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Re: BF's mom is dying
      06/05/09 10:59 PM
Runs No Fun

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Nelly, first I want to say that I'm sorry to read both you and the BF are going through this stressful stuff. I had a good relationship with both my parents so I don't have a common frame of reference from which I can speak, but I'll add my 2¢ and speak the truths as I see them.

Going to see someone who is dying can be very therapeudic - it's usually a sad time but for those in your shoes now it can also make you fess up to real feelings as they can only arise at a time of intense actions. You and the BF may decide you don't want any "closure" but I'd bet you'd never regret going to see these people in their final days. For me, one of the worst things in life is worrying about not having done something when I had the chance and then regretting not having done it for the rest of my life.

Whatever you two decide, I hope you both find some sort of peace of mind.

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