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UPDATE #3
      01/29/07 11:10 AM
Shell Marr

Reged: 08/04/03
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Loc: Seattle, WA USA

Well, I'm at work today.... having a hard time focusing...but I've got lots to get done before the end of fiscal year on wed.

Spent the weekend at the hospital......

When I got there Fri night things had taken a turn for the worse.... renal failure and congestive heart failure ... his lungs were filling with fluid and he was really having a hard time breathing... he still needs the oxygen to breath....they have him on Dobutamine which is a heart med to help it work he went in Sat morning to have a catheter put in to start dialysis right away... his breathing was so bad they could not get him to lay flat for the 40 mins or so that it takes to put it in, so he just has a temporary one so the tubes and adapters are coming right out of his neck....so that is uncomfortable for him too, but that is all they could do at the time. His highest blood sugar was 496 (note: 70's on Wed) and when I left last night at 9:30pm he was at 405. Another thing is he is not eating.... everything makes him sick.... so they are going to have to start something today (Mon) for that. So, the first dialysis they removed close to 9 pounds of fluid... that also takes into account the 2 units of blood and 3 units of plasma he got. The second dialysis they removed close to 7 pounds..... he looked really good for about 2 hours after and then he started getting the shaky and weak again....

The last update I had was from about 9am today (Mon) from my sister.....

"Mom & Dad slept for about 1 1/2 hrs. She said once he got in the bed he kinda started coughing again and asked for cough syrup. Anyway, he thinks his endurance is up. His blood sugar is still very high (3 or 4 hundreds-can't remember) even after giving him whatever it was (lacics?) throughout the night thru IV.
They have contacted the nutritional people. I think he needs to eat or get nourishment somehow to regulate it better. I told her I would be there about 12:30pm
He has to have the permanent catheter put in right after dialysis whenever that starts. It will be 4 1/2 hrs long today."


So, I will do a few personal & business things for Mom & Dad at lunch and right after work and then go stay with Dad so Mom can get a nap or eat or whatever......

Then our next task is to find out about the Kidney centers that will take patients of my Dad's weight for dialysis.... (they have to have chairs big enough for him).... since this will be happening 3-4 times a week for about 4 hours at a time..... we want to have a place that is the closest to the house..... since Mom works nights it is really gonna be tricky getting him to his appointments during the day (when she normally sleeps)...... but between everyone in the family we will HAVE to make it work.

We still do not have any idea when he might be able to come home..... if I were going to guess.... I'd say he will be there at least another week maybe????

OK... no spell check...I'm having a hard enough time keeping my eyes open....

Love you guys and thank you sooo very much for your comments... I've read them... it is great to have such a wonderful support system here..... {{sniff sniff}}

