Lithelady, did you ever find a recipe for sweetened condensed milk? If not, this is the one I use. I can tolerate unsalted margarine, so I use that, but if that's a problem for you I'm sure soy margarine would work fine, too! This recipe is equal to one 14-oz. can Eagle Brand.
Sweetened Condensed Soymilk
1/2 cup boiling water 3 Tablespoons unsalted margarine 1/2 cup sugar 1 1/3 cups instant soy milk powder (I use Better Than Milk-Light)
1. Combine margarine, sugar, and soymilk powder in a medium bowl. 2. Pour in boiling water. 3. Stir well.
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