Re: I'm so sorry Shannon!!
05/30/06 03:51 PM
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Blondie13
Reged: 02/28/06
Posts: 641
Loc: Sheffield, England
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What a jerk!!! The way he is totally disregarding both you and Kayleigh is absolutely disgraceful, he is an embarassment to his gender. I can't imagine how you are feeling, and am sending all my sympathy and good wishes over the Atlantic to you right now.
BUT - why have you not kicked him out the house today??!! If you file for separation he'll have to cover the rent and living expenses anyway, so don't wait for him to move out because of him 'offering' to keep paying the rent 'til you can manage' - he has to pay it anyway, and for as long as Kayleigh is living with you, not just til you are working.
Please, please, please PLEASE go see a lawyer asap, if money is an problem there are those who offer their services for free. You need to know NOW exactly what your rights are, and get this idiot out of your house.
It definitely sounds like a mid-life crisis, but that does not in any way excuse his shameful behaviour - and you now need to put yourself and Kayleigh first, and not even consider him for a single second.
I'm just so mad at him on your behalf, I hate it when people like him put great people through all this pain. All I can say is that, based on his current behaviour, you are far better off without him - and are such a great person you will find someone better for sure.
GRRRRRR!!!!! Please, get him out!!
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