Hi Barbara, Well obviously I'm no mom...but I do remember when I was about your son's age, quite a few years ago I may add I was definitely a difficult child for my parents to handle around the age of 8 as well. Fortunately, it was just one of those stages that kids often go through, and although it is hard to cope with, I got over it and I think your son will too. I understand that you feel like you're punishing the best friend...BUT I remember a situation just like that where my parents punished me from going to a friends birthday party and that definitely upset me (but made me realize my behaviour wasn't going to be tolerated). Does Alex really want to go this party? Because if he does and you don't let him go, it may help him to get the message, even though he'll be resentful I'm sure. Maybe he could also use a change of pace? A new activity? Maybe the answer is a camp - not boot camp mind you! Anyway, hopefully some of the moms here will be able to give you some good advice. Hope everything works out for ya!!!
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Re: HELP!! Need advice from older wiser moms.
I was definitely a difficult child for my parents to handle around the age of 8 as well. Fortunately, it was just one of those stages that kids often go through, and although it is hard to cope with, I got over it and I think your son will too.
