she sounds just like a friend i used to have...we were inseperable (did i spell that right!? lol)..anyways all the sudden she stopped talking to me for 9 months...i'd call her, email her...never an answer and all for no reason..finally i wrote and told her how shes being rude and all she could say back was "rachelle i've been busy, some of us have to work you know"...so i told her im sorry her life is so busy that she cant make time for a friend and in the end..if she keeps that up..she wont have no friends at all...so we havent talked since then for over a year and the other day i get a call from her..and shes all "we should hang out again"..etc...so of course I said im really too busy anymore..i know it sounds rude but it made me feel tons better and ill see her now and again and i dont feel hurt or anything anymore..she was just someone i knew in the past and i have great friends now who showed me she was never the definition of a "friend" cause if she was she'd never treat me like that...so after writing this book..i agree tina..u shouldnt bother with her again