Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | New name not new here....

used to be Nurturing kneads...I had a crash on my computer and I couldn't remember my login info...just wanted to say Hi and I'm glad to be back, been really busy...not better but it comes in spells, I have been under lots of stress and more to come.... Last year my husband (Cale) found a tumor in his arm (in side the bicep muscle)�he went they did lots of test and then a biopsy�they sent it off and they said its not cancer, but failed to tell us many things about this tumor and its type�so over the past year he kept telling the Dr his arm didn't feel right and he would just blow him off�so right after Thanksgiving this year his arm started to hurt and I made him go to my Dr�so my dr got the path report and he told us scary stuff�he is really concerned, it's a very rare fast growing tumor�the Dr is worried because sometimes when they are so rare it's hard to tell between cancer and not, because they have not seen it enough...and when he called the specialist , he said it acts like a sarcoma (which is cancer) so we need to see an oncologist surgeon�so we will see after the 24th, we do know it has to come out so def, facing surgery�I'm hoping even if its not cancer they can shrink it with radiation, because the use of his arm is at stake to, they will have to take out muscle so the smaller the tumor the better� I don't know how this stress will affect me, and I need to be strong for him�but who will be strong for me, so I won't flip out�I mean I know that sounds selfish but I have to be sane in order to deal with this...I DO NOT DEAL with stress well

Print Remind Me Notify Moderator