Re: Relationships huh? Another one bites the dust...
04/18/07 02:42 AM
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Blondie13
Reged: 02/28/06
Posts: 641
Loc: Sheffield, England
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Hey Stephie
Good to hear from you, and thanks for your post.
You're right, I'm just dealing with every part of this, every feeing, as and when it happens, without trying to second guess what's coming next.
He is acting strange, it's like he's suddenly a slightly weirder, more child-like version of himself overnight - very disconcerting! As for talking about why this has happened, I think in his head the reasons he has already given are enough - but whilst a couple of them are sound, and I wish he'd said something earlier so I could've changed what I was doing, the others are just silly little things that happen in relationships.
I've just had a conversation with one of his good friends, who implied there may well be another reason this has all happened so suddenly, but I won't say anything on that until I've spoken to him. Needless to say, if it's true, my way of approaching this might have to change... 
I think after a while he will definitely realise he over-dramatised some of his annoyances, and the how they made him feel, but I doubt he will ever admit that, as he is a very stubborn man...
Thanks again, and I might well take up the email offer! Today is the first day I've had where I've felt a bit, well, crap... 
PS - how are you going? Where are you working now? What's new?
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