if you know someone who loves you a whole bunch and who enjoys being pregnant you can do the surrogate things where your egg and your husbands sperm is implanted in a surrogate womb and carried to term. There are women who do it for desperate couples or friends who do it for friends. The not friend route costs money of course and either way there is the costs of all the doctor stuff of course. Adoption as you said is the other option, you could of course try for a child from a foreign country and that way it is less expensive, but you have a good chance of getting ahealthy child whereas if you want a white, young child you will pay through the nose to those adoptions agencies, they make it not fair for those couples who have so much love to give. Good luck and you deserve to have good things happen to you.