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An update on my situation....
      05/27/06 02:24 PM
_Willow

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Loc: Canada.

Oh it has been a day...

Last night I went out with some teacher friends, had a good time, even had a few guys hitting on me...good for the ego. Drank a bit too much and feel like warmed over barf today.

Today I talked with DH after he got another long mystery phone call. I said "do you not recall we said neither of us would date someone if we lived in the same house" And he denied me ever saying that of course. He swears he's not at all with anyone but it sounds like he has an interest in someone. He said now he's popular, with all these friends from the restaurant seeing his party side, i guess...(ps that's 99% female staff...)

Anyhow, he said that his mom talks to him as soon as I finish talking to her...and that he knows I still have hope for the relationship, and as far as he's concerned it's a marriage on paper only.

We said we'd get some lawyers.

He still refuses to tell me why he's leaving and obviously is absolutely convinced that counselling for him would be useless.

Soo, I have much less hope today. I guess if I have to do it on my own, I have to! I do love him with all my heart but am pretty sickened by his coldness and bluntness.

However, I said he can stay unless he's dating someone so we can get our affirs in order. I guess I have to go see a lawyer soon because apparently if I get a teaching contract, he can quit his job and expect me to carry him. Good luck with that!!

So there, that's me today. I'm a little head swimmy from last night, so am having a hard time knowing what I feel right now. Defeated would be a good one. And dangit, i just went out and bought the book "Fight For Your marriage."


Ugh I've been pretty D this week. I finally went and got some immodium but I've lost 15 pounds already...ha ha, only 40 to go.... I am anorexic but not really by choice. I try to eat but can't get anything in. I can only handle like, a cracker every few hours! Big time BRAT diet right now. But I can't even stomach toast.

Please continue to pray for, or to send thoughts up, for me. Thank you for all your wonderful advice and support.

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Keep on keepin' on...

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* An update on my situation....
_Willow
05/27/06 02:24 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Angela E.
05/31/06 08:54 AM
* Thank you, and I hope
_Willow
05/31/06 04:04 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Honey mix
05/29/06 05:21 PM
* Honey mix
_Willow
05/29/06 05:25 PM
* Re: Honey mix
Sara-Sage
05/29/06 06:34 PM
* Actually it's fluctuated
_Willow
05/29/06 10:36 PM
* Re: Actually it's fluctuated
Sara-Sage
05/30/06 07:29 AM
* Re: Actually it's fluctuated
cailin
05/30/06 01:20 AM
* Yeah....
_Willow
05/30/06 03:58 PM
* Re: Yeah....
Flipada
05/30/06 04:29 PM
* Wow
_Willow
05/30/06 09:32 PM
* Re: Honey mix
Honey mix
05/29/06 05:28 PM
* Goodness, what's your secret? Aren't you only in grade seven??
_Willow
05/29/06 05:29 PM
* Re: Goodness, what's your secret? Aren't you only in grade seven??
Honey mix
05/29/06 05:38 PM
* just teasing you, kiddo....
_Willow
05/29/06 05:45 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Yoda (formerly Hans)
05/28/06 06:19 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Sara-Sage
05/29/06 07:25 AM
* Re: I agree, Tina.
Yoda (formerly Hans)
05/29/06 03:10 PM
* Re: I agree, Tina.
Sara-Sage
05/29/06 06:33 PM
* Oh, you guys are so sweet!!
_Willow
05/29/06 05:23 PM
* Re: Oh, you guys are so sweet!!
Sara-Sage
05/29/06 06:37 PM
* That would be hard...
_Willow
05/29/06 10:37 PM
* Re: That would be hard...
Sara-Sage
05/30/06 07:31 AM
* Yeah, me too
_Willow
05/30/06 09:34 PM
* Re: Shannon
michele
05/30/06 10:18 AM
* Very well said Michele, you're so wise
Sara-Sage
05/30/06 10:31 AM
* michelle and tina
_Willow
05/30/06 09:46 PM
* Re: if you teach today
Flipada
05/31/06 03:02 AM
* Big hugs, thinking of you still, -nt
pinkprincess
05/31/06 06:09 AM
* Re: Very well said Michele, you're so wise
pinkprincess
05/30/06 10:44 AM
* thanks.....
_Willow
05/28/06 06:44 PM
* Shannon
Augie
05/28/06 06:54 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Dr. Spice Yamin
05/28/06 05:55 PM
* Oh, wow...
ChristineM
05/28/06 04:50 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Lyndsey
05/27/06 08:56 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
hohoyumyum
05/27/06 05:31 PM
* Interesting!
_Willow
05/27/06 05:42 PM
* Re: Interesting!
Gracie
05/27/06 08:36 PM
* The irony is, I can't see myself like that either...
_Willow
05/28/06 12:07 AM
* Maybe...
hohoyumyum
05/28/06 12:30 AM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Sara-Sage
05/27/06 04:54 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Gracie
05/27/06 08:32 PM
* No, today he said
_Willow
05/28/06 12:09 AM
* Re: An update on my situation....
_Willow
05/27/06 04:57 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Sara-Sage
05/27/06 05:04 PM
* LOL please do!
_Willow
05/27/06 05:31 PM
* Re: An update on my situation....
Vicam
05/27/06 03:20 PM
* Thank you, and that's what i wish I could get...
_Willow
05/27/06 04:34 PM
* Re: Oh Shannon, you poor thing
Blondie13
05/27/06 03:09 PM
* Re: Oh Shannon, you poor thing
Sara-Sage
05/27/06 04:58 PM
* nope, not yet. There's a reason tho
_Willow
05/27/06 05:29 PM
* Re: nope, not yet. There's a reason tho
pinkprincess
05/29/06 10:09 AM
* Re: nope, not yet. There's a reason tho
Gracie
05/27/06 08:30 PM
* Re: nope, not yet. There's a reason tho
gigi
05/29/06 11:19 PM
* Yes, she does deserve more.
_Willow
05/30/06 09:59 PM
* Oh he is such crap
Nelly
05/30/06 11:35 PM
* LOL you rock.
_Willow
05/31/06 04:01 PM
* You are so sweet!
_Willow
05/28/06 12:05 AM
* Thanks, Blondie. I agree.
_Willow
05/27/06 04:33 PM

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