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Re: UGH I think I might have screwed up       08/25/05 10:17 AM Edit Reply Quote lalala Reged: 02/14/05 Posts: 2634 First, I want to say I'm glad you had a great vacation and enjoyed your trip to Dublin. You deserved it! We don't know each other that well, but from what I've read I think you did the right thing by giving him the eviction notice and deciding that you need couple's counseling. After being together nine years, you don't want end up being the one growing and maturing while he stays the same. You'll end up resenting each other and maybe have an ugly end to the relationship. I think what you've decided shows you're a strong woman, who's setting boundaries so that you don't have to pick up his slack or spend your time worrying so much about his safety. You well-being is just as important. He might not be worried about the various dangers (physically, legally, financially) of his decision, but your concern should be important to him and enough to make him re-think his plan. The way he behaved when you arrived home, it seems like he was feeling guilty, didn't want to feel guilty, so he decided it was your fault for making him feel bad (even though you had no idea what he was up to). That's not fair to you! Stay strong, Nelly! Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Nelly *DELETED* Jeano 08/24/05 04:17 PM THANKS EVERYONE Nelly 08/26/05 01:26 PM Re: THANKS EVERYONE thepurplelollie 08/28/05 04:26 AM Re: Nelly Yoda (formerly Hans) 08/25/05 04:29 PM *hands Nelly a paddle* Stephie 08/25/05 03:13 PM Re: *hands Nelly a paddle* lalala 08/25/05 11:19 PM LOL Maria!Maria! cailin 08/26/05 01:12 AM Nelly, you've got mail n-t Snow for Sarala 08/25/05 09:45 AM Re: Nelly TommyNY 08/25/05 08:40 AM Tommy Nelly 08/25/05 08:46 AM Re: Nelly Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:44 AM Don't tempt me!! LOL! :) -nt- Nelly 08/25/05 09:18 AM DO IT!! DO IT!!! Come to NY! -nt- TommyNY 08/25/05 10:11 AM You are so right!! Nelly 08/24/05 04:21 PM this sounds so familiar ChristineM 08/24/05 05:28 PM UGH I think I might have screwed up Nelly 08/25/05 07:53 AM Nelly! Sheri01 08/26/05 09:24 AM My 2Cents..... barbie 08/25/05 03:20 PM Jumping in here BL 08/25/05 02:59 PM Re: Yeah! What BL said! -nt- Yoda (formerly Hans) 08/25/05 04:20 PM Re: UGH I think I might have screwed up lalala 08/25/05 10:17 AM Poor Nelly cailin 08/25/05 11:14 AM ouch... ChristineM 08/25/05 09:35 AM Well, if you are overreacting.... epa_ginger 08/25/05 08:09 AM *HUGS* melitami 08/25/05 08:06 AM Re: UGH I think I might have screwed up Dr. Spice Yamin 08/25/05 08:03 AM God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it Nelly 08/25/05 08:12 AM Re: God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:20 AM Midlife crisis Nelly 08/25/05 08:24 AM Re: Midlife crisis Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:31 AM Re: Midlife crisis Nelly 08/25/05 08:38 AM Re: Midlife crisis Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:39 AM Counceling Nelly 08/25/05 08:48 AM Re: Counceling Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:56 AM Don't know Nelly 08/25/05 09:06 AM Re: Don't know Sara-Sage 08/25/05 09:59 AM when was he planning on telling you about the bike?!? -nt- Dr. Spice Yamin 08/25/05 09:50 AM Re: Don't know Portageegal 08/25/05 09:32 AM Re: Don't know Nelly 08/25/05 09:35 AM Re: God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it Dr. Spice Yamin 08/25/05 08:19 AM He saw my tears last night :( Nelly 08/25/05 08:28 AM Re: God, Ashley, I can't stop crying about it epa_ginger 08/25/05 08:16 AM Tough love is tough ON ME Nelly 08/25/05 08:21 AM Re: Tough love is tough ON ME epa_ginger 08/25/05 09:00 AM Thank you for the support!! Nelly 08/25/05 09:12 AM *AS MANY HUGS AS YOU CAN STAND* melitami 08/25/05 08:27 AM Re: *AS MANY HUGS AS YOU CAN STAND* Nelly 08/25/05 08:30 AM Re: Tough love is tough ON ME Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:23 AM Re: Tough love is tough ON ME Nelly 08/25/05 08:33 AM Re: Tough love is tough ON ME Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:38 AM Yes, eviction notice Nelly 08/25/05 08:53 AM Re: Yes, eviction notice Sara-Sage 08/25/05 08:57 AM Re: Yes, eviction notice Nelly 08/25/05 09:17 AM Re: Yes, eviction notice Sara-Sage 08/25/05 10:02 AM {{{{{{BIG gentle HUGS}}}}}} Linz 08/26/05 05:10 AM Nelly *DELETED* Jeano 08/24/05 04:41 PM Re: Nelly michele 08/25/05 08:33 AM Thanks, Michele Nelly 08/25/05 08:41 AM

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