Re: OK - leery about posting this, but here it is....
04/05/07 05:18 AM
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Flipada
Reged: 03/02/06
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Loc: West Michigan, USA
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Oh, I'm so sorry. I have been in similar shoes. I can tell you though that someday you will look back on this as a blessing in disguise. You may deal with some hard times, some real turmoil but things will even out and you will be fine....better than fine. You will find out how strong you can be; for you and for your kids. You will find out that you are better off without him. And although it is way to early to think about it, another love (a better love) may be around the corner.
I was divorced in 2001 (separated one week after 9/11) and felt like my life was over. I moved in with my parents. My kids were 2 and 5 1/2. I went through a full year of hell and another 2 with real challenges. But they made me so strong. Now, I am well-adjusted (as are my children)with a loving husband of almost 2 years and I thank my lucky stars for him everyday.
I'm not suggesting that another man will make it all better. But you will see, the longer you two are apart, that there were things that weren't right in your marriage. I have faith in you. You're a strong woman. This WILL get better. Just keep that in mind as you hit some hard times. It WILL get better.
Big hugs for you Yoda. BIG hugs.
Lauren
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