposedly, they hook you up to electolodes and you feel shocks. The nurse said it was mildy uncomfortable. When I balked at doing it, the doctor said it couldn't be any more uncomfortable than the pain I'm experiencing at night! That's a comfort! I don't know if any pain would be any more intense than that!

Oh well, I HAVE to get through this, whether I like it or not. I have to be strong. And I don't know what I would do without the support of all of you on the boards. Thank you all so much for listening and offering advice.



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Gayla, I forgot to ask you something new
      #150877 - 02/16/05 02:51 PM
BL

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How is your family doing? I hope everything is ok. I will keep them in my prayers. Give those grandchildren a big hug for me!



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      #150929 - 02/16/05 04:44 PM
MissS

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I'm so glad to hear about your husband asking for a to do list. That is so understanding and nice. You're right; he's coming around.

Wow, you sound so much like my husband. He can't bend over either and he can't help out with chores at all. He feels bad about it, but he really can't do it!

I know it must be very hard to not be able to cook like you want to. But, you really can't do it for now. Stock up on some Marie Callendar dinners or Lean Cuisine or Weight Watchers or whatever will help you through this time of adjustment.

Wow, I hope the physical therapy works for you. My husband has never had therapy for his back. I wonder if it would help him. If it works for you, maybe there is hope for him.

My hubby had the nerve conduction test, also. Is that the test you're going to have done?

I'm glad your nurse told you to stop the Mobic?. Sounds like you have a good doctor!

I hope you enjoy American Idol. We're hooked on it around here! It's a nice distraction.

Hope you have a great night, bl. I'll be thinking of you and I'm still praying for you, too.

Your life isn't over; it's just beginning a new chapter.
That's how it's been for us anyway.

I'm glad that I've been able to help you. You're a good ear for me, too, and I appreciate you also.
Terri

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BL and Gayla new
      #150935 - 02/16/05 04:47 PM
Bevvy

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I'm so sorry to hear about your back problems. Bad stuff those backs! And painful too.

Sorry to but in here, I just wanted to express my concern for both of you. I'll keep you in my prayers.

Bevvy

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Thank you, Bevrs! ---nt--- new
      #150960 - 02/16/05 06:01 PM
BL

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Rez: Thank you sweet Bevvy !!!!! nt new
      #151009 - 02/16/05 08:12 PM
gigi

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Re: Gayla, I forgot to ask you something new
      #151012 - 02/16/05 08:16 PM
gigi

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Thanks for asking, we had a good week. My son is off of the graveyard shift for a few weeks, so the boys wont be staying with us at night. Boy, I sure do miss those kids, they are fun, and funny, and full of love. I hate it that they aren't here with us, purely selfish reasons though.
You are in my prayers too honey !!! Hope that therapy helps you out !!!

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Re:Sorry, butting in here new
      #151020 - 02/16/05 08:40 PM
gigi

Reged: 03/21/04
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Loc: South Texas

You two give me so much hope. IT doesn't matter what I am down about today, just reading your positions and encouraging words to each other, really make me feel good. That maybe my problems aren't as bad as I see them to be.

God Bless You Both!

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Gayla! new
      #151025 - 02/16/05 10:12 PM
MissS

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Gayla, you're such a sweetheart!

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