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A few years back I had to start taking some meds for female problems that made me gain about 70 pounds in 4 months. I was already overweight but I was ok in my body!! After gaining that weight I wasn't!! I can total understand how a comment like that would hurt!! I used to avoid places with people I didn't know because I always thought they were judgeing me about my weight!! I have also lost weight on Heather's diet. About 40 pounds!!! i am feeling much better about my body again!!
My usaband would have knocked that guy out to!! He loves me no matter whice shape I am in!!! We have Good guys Gigi!!! I wouldn't trade mine for anything!!! We have been together since I was 16. I am 28 now!! Why on earth would i want anyone else!!!!
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#111362 - 10/08/04 09:45 AM
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Bevvy
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How close do you live to these people? Is it possible to avoid them?
Wife swapping was popular in the late '60's. (I'm amazed it's back in vogue!) When we were first married, I tried being cool about it when the next-door neighbor approached us, even though I was repulsed by the suggestion and even more so every time I saw them; it was damn difficult since they lived so close. I was glad to finally move away.
If this is something that repulses you, as it obviously sounds like it does, I'd avoid them -- hopefully hubby will do the same.
Good luck,
Bev
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**NOTE: WRITTEN BEFORE READING ANYONE ELSES POST**
When you see them pretend it NEVER happened????
I can't COUNT how many times I've been asked. We know LOTS of couples that swing/swap/etc... really in this day and age it is NOT a big deal nor should you or ANY OF US be surprised if we are asked to join. Take it as a compliment, say thanks but no thanks that is just not my thing and move on. BUT, most important.... make if CLEAR to your hubby that you are NOT interested. Maybe him asking YOU ("on behalf of his friend") is really his way of letting you know he is interested. BUT MAYBE NOT EITHER... you just HAVE to be open with your hubby about it.
Ok... that is just my two cents... (maybe after Vegas I'll have more cents $$$$$ to give, since I'm gonna win the BIG jackpot) hehehe
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Edited by Shell Marr (10/08/04 11:26 AM)
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Heather I asked my husband's opinion about this & he said if the guy was a true friend he would take no for an answer & if not SEE YA. Both my husband & I have been around the block a few times & are not saints (my third marriage 1st one we were too young, 2nd I had a labotomy & this is his second), we both realize how sacred marriage really truly is. Good luck to you. By the way this has a high ICK factor. 
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