I agree with your husband that we meet certain people for a reason. One of the girls is hugely responsible for getting me to dump my ex because she was super blunt about how rotten he was to me. Maybe that was her purpose.
I don't have her email anymore. I wouldn't call either of them. I just hate that it's up to me to make the next move. I wouldn't want either of them responsding just to be polite. I think that there's a chance that it's easier now that I've moved to not be part of my life because they still see the ex.
I also can't help but think that it's probably a good thing that I don't keep in touch because the ex found out way too much about Tommy and me through one girl I "thought" was a friend. I wouldn't want that with them. Plus one thing that bugs me is that the one girl was always mentionning people that were touchy subjects for me. Maybe this is for the best...
The ones that are truly great friends are coming 500 miles to my wedding, email me and generally make the mutual effort to keep in touch.
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