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Re: An update on my situation....
      05/27/06 05:31 PM
hohoyumyum

Reged: 05/28/03
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Loc: SacTown, CA

What a nasty thing to have to go through. I think that if he is refusing to tell you why he's leaving it's probably something he is either ashamed to tell you or he still cares about your feelings and doesn't want to hurt you. In all honesty, I'd guess the ashamed one. Usually when people are angry they bluntly tell people why they are. From what you've been posting, it does sound like there is someone else or that he at least wants there to be. Having never been through this type of situation I can't give you any good advice or tell you what to do to heal a relationship. But having been through some different nasty circumstances, I can say that what is most important is that you take care of yourself w/o regard to him. You deserve better than to be with someone who doesn't apreciate you. I think that we get opportunities to learn how to love before we are able to find the right person for us. Then when we do find that person, we don't have to use them as a tool to learn on. You can be together because you want to be and not because you need to be. Maybe that's what this has been for you. I know this probably isn't what you want to hear right now and maybe you flat out disagree. That's alright if you do. It's just my thoughts on love and why we have to suffer heartbreak time and again.

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* An update on my situation....
_Willow
05/27/06 02:24 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Angela E.
05/31/06 08:54 AM
* Thank you, and I hope
_Willow
05/31/06 04:04 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Honey mix
05/29/06 05:21 PM
* Honey mix
_Willow
05/29/06 05:25 PM
* Re: Honey mix
Sara-Sage
05/29/06 06:34 PM
* Actually it's fluctuated
_Willow
05/29/06 10:36 PM
* Re: Actually it's fluctuated
Sara-Sage
05/30/06 07:29 AM
* Re: Actually it's fluctuated
cailin
05/30/06 01:20 AM
* Yeah....
_Willow
05/30/06 03:58 PM
* Re: Yeah....
Flipada
05/30/06 04:29 PM
* Wow
_Willow
05/30/06 09:32 PM
* Re: Honey mix
Honey mix
05/29/06 05:28 PM
* Goodness, what's your secret? Aren't you only in grade seven??
_Willow
05/29/06 05:29 PM
* Re: Goodness, what's your secret? Aren't you only in grade seven??
Honey mix
05/29/06 05:38 PM
* just teasing you, kiddo....
_Willow
05/29/06 05:45 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Yoda (formerly Hans)
05/28/06 06:19 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Sara-Sage
05/29/06 07:25 AM
* Re: I agree, Tina.
Yoda (formerly Hans)
05/29/06 03:10 PM
* Re: I agree, Tina.
Sara-Sage
05/29/06 06:33 PM
* Oh, you guys are so sweet!!
_Willow
05/29/06 05:23 PM
* Re: Oh, you guys are so sweet!!
Sara-Sage
05/29/06 06:37 PM
* That would be hard...
_Willow
05/29/06 10:37 PM
* Re: That would be hard...
Sara-Sage
05/30/06 07:31 AM
* Yeah, me too
_Willow
05/30/06 09:34 PM
* Re: Shannon
michele
05/30/06 10:18 AM
* Very well said Michele, you're so wise
Sara-Sage
05/30/06 10:31 AM
* michelle and tina
_Willow
05/30/06 09:46 PM
* Re: if you teach today
Flipada
05/31/06 03:02 AM
* Big hugs, thinking of you still, -nt
pinkprincess
05/31/06 06:09 AM
* Re: Very well said Michele, you're so wise
pinkprincess
05/30/06 10:44 AM
* thanks.....
_Willow
05/28/06 06:44 PM
* Shannon
Augie
05/28/06 06:54 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/28/06 05:55 PM
* Oh, wow...
ChristineM
05/28/06 04:50 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Lyndsey
05/27/06 08:56 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
hohoyumyum
05/27/06 05:31 PM
* Interesting!
_Willow
05/27/06 05:42 PM
* Re: Interesting!
Gracie
05/27/06 08:36 PM
* The irony is, I can't see myself like that either...
_Willow
05/28/06 12:07 AM
* Maybe...
hohoyumyum
05/28/06 12:30 AM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Sara-Sage
05/27/06 04:54 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Gracie
05/27/06 08:32 PM
* No, today he said
_Willow
05/28/06 12:09 AM
* Re: An update on my situation....
_Willow
05/27/06 04:57 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Sara-Sage
05/27/06 05:04 PM
* LOL please do!
_Willow
05/27/06 05:31 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Vicam
05/27/06 03:20 PM
* Thank you, and that's what i wish I could get...
_Willow
05/27/06 04:34 PM
* Re: Oh Shannon, you poor thing
Blondie13
05/27/06 03:09 PM
* Re: Oh Shannon, you poor thing
Sara-Sage
05/27/06 04:58 PM
* nope, not yet. There's a reason tho
_Willow
05/27/06 05:29 PM
* Re: nope, not yet. There's a reason tho
pinkprincess
05/29/06 10:09 AM
* Re: nope, not yet. There's a reason tho
Gracie
05/27/06 08:30 PM
* Re: nope, not yet. There's a reason tho
gigi
05/29/06 11:19 PM
* Yes, she does deserve more.
_Willow
05/30/06 09:59 PM
* Oh he is such crap
Nelly
05/30/06 11:35 PM
* LOL you rock.
_Willow
05/31/06 04:01 PM
* You are so sweet!
_Willow
05/28/06 12:05 AM
* Thanks, Blondie. I agree.
_Willow
05/27/06 04:33 PM

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