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* My Dad Is At Peace Now - Can't Believe It's Been A Month (Updates 1-11 Below)
Shell Marr
01/25/07 09:12 AM
* Re: My Dad Is At Peace Now - Can't Believe It's Been A Month (Updates 1-11 Below)
Kiwii
03/23/07 08:24 AM
* Re: My Dad Is..... At Peace Now(Updates 1-10 Below)
emmasmom
02/20/07 01:44 PM
* Re: My Dad Is..... At Peace Now(Updates 1-10 Below)
michele
02/19/07 08:48 AM
* Re: My Dad Is..... At Peace Now(Updates 1-10 Below)
bamagirl
02/19/07 05:34 AM
* Re: My Dad Is..... At Peace Now(Updates 1-10 Below)
stillnotpoochi
02/19/07 12:53 PM
* Re: My Dad Is..... At Peace Now(Updates 1-10 Below)
LittleLisa
02/18/07 03:08 PM
* I'm so sorry.
chinagrl
02/18/07 09:16 AM
* I'm so sorry. I'm praying for you and your family. -nt-
Ulrika
02/18/07 07:07 AM
* Oh Shell...
atomic rose
02/18/07 07:03 AM
* My prayers are with you and your family.--nt
epa_ginger
02/18/07 06:38 AM
* So sorry Shell
Portageegal
02/18/07 05:28 AM
* Re: My Dad Was In The ER Last Night & Admitted (Updates 1-4 Below)
Snowy
02/02/07 06:50 AM
* *HUG* Shell, at least it sounds like he's in a place where they will be able to help him..
khyricat
01/29/07 05:12 AM
* Shell, how is your dad? n/t
hohoyumyum
01/28/07 09:00 PM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted...
Toady
01/25/07 05:23 PM
* **Huge Hugs**
Stephie
01/25/07 04:46 PM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted...
Gracie
01/25/07 04:17 PM
* *big hugs*
atomic rose
01/25/07 03:37 PM
* Sending hugs and love and good thoughts and prayers your way Shell. n/t
hohoyumyum
01/25/07 03:18 PM
* {{{{{Hugs}}}}}
ChristineM
01/25/07 03:10 PM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted...
K2
01/25/07 10:25 AM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted...
michele
01/25/07 12:25 PM
* UPDATE #1
Shell Marr
01/25/07 10:20 AM
* UPDATE #2
Shell Marr
01/26/07 01:25 PM
* UPDATE #3
Shell Marr
01/29/07 11:10 AM
* UPDATE #4
Shell Marr
01/31/07 08:18 AM
* UPDATE #5
Shell Marr
02/04/07 09:21 PM
* UPDATE #6
Shell Marr
02/05/07 10:40 PM
* UPDATE #7
Shell Marr
02/07/07 01:36 PM
* UPDATE #8
Shell Marr
02/12/07 01:01 PM
* UPDATE #9
Shell Marr
02/15/07 10:13 AM
* UPDATE #10
Shell Marr
02/17/07 07:41 PM
* UPDATE #11 (I can't believe it's been a month already)
Shell Marr
03/18/07 10:08 PM
* We love you, Shell.
HeatherAdministrator
03/23/07 10:10 AM
* I'm thinking of you, Shell. (m)
Sand
03/19/07 01:08 PM
* Re: UPDATE #11 (I can't believe it's been a month already)
Angela E.
03/19/07 07:28 AM
* Shell, I'm glad we can be here for you... and so sorry for your loss..
khyricat
03/19/07 05:56 AM
* Re: UPDATE #11 (I can't believe it's been a month already)
hohoyumyum
03/18/07 10:35 PM
* Oh, Shell....I'm so sorry to hear that....
_Willow
03/01/07 03:31 PM
* Re: UPDATE #10
jen1013
02/24/07 11:07 AM
* I am so terribly sorry to hear this, Shell.
Sand
02/24/07 08:56 AM
* Just wanted you to know am thinking of you....
Natalie1985
02/22/07 03:39 PM
* Re: Peace & Love
Lumiere
02/23/07 04:48 PM
* Re: UPDATE #10
AstroChick
02/22/07 02:34 PM
* I'm so sorry ...
susieannah
02/24/07 04:07 AM
* Re: UPDATE #10
kenjari
02/20/07 07:28 AM
* Re: UPDATE #10
tc2004
02/20/07 05:50 AM
* Re: Love and prayers to you and your family. -nt-
Yoda (formerly Hans)
02/19/07 01:02 PM
* Re: UPDATE #10
Stephie
02/19/07 10:35 AM
* I am so sorry Shell..
khyricat
02/19/07 05:59 AM
* Shell
Janey
02/18/07 07:38 PM
* My Sympathy
Betharoo
02/18/07 02:55 PM
* Re: UPDATE #10
hohoyumyum
02/18/07 02:45 PM
* Re: UPDATE #10
suzyq
02/18/07 12:25 PM
* Re: UPDATE #10
Angela E.
02/18/07 11:45 AM
* Re: Shell, I'm so sorry.
lalala
02/18/07 10:46 AM
* Re: UPDATE #10
Gracie
02/18/07 10:21 AM
* Deepest Condolences
Toady
02/18/07 09:58 AM
* I am so, so sorry
