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Nelly!
      08/26/05 09:24 AM
Sheri01

Reged: 04/19/04
Posts: 1731
Loc: New Jersey

He should be loving you more than the idea of having to have a bike!

And to think of all the times that you have taken care of him when he gets really sick, is he gonna expect you to do that when he gets tossed from his bike?

Completely irresponisble to get one and not know how to use it, is he that crazy to not realize how DANGEROUS those things are???

I don't think that is out of line giving his 30 day notice, even though you aren't married, when you have been together for nine years, and you LIVE together, these kind of decisions need to be made TOGETHER, not while one left the country! There is no reason/excuse/whatever that he should have went behind your back.

If there is one thing that I can't tolerate, its a liar, and allthough you aren't TELLINg lies by keeping a secret like that, decieving someone and witholding information is almost just as bad.

ANd to think he gave YOU a hard time when you came home! It was probably guilt drove him wild, he needed to feel angry at you to feel ok with what he was doing.

I hope that you work it out, there is definately something there if you have been together that long, but make sure that you stand your ground and don't take anymore crap from him. I know that you are smart enough to know how great someone is and how much you love them, if they are not treating you right there is always someone better out there!

lots of luck and hugs!
Sheri

P.S.- you might scare him out of it further if you bring "potential renters" around to view the soon to be available bedroom!

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-Sheri

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* Nelly *DELETED*
Jeano
08/24/05 04:17 PM
* THANKS EVERYONE
Nelly
08/26/05 01:26 PM
* Re: THANKS EVERYONE
thepurplelollie
08/28/05 04:26 AM
* Re: Nelly
Yoda (formerly Hans)
08/25/05 04:29 PM
* *hands Nelly a paddle*
Stephie
08/25/05 03:13 PM
* Re: *hands Nelly a paddle*
lalala
08/25/05 11:19 PM
* LOL Maria!Maria!
cailin
08/26/05 01:12 AM
* Nelly, you've got mail n-t
Snow for Sarala
08/25/05 09:45 AM
* Re: Nelly
TommyNY
08/25/05 08:40 AM
* Tommy
Nelly
08/25/05 08:46 AM
* Re: Nelly
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 08:44 AM
* Don't tempt me!! LOL! :) -nt-
Nelly
08/25/05 09:18 AM
* DO IT!! DO IT!!! Come to NY! -nt-
TommyNY
08/25/05 10:11 AM
* You are so right!!
Nelly
08/24/05 04:21 PM
* this sounds so familiar
ChristineM
08/24/05 05:28 PM
* UGH I think I might have screwed up
Nelly
08/25/05 07:53 AM
* Nelly!
Sheri01
08/26/05 09:24 AM
* My 2Cents.....
barbie
08/25/05 03:20 PM
* Jumping in here
BL
08/25/05 02:59 PM
* Re: Yeah! What BL said! -nt-
Yoda (formerly Hans)
08/25/05 04:20 PM
* Re: UGH I think I might have screwed up
lalala
08/25/05 10:17 AM
* Poor Nelly
cailin
08/25/05 11:14 AM
* ouch...
ChristineM
08/25/05 09:35 AM
* Well, if you are overreacting....
epa_ginger
08/25/05 08:09 AM
* *HUGS*
melitami
08/25/05 08:06 AM
* Re: UGH I think I might have screwed up
Dr. Spice Yamin
08/25/05 08:03 AM
* God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it
Nelly
08/25/05 08:12 AM
* Re: God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 08:20 AM
* Midlife crisis
Nelly
08/25/05 08:24 AM
* Re: Midlife crisis
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 08:31 AM
* Re: Midlife crisis
Nelly
08/25/05 08:38 AM
* Re: Midlife crisis
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 08:39 AM
* Counceling
Nelly
08/25/05 08:48 AM
* Re: Counceling
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 08:56 AM
* Don't know
Nelly
08/25/05 09:06 AM
* Re: Don't know
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 09:59 AM
* when was he planning on telling you about the bike?!? -nt-
Dr. Spice Yamin
08/25/05 09:50 AM
* Re: Don't know
Portageegal
08/25/05 09:32 AM
* Re: Don't know
Nelly
08/25/05 09:35 AM
* Re: God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it
Dr. Spice Yamin
08/25/05 08:19 AM
* He saw my tears last night :(
Nelly
08/25/05 08:28 AM
* Re: God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it
epa_ginger
08/25/05 08:16 AM
* Tough love is tough ON ME
Nelly
08/25/05 08:21 AM
* Re: Tough love is tough ON ME
epa_ginger
08/25/05 09:00 AM
* Thank you for the support!!
Nelly
08/25/05 09:12 AM
* *AS MANY HUGS AS YOU CAN STAND*
melitami
08/25/05 08:27 AM
* Re: *AS MANY HUGS AS YOU CAN STAND*
Nelly
08/25/05 08:30 AM
* Re: Tough love is tough ON ME
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 08:23 AM
* Re: Tough love is tough ON ME
Nelly
08/25/05 08:33 AM
* Re: Tough love is tough ON ME
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 08:38 AM
* Yes, eviction notice
Nelly
08/25/05 08:53 AM
* Re: Yes, eviction notice
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 08:57 AM
* Re: Yes, eviction notice
Nelly
08/25/05 09:17 AM
* Re: Yes, eviction notice
Sara-Sage
08/25/05 10:02 AM
* {{{{{{BIG gentle HUGS}}}}}}
Linz
08/26/05 05:10 AM
* Nelly *DELETED*
Jeano
08/24/05 04:41 PM
* Re: Nelly
michele
08/25/05 08:33 AM
* Thanks, Michele
Nelly
08/25/05 08:41 AM

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