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Re: Perfectionist new
      #2790 - 03/14/03 05:14 AM
Yoda (formerly Hans)

Reged: 01/22/03
Posts: 3682
Loc: Canada

This is so unbelievable. You think we were all born under the same sign?????? I'm 30 and taught music, geography and special ed. Staying home with my 18 month old and expecting number 2 in September. I know from Heather that IBS is not linked to a psychological source, but I'm wondering if us "perfectionists" and anxious people are more prone to it or have a harder time managing it. A couple of my friends went to Teachers College in Australia because it's so hard to get into them here in Canada.
Here's something I'm sure we can all relate to - I used to never eat anything but toast for breakfast and a bowl of rice for lunch for fear I'd have an attack during the school day. I'm sure as all of you have had at one point in time - I had some classes I could leave for 15 minutes, return and they'd still be working and I could leave for 15 seconds with another class and come back to chaos. (didn't help that I mostly taught grade 7 and 8 - the hormonal darlings that they are!)

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Re: OCD websites with more info new
      #2791 - 03/14/03 05:20 AM
Yoda (formerly Hans)

Reged: 01/22/03
Posts: 3682
Loc: Canada

Try ocdhope.com and ocdfoundation.org for more specifics on OCD. There's also lots of links from these two websites. Most people have OCD tendencies. We all have little quirks about wanting things a certain way. It is only dianosed when it starts to take over your life or causes great anxiety. Take care!

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Re: Perfectionist new
      #2792 - 03/14/03 06:06 AM
jst4kdz

Reged: 03/10/03
Posts: 74
Loc: Burlington, Ontario Canada

WOW- all these teachers. I worked as a Daycare Teacher until my daughter was born. I too am a perfectionist and have a hard time adjusting to change if it is not in my game plan. I am very anxious about things and alittle OC when it comes to other things. Oh well, we wonder why we all have IBS!!!!

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Re: Perfectionist new
      #2795 - 03/14/03 06:56 AM
torbetta

Reged: 01/24/03
Posts: 1451
Loc: New York

When I student taught, I ate nothing for breakfast and prezels and water for lunch. No wonder I lost so much weight. I didn't do so well because I was overwelmed with all the stress and trying not to have to leave a class to use the bathroom. It was also hard to prepare great lessons with my daughters around. I hated every minute of student teaching. I did wonderful when I taught my junior year of college. We only had to teach two days a week and really only one lesson. I had more time to do a fun lesson. I had first graders at the time. My special ed. student teaching placement was horrible. My teacher didn't want anything to do with me. she just wanted the money, I know this because my last day there she asked me to find out if she was going to get her money. I was so sick then and I knew I hated teaching, I just said give me an unsatifactory. I know I didn't do a great job, but I also know I didn't deserve that grade.

As for perfection, interesting. I am not a perfectionist by normal definitions. I think maybe I am in that I hate failure and would perfer to not do something then fail. i think our house is on the messier side because it is never ending and I never feel it will be clean. My IBS started within three to four weeks after my last daughter was born. I think partly becuase my sister had a baby six days before my daughter and she was doing everything two days after my nephew was born (she also had a hyperactive thyroid which was removed last year.) I felt so much presure to keep up and do everything I did before that I pushed myself too hard, especially since her delivery was bad. She didn't sleep at night for six weeks so I was exhausted and started becoming depressed. The pill just made it so much worse. The depression started dimishing when she was 10 months old and I went off the pill.

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Re: Perfectionist new
      #2838 - 03/14/03 06:48 PM
louise

Reged: 02/05/03
Posts: 836
Loc: canada

you guysbnshould start your own club, all you perfectionism teachers. I AM NEITHER OF THE ABOVE.

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A little off topic... new
      #8387 - 05/06/03 02:47 PM
*Melissa*

Reged: 02/22/03
Posts: 4508
Loc: ;

... but maybe not that far. Since teaching happens to be a common "side effect" for IBS, I just wanted to tell you all Happy National Teacher Day!

Teachers rock...without them, I wouldn't be where I am today. I just wish I'd appreciated them more when I was younger.

Anyway, I just wanted to say Happy National Teacher Day...I admire all of you teachers out there for what you do every day...I'm sure it isn't always easy, especially with IBS! Keep up the good work!

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Re: A little off topic... new
      #8388 - 05/06/03 03:09 PM
ConcreteAngel

Reged: 02/12/03
Posts: 612
Loc: New Jersey,USA

I agree with Mags, and the appreciate your teachers day. In our school today, we had a choice to write any teacher a teacher gram telling them how much we appreciate them. I wrote a nice long note to my chem teacher. She has her gallbladder out, and has ibs too. Shes really cool,realistic and understanding. Happy teachs day all!

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Re: Thanks from a teacher .... new
      #8444 - 05/07/03 06:21 AM
Yoda (formerly Hans)

Reged: 01/22/03
Posts: 3682
Loc: Canada

Even though I'm not working right now, it is nice to hear. In my part of the world, teachers have a government who hates their guts, and I no longer tell people that I am a teacher - because I grew tired of being slammed for what I do. It's nice to know someone appreciates us. Sorry if this sounds whiny - that was not my intent. It's always nice to know someone is appreciated.

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Re: Thanks from a teacher .... new
      #8457 - 05/07/03 10:15 AM
*Melissa*

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You don't sound whiny! You should be proud to do something so great. That's terrible people make you want to hide the fact you do something so wonderful!

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Re: Thanks from a teacher .... new
      #8496 - 05/07/03 03:03 PM
H2

Reged: 02/28/03
Posts: 161
Loc: Ohio

I absolutely can't believe that teaching is not a respected occupation in Canada! That is just nuts!

In my mind, teaching is one of the noblest things you can do with your life. It takes a certain kind of person to be a good teacher (one gift I don't have).

Hooray for teachers!

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