ChristineM
02/18/07 08:53 AM
* Re: UPDATE #10
grand_am_92
02/18/07 08:41 AM
* My Condolences
Snorkie
02/18/07 07:47 AM
* Re: UPDATE #10
Flipada
02/18/07 05:57 AM
* Re: UPDATE #10
Blondie13
02/18/07 05:21 AM
* Re: UPDATE #9
lalala
02/15/07 07:52 PM
* Re: UPDATE #9
hohoyumyum
02/15/07 04:45 PM
* *HUG*
khyricat
02/15/07 12:50 PM
* Re: UPDATE #8
ChristineM
02/14/07 05:26 PM
* Re: UPDATE #8
Angela E.
02/13/07 10:29 AM
* Re: UPDATE #8
BL
02/13/07 01:13 PM
* lots of hugs...
khyricat
02/13/07 05:33 AM
* Re: UPDATE #8
Flipada
02/12/07 05:18 PM
* Re: UPDATE #8
Toady
02/12/07 03:31 PM
* Re: UPDATE #8
kenjari
02/12/07 03:05 PM
* Re: UPDATE #8
hohoyumyum
02/12/07 02:33 PM
* Re: UPDATE #8
AstroChick
02/12/07 01:33 PM
* Love and hugs, Shell!
ChristineM
02/08/07 06:22 PM
* Re: UPDATE #7
barbie
02/08/07 02:00 PM
* *HUGS* to you and your family..
khyricat
02/08/07 07:11 AM
* Re: UPDATE #7
AstroChick
02/08/07 06:26 AM
* Re: UPDATE #7
hohoyumyum
02/07/07 07:05 PM
* Re: UPDATE #7
atomic rose
02/07/07 03:45 PM
* Re: UPDATE #7
Jennifer Rose
02/07/07 01:53 PM
* Re: UPDATE #7
Toady
02/07/07 01:43 PM
* Re: UPDATE #7
michele
02/07/07 02:18 PM
* Shell
Janey
02/06/07 06:52 PM
* Hugs and prayers for all of you. n/t
hohoyumyum
02/06/07 11:11 AM
* Re: UPDATE #6
K2
02/06/07 08:33 AM
* Re: UPDATE #6
kenjari
02/06/07 07:50 AM
* Re: UPDATE #6
michele
02/06/07 07:30 AM
* I hope he's ok Shell..
khyricat
02/06/07 05:10 AM
* Positive vibes coming your way!!! -nt-
*Melissa*
02/05/07 01:37 PM
* Thinking of you and sending hugs! -nt-
lalala
02/05/07 09:36 AM
* Still praying for you and dad!-nt
Angela E.
02/05/07 10:28 AM
* Love, hugs, prayers and positive vibes coming your way! -nt-
ChristineM
02/05/07 09:33 AM
* Re: UPDATE #5
bamagirl
02/05/07 08:00 AM
* Re: UPDATE #5
michele
02/05/07 07:04 AM
* Re: UPDATE #5
hohoyumyum
02/04/07 10:36 PM
* Re: UPDATE #5
Tilden
02/04/07 10:12 PM
* Re: UPDATE #4
atomic rose
02/01/07 10:24 AM
* Re: UPDATE #4
*Melissa*
01/31/07 06:03 PM
* prayers and thoughts for you and family nt
suzyq
01/31/07 05:46 PM
* Re: UPDATE #4
Flipada
01/31/07 03:17 PM
* You're in my prayers. n/t
hohoyumyum
01/31/07 02:54 PM
* Re: UPDATE #4
khyricat
01/31/07 09:33 AM
* Re: UPDATE #4
michele
01/31/07 10:07 AM
* So sorry to hear about this...
chinagrl
01/30/07 03:48 PM
* Shell
hohoyumyum
01/29/07 06:22 PM
* Re: Love, hugs and prayers for you and your dad Shell! -nt-
LittleLisa
01/29/07 05:54 PM
* Re: UPDATE #3
lalala
01/29/07 04:15 PM
* Re: UPDATE #3
suzyq
01/29/07 03:43 PM
* Sending hugs, thoughts, and prayers your way! -nt-
ChristineM
01/29/07 03:04 PM
* Re: UPDATE #3
jules
01/29/07 01:02 PM
* Re: UPDATE #2
Toady
01/27/07 09:23 AM
* Re: UPDATE #2
michele
01/29/07 08:46 AM
* Re: UPDATE #2
Angela E.
01/27/07 10:55 AM
* Re: UPDATE #2
kenjari
01/26/07 05:37 PM
* Re: UPDATE #2
suzyq
01/26/07 03:53 PM
* Re: UPDATE #2
lalala
01/26/07 02:31 PM
* We're here for you, Shell.
hohoyumyum
01/26/07 02:27 PM
* Re: UPDATE #2
*Melissa*
01/26/07 01:41 PM
* More hugs
ChristineM
01/26/07 01:30 PM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted - UPDATE #1
Kandee
01/25/07 10:32 PM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted - UPDATE #1
Flipada
01/25/07 02:41 PM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted - UPDATE #1
*Melissa*
01/25/07 12:41 PM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted...
Jennifer Rose
01/25/07 10:06 AM
* You're in my thoughts -nt
MCV
01/25/07 09:40 AM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted...
lalala
01/25/07 09:16 AM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted...
Pami
01/27/07 11:47 AM
* Re: My Dad was in the ER last night and was admitted...
dhaggerty
01/27/07 02:53 PM

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