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Re: LauraSue       07/13/04 02:25 PM Edit Reply Quote CathUK Reged: 05/25/04 Posts: 373 Loc: Cambridge, UK I know what you mean about loving someone - you can love people totally and not be attracted to them, but they are the best friend you could have in the world. I have male friends who I can see would be a perfect catch .. but that attraction just isn't there. Personally, before I admitted it to myself, I just thought I was kind of asexual - didn't feel anything for anyone. Tara (my gf) is the only person, male or female, I've ever been with and I didn't get together with her until I was 24. My family was actually happy when I told them as they couldn't work out why I was so unhappy/hadn't dated anyone. they thought it was because I was shy and underconfident. The first thing my elderly grandparents did was invite Tara on holiday - now THATs cool!! I just wish the rest of the world was so understanding, then you can stop pretending. I always get so jealous when I see couples together in parks etc as I think - why can't I do that. Perhaps I could, but I do't think I'm that confident and I know it upsets some people!! Perhaps the most surprising thing for me is that we're all just normal people - not these scary butch sterotypes that you get thrown at you through the media as you grow up. My sisters boyfriend says that we have ruined all his lesbian fantasies because we are just a normal happy couple, regardless of gender. Anyway, I've waffled on long enough ... I'm going to bed for a few hours of insomnia, before I have to drag myself off to the hell that is work! If you ever fancy a chat I'm pretty much always around the boards - I've become completly addicted as you have all helped me through some rough times. Take care, Catherine Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator

Entire thread Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? Bevvy 07/12/04 09:11 AM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? 06/10/09 02:24 PM Best Post Ever (and love to the board old timers!) Nelly 06/13/09 09:11 AM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? daliatree 01/23/05 05:32 PM Wow I missed this too 01/23/05 11:01 AM I just read this now, months later! How did I miss this thread? Sara-Sage 01/23/05 08:12 AM Re: Not really a secret?? bttrfly08 07/14/04 12:11 PM Just Wanted To Say..... Kimm 07/14/04 07:35 AM Ok it's taken me 3 days.....here goes bz 07/14/04 06:53 AM Barbara! Bevvy 07/14/04 07:51 AM Re: Barbara! BL 07/14/04 08:13 AM Re: Ok it's taken me 3 days.....here goes countrygirl 07/14/04 07:01 AM Barbara jenX 07/14/04 06:57 AM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? Kristine 07/13/04 07:25 PM <<<<Here I am again with my thoughts>>>> barbie 07/13/04 05:36 PM Re: Barbie michele 07/14/04 10:42 AM Re: Michele and Barbie Wookie 07/14/04 11:06 AM Michelle & Doe barbie 07/14/04 12:10 PM Depression peaches 07/14/04 11:55 AM Re: Peaches Wookie 07/14/04 12:20 PM Re: Peaches peaches 07/14/04 12:33 PM Re: Peaches Wookie 07/14/04 01:03 PM Re: Peaches peaches 07/14/04 01:21 PM Re: No problem at all!! -nt- Wookie 07/14/04 01:23 PM Re: Depression Sheri01 07/14/04 12:15 PM Re: Sheri01 Wookie 07/14/04 12:28 PM Anti-depressants ChristineM 07/14/04 12:23 PM Re: ChristineM Wookie 07/14/04 12:36 PM deep breathe...ok.... melitami 07/13/04 04:13 PM Melitami, thanks for sharing your story---nt-- BL 07/14/04 05:27 AM Bev.......... LittleLisa 07/13/04 03:50 PM LittleSis.... BL 07/14/04 05:29 AM Re:Beaglelover.. LittleLisa 07/14/04 05:35 PM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? Kimm 07/13/04 01:55 PM Kimm BL 07/14/04 05:32 AM Kimm: Sheri01 07/13/04 06:35 PM Re: WOW! Wookie 07/13/04 02:26 PM Re: My secret Wookie 07/13/04 12:50 PM Doe BL 07/14/04 05:35 AM Re: Beaglelover Wookie 07/14/04 06:56 AM Davina Bevvy 07/13/04 03:37 PM Re: Bev Wookie 07/14/04 06:43 AM Re: My secret StephS 07/13/04 01:21 PM Re: Story cont. and forgiveness Wookie 07/13/04 01:45 PM Doe Sheri01 07/13/04 06:41 PM Re: Sheri01 Wookie 07/14/04 06:50 AM Re: My secret chinagrl 07/13/04 12:53 PM Re: Surviving Wookie 07/13/04 02:01 PM Re: My secret michele 07/13/04 01:16 PM Re: Thanks so much for the kind words -nt- Wookie 07/13/04 02:04 PM secret? What secret? StephS 07/13/04 12:17 PM Re: Here is mine! chinagrl 07/13/04 12:29 PM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? mspaschal259 07/13/04 12:04 PM Wow! Such a deep thread.. Jennifer Rose 07/13/04 12:00 PM Re: Wow! Such a deep thread.. atomic rose 07/13/04 12:18 PM Re: Wow! Such a deep thread.. Jennifer Rose 07/13/04 12:32 PM Re: Wow! Such a deep thread.. chinagrl 07/13/04 12:34 PM My turn (very long post!) BL 07/13/04 11:42 AM beaglelover Sheri01 07/13/04 06:51 PM Sheri01 BL 07/14/04 05:19 AM Thank You, BL Bevvy 07/13/04 03:54 PM Re: Very good Wookie 07/13/04 02:37 PM Doe BL 07/14/04 05:22 AM Re: beaglelover Wookie 07/14/04 07:00 AM Speechless! bamagirl 07/13/04 12:04 PM for beaglelover mspaschal259 07/13/04 11:53 AM Marilyn BL 07/14/04 05:25 AM for beaglelover mspaschal259 07/14/04 06:22 AM Marilyn BL 07/14/04 06:36 AM Re: for beaglelover BL 07/14/04 06:26 AM Re: for beaglelover mspaschal259 07/14/04 06:37 AM Re: for beaglelover BL 07/14/04 06:47 AM thank you for sharing this jenX 07/13/04 11:51 AM biploar is something you are born with, is what i was told.. mspaschal259 07/13/04 11:55 AM I am amazed....... BarbaraS 07/13/04 10:18 AM Wow...I'm at a loss for words right now.... Nugget 07/13/04 10:15 AM Re: Ditto! -nt- Wookie 07/13/04 02:42 PM Strength and courage Janey 07/13/04 03:09 AM Very well said, Janey...... Nugget 07/13/04 08:14 AM WOW! JBI 07/12/04 10:36 PM Laura Sue.... StephS 07/12/04 10:15 PM Re: I spilled my guts, hit the shut down key and lost it all gigi 07/12/04 11:08 PM Gigi BL 07/14/04 05:40 AM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? Vicam 07/12/04 08:02 PM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? Shell Marr 07/13/04 08:07 AM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? RachelT 07/12/04 07:35 PM BEV, I'M WAITING....... -nt- LauraSue 07/12/04 01:29 PM Whew! [Heavy Sigh]. Okay, Here Goes...... Bevvy 07/12/04 04:30 PM Bev. BL 07/13/04 12:21 PM Re: Whew! [Heavy Sigh]. Okay, Here Goes...... michele 07/13/04 11:25 AM Bless You, Michele Bevvy 07/13/04 11:30 AM Re: Bev you are a ROCK! Wookie 07/13/04 10:31 AM WELL SAID, DOE! i couldn't find those words myself. perfection! -nt- jenX 07/13/04 10:39 AM Re: Bevrs michele 07/13/04 09:44 AM Re: Bevrs BarbaraS 07/13/04 10:04 AM bbB jenX 07/12/04 06:57 PM Bev and Laura Sue Sheri01 07/12/04 06:52 PM Re: Whew! [Heavy Sigh]. Okay, Here Goes...... barbie 07/12/04 05:26 PM I'm so amazed by everyone ChristineM 07/12/04 05:30 PM I want to echo that.... atomic rose 07/12/04 05:34 PM Re: Whew! [Heavy Sigh]. Okay, Here Goes...... LauraSue 07/12/04 05:05 PM Laura Sue..... BL 07/14/04 05:44 AM Re: LauraSue CathUK 07/13/04 11:28 AM Re: LauraSue LauraSue 07/13/04 02:07 PM Re: LauraSue CathUK 07/13/04 02:25 PM Re: LauraSue lovejoy_22 07/13/04 02:20 PM Re: LS michele 07/13/04 10:13 AM Re: Whew! [Heavy Sigh]. Okay, Here Goes...... barbie 07/12/04 06:39 PM Re: Whew! [Heavy Sigh]. Okay, Here Goes...... atomic rose 07/12/04 05:16 PM Re: Whew! [Heavy Sigh]. Okay, Here Goes...... chinagrl 07/12/04 05:23 PM WOW *exhale* peaches 07/12/04 01:40 PM LS, in Bevrs' defense.... jenX 07/12/04 01:39 PM Re: LS, in Bevrs' defense.... LauraSue 07/12/04 03:46 PM Laura, you brave girl, you! jenX 07/12/04 07:01 PM Yeah, What Jen Said Bevvy 07/12/04 08:37 PM Bev ChristineM 07/12/04 08:40 PM AIS Bevvy 07/12/04 09:09 PM Bev, you are a sweetheart! crampgirl 07/13/04 10:18 AM Fascinating! ChristineM 07/12/04 09:47 PM Thanks Christine and Jenny Bevvy 07/12/04 10:18 PM OH BEV!! RachelT 07/13/04 01:43 PM Thanks Becky -- nt Bevvy 07/13/04 03:50 PM Just my 2 cents bamagirl 07/13/04 11:21 AM Re: BEV-You did nothing to deserve what you got Wookie 07/13/04 11:02 AM cut it out- you're making me all choked up, dude. -nt- jenX 07/13/04 11:03 AM Re: Me sorry JenX Wookie 07/14/04 07:06 AM Bev! peaches 07/12/04 10:56 PM Jessica Bevvy 07/13/04 08:25 AM Re: Jessica peaches 07/13/04 10:26 PM Wow Bev... StephS 07/12/04 10:13 PM Steph Bevvy 07/12/04 10:23 PM Steph..... Dr. Spice Yamin 07/13/04 08:28 PM Re: Steph..... StephS 07/13/04 10:27 PM Re: Steph..... Dr. Spice Yamin 07/14/04 07:37 AM Re: Steph..... StephS 07/14/04 07:48 AM Re: AIS chinagrl 07/12/04 09:21 PM Re: LS, in Bevrs' defense.... chinagrl 07/12/04 04:18 PM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? LauraSue 07/12/04 12:32 PM wow Jen! StephS 07/12/04 12:16 PM Re: wow Jen! michele 07/13/04 10:20 AM BEV and the rest of y'all ChristineM 07/12/04 11:01 AM Eeeeeek... atomic rose 07/12/04 10:47 AM Casey, Casey, Casey... jenX 07/12/04 10:52 AM LOL!! atomic rose 07/12/04 11:06 AM Don't *DELETED* ChristineM 07/12/04 10:36 AM ok, well... *DELETED* jenX 07/12/04 10:46 AM LOL *DELETED* ChristineM 07/12/04 10:51 AM Re: Don't stand so, don't stand so... chinagrl 07/12/04 10:42 AM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? Sheri01 07/12/04 10:34 AM Sheri01 BL 07/14/04 05:50 AM Re: Sheri, Thanks for sharing your story gigi 07/12/04 11:30 AM Congratulations, Sheri! Bevvy 07/12/04 10:47 AM Re: Congratulations, Sheri! Sheri01 07/12/04 11:49 AM Sheri01 jenX 07/12/04 10:41 AM Thanks! -nt- Sheri01 07/12/04 10:42 AM I've actually never told this to anyone in real life.. Stephie 07/12/04 09:30 AM Steph.... BL 07/14/04 05:52 AM but was it GOOD!?!?!! -nt- jenX 07/12/04 07:05 PM Stephie's been a bad girl! Sheri01 07/12/04 06:55 PM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? LauraSue 07/12/04 09:13 AM Nope, LS Bevvy 07/12/04 09:58 AM Re: Nope, LS TommyNY 07/12/04 12:21 PM tommy, jenX 07/12/04 12:43 PM Re: tommy, TommyNY 07/12/04 01:07 PM Re: tommy, Sheri01 07/12/04 01:27 PM some people did, Bevrs. jenX 07/12/04 10:10 AM wow Jen...as an adoptive mom #### 07/12/04 03:31 PM Re: some people did, Bevrs. countrygirl 07/12/04 10:20 AM BLESS YOU, Jen! Bevvy 07/12/04 10:18 AM Re: Jen, you are more than a Woman ! gigi 07/12/04 11:37 AM no, YOU'RE a gem, ya big dope. jenX 07/12/04 10:19 AM Wow Jen, you win! -nt- Stephie 07/12/04 10:15 AM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? countrygirl 07/12/04 09:20 AM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? chinagrl 07/12/04 10:37 AM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? Sheri01 07/12/04 12:02 PM Re: Your Deepest, Darkest Secret? chinagrl 07/12/04 12:59 PM Good For You, ChinaGirl Bevvy 07/12/04 10:50 AM ah, childhood memories! jenX 07/12/04 10:50 AM Re: my secret michele 07/12/04 11:33 AM michele, jenX 07/12/04 12:00 PM Re: my secret atomic rose 07/12/04 11:59 AM Re: my secret Sheri01 07/12/04 11:53 AM Re: To everyone! michele 07/13/04 10:16 AM